How to get a fuck buddy??

[birdy]

I know you're all probably thinking this is a stupid question, and I don't blame any of you. It's not really that I have a problem getting a fuck buddy, it's what happens once I get one that is the big problem.

I'm sick and tired of getting into relationships where I don't necessarily have any romantic feelings towards the guy, all I want is a good hard fuck every once in a while.

The problem I have is that everytime I do get a fuck buddy, it leads to the guy getting these 'romantic' feeling towards me, and this is NEVER what I want! It just complicates things to a point where I don't even want to deal with it.

Where and how do I find a guy who just wants what I want? Is it so hard to get a guy who wants 'no attatchment necessary' sex?

[Flatland]

This is where and how.

[k4aic]

well you're right it's not that hard, but I seem to think IDK are you not telling them up front you want NSA sex? You need to make it clear before you jump into the sack you just want to fuck. Now most guys would approve, since a lot of men that is just what they want anyways, but keep it clear, to just sex, and do not make them too close of a friend. Keep it as I will call you when I want you type thing.

I agree, once things seem to get too attached it all goes to hell. Sometimes you can not stop that from happening because it can be easy to want more from someone. Just make sure you keep your needs and wants known and maybe that will keep it simple.

[Epique]

it'S like k4aic said if your up front about it most blokes will be fine but there are exceptions to every rule.

[birdy]

Maybe it's just bad luck on my part, I don't really know. All I know is I need a good lay every so often, and I'm not really comfortable with repeated one night stands, if that makes sense.

[k4aic]

yea I know what you mean, like a guy you can be comfortable with preferably the same one...that way your not just going from one cock to another..

Ive had my share of "buddies" when I was younger, one was married..that lasted for 8 months or so..which him being married was good for me, since it didnt give room for that bullshit of feelings..except for when he said if he wasnt with her he would be with me..and let me tell you I ended that shit so fast after that..since I knew it wasnt true...and I felt he said that to keep me thinking it was more than it was..which I did not want it to be more than a fuck thing..we both got what we wanted..

Remember though fuck buddies and friends are different. Dont let the guy think you are all buddy buddy friends cause usually that is where it can lead to the feelings.

[birdy]

Yeah, I don't really wanna resort to going from one cock to another, it's not really my style. And you're right about the 'friends' thing. Friends with 'benefits' is complelely different to a fuck buddy or a booty call.

[freeRadical]

all I want is a good hard fuck every once in a while

If there were more women like you in the world, I believe it would be a better place:)

[aliveupboy]

"hey you wanna be fuck buddies?" "sure" "ok, but we are never are going to be anything more than that, start getting emotionally involved and its over" "k... bend over".

[birdy]

If there were more women like you in the world, I believe it would be a better place:)

Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places ;)

[birdy]

"hey you wanna be fuck buddies?" "sure" "ok, but we are never are going to be anything more than that, start getting emotionally involved and its over" "k... bend over".

Yes! That is exactly what a I want.

[redhead]

Where are you from? I'll set you up with my fuckbuddy.

[skinny love]

i have a fuck buddy right now and it's not a very fulfilling relationship. i have no feelings for her but infidelity gets stale.

[birdy]

Where are you from? I'll set you up with my fuckbuddy.

Oh a fellow Australian. I'm from Brisbane.

[birdy]

i have a fuck buddy right now and it's not a very fulfilling relationship. i have no feelings for her but infidelity gets stale.

Uhm... I don't think 'fidelity' comes under the job description of fuck buddy.

[skinny love]

Uhm... I don't think 'fidelity' comes under the job description of fuck buddy.

yeah that's why i'm bored with her. maybe you'd feel different though.

[Anima Mundi]

Why are there no women like this near where I am.

[Death_Merchant]

I second that. There should be more women like you. If it would have been 4 months ago, and you lived here in Canada, I'd fuck you all you wanted, be your friend, and never expect a thing.

I have some tips though about fuck friends. Avoid intimate behavior. No kissing on the lips, no making out. Kissing is fine on the neck, inner legs, tits, collar bone, but not on the lips. Don't kiss when you meet, or leave. No cuddling either. You fuck, and you get up and watch TV, leave, or do anything but cuddle. Basically, avoid anything that you would consider a romantic side of things. This way it stays only in the friends, and fucking zone. Good luck.

Honestly though. I'd prefer to be in love with a good women, who understands my needs in and out of the bedroom. Fuck friends just don't do it for me. I find the sex is much better, when you're with someone focused on your pleasure.

[birdy]

I find the sex is much better, when you're with someone focused on your pleasure.

