is this pedofilic?

[STEROS]

have you ever seen an 11 or 12 year old girl and thought to yourself, "damn, this girl's going to be fucking hot when she's an adult."

have any of you guys thought like that before?

i'm confused with myself.

[Vox Ducis]

It's called ''keeping an eye on your investments''.

[Zanick]

have you ever seen an 11 or 12 year old girl and thought to yourself, "damn, this girl's going to be fucking hot when she's an adult."

have any of you guys thought like that before?

i'm confused with myself.

You're just observing certain developmental traits that appeal to you, but you really value these physical qualities in women closer to your age and only recognize their potential in prepubescent girls. That's not so strange in my opinion, but I'm not a sex psychologist or anything like that.

Considering the psychiatric diagnosis, it really doesn't sound like you have any preference for children this age. Unless you have to actively resist sexual urges towards children, I wouldn't worry about it, what you're feeling is natural. Most important is not to judge yourself.

[STEROS]

thanks for the insight... :)

Unless you have to actively resist sexual urges towards children

nope -- no pedo here... i couldn't live with myself if i fucked a child... that's like, morally and physically wrong.

[Pee Vee Proots, M.D.]

thanks for the insight... :)



nope -- no pedo here... i couldn't live with myself if i fucked a child... that's like, morally and physically wrong.

Morally? Yeah. The morals dictated by our current global nanny-state definitely don't allow for those kinds of sexy shenanigans. But... physically? If it bleeds it breeds. We evolved to fuck girls that age and we did so for pretty much the entirety of human history. It never caused harm before people started pretending it did. The pedophile doesn't cause psychological trauma, the isolation and special treatment the rest of society gives the willing "victim" is what fucks people up. They tell them it was wrong even if it didn't feel wrong.

Also 13 is legal in a few places.

[Haiti's Space Agency]

Not really but I wouldn't say it out loud.

[ratfrink]

If it bleeds it breeds...
Not quite. Menstruation happens independently from ovulation; only around 50% of girls are ovulating three years after their first menstruation. (http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1365-2265.1980.tb02125.x/abstract;jsessionid=72B86B0B24623E48E74DFC7B560FAE C2.d01t04)

Besides, puberty does not begin within a specific age-range. Children today are becoming pubescent far earlier than they were just 100 years ago, (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puberty) a trend which is still increasing. (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/7824699/Girls-now-reaching-puberty-before-10-a-year-sooner-than-20-years-ago.html)

Whether or not there is a psychological or moral argument against having sex with 13-year-olds is another matter, but girls of that age are not usually physically ready to have children, and they almost certainly did not do so in the past.

[Struwwelpeter]

but girls of that age are not usually physically ready to have children

That is a lie.

[Marsh]

11 and 12 and you're already too late.