I'm actually inclined to agree with you here, but I'm done with relationships... for a little while at least. Guys drive me absolutely nuts sometimes, but my poor vagina just needs to be pounded.

[jackketch]

You're probably making the mistake of trying to be a 'friend' as well as a fuck buddy. That's a bit difficult for most men.

That probably doesn't make much sense (i'm still only on my 2nd coffee of the day).

The minute you've come you need to throw him out (assuming he's come). Nicely, kindly but firmly. Your knickers go back on and he goes out the door. Business like-pretend you're a prostitute. Tell him it was good and you'll phone him again soon but now he is leaving. No cuddling or talking.

[jackketch]

Other thing you need to realize is that all the boys here saying "Wow, I'd be JUST your fuckbuddy' don't really know what they are talking about.

Yes a man can have detached sex, enjoy it and not fall in love with the girl. Once, twice, thrice...but sometime along the way he is going to start having feelings for her. It's something prehistoric again.

[Death_Merchant]

I'm actually inclined to agree with you here, but I'm done with relationships... for a little while at least. Guys drive me absolutely nuts sometimes, but my poor vagina just needs to be pounded.

I hear that. I have to search pretty hard to find a woman that really suites me. I find the problem is that most women want to run the show but don't have direction. The modern men today have lost their edge. They don't know how to assert themselves, take control, grow some balls, treat women right, and keep their shit together. Fucking pathetic how manhood has been stolen. There used to be a time when a man took responsibility for his girl on his shoulders, and kept her in line without crossing a line into abusive behavior. Shit worked well, and then feminists tried to reverse the roles, which has been an epic failure.

[jackketch]

I hear that. I have to search pretty hard to find a woman that really suites me. I find the problem is that most women want to run the show but don't have direction. The modern men today have lost their edge. They don't know how to assert themselves, take control, grow some balls, treat women right, and keep their shit together. Fucking pathetic how manhood has been stolen. There used to be a time when a man took responsibility for his girl on his shoulders, and kept her in line without crossing a line into abusive behavior. Shit worked well, and then feminists tried to reverse the roles, which has been an epic failure.

This.

You have given out too much Reputation in the last 24 hours, try again later.

[birdy]

I guess I just need more practice at the 'acting like a prostitue' thing. It's a little hard to drop the caring nature of me, I am a nurse after all.

[jackketch]

I guess I just need more practice at the 'acting like a prostitue' thing. It's a little hard to drop the caring nature of me, I am a nurse after all.

Yep.

Or just buy a Rampant Rabbit.

:P

[birdy]

Haha, only a couple weeks ago I was seriously considering it, but then I spent my money on clothes instead.

[Death_Merchant]

Other thing you need to realize is that all the boys here saying "Wow, I'd be JUST your fuckbuddy' don't really know what they are talking about.

Yes a man can have detached sex, enjoy it and not fall in love with the girl. Once, twice, thrice...but sometime along the way he is going to start having feelings for her. It's something prehistoric again.

You are definitely a man who's been around the block. I'm one of those few that can separate, but I'm not normal, lol. I gave up on fuck buddies because women fall in love with me as soon as I fuck them. Then they ask to be my submissive. It thought it was odd the first time, but then all my relationships since have gone that way. I only mentioned it, cause it seems to be one of those prehistoric things.

[birdy]

Damn those prehistoric things.

[jackketch]

You are definitely a man who's been around the block. I'm one of those few that can separate, but I'm not normal, lol. I gave up on fuck buddies because women fall in love with me as soon as I fuck them. Then they ask to be my submissive. It thought it was odd the first time, but then all my relationships since have gone that way. I only mentioned it, cause it seems to be one of those prehistoric things.

A lot of it is due to your attitude. Why that should be I don't know but basically you weren't just 'fucking' that girl but 'subjugating' her, making her your property....in a nice way of course.

And yes , a lot of women react to that the way their great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-greatmothers did.

I mentioned in another thread ages back that one of the first thing I noticed about being a sadist was that looking at a girl and thinking about spanking her can make a man very attractive.

[birdy]

Spanking is hot.

[all_for_war]

male stripper or personals of your local news paper or you could get paid for your pleasures and be a hooker

[birdy]

As tempting as the idea of being a hooker is, I think I'll have to pass.

[all_for_war]

in my country starting price for one is 300$ hr

[Mankonaut X]

in my country starting price for one is 300$ hr

Well fuck that shit.

[jackketch]

Well fuck that shit.

Uhm no, not at that price.

[birdy]

Yeah 300$ an hour does seem like a hefty price. I don't really think I would be worth that much lol.

[psycho_8b]

It's easy sweetheart...Do it the guy way.

Capture your prey...You want a good hard seeing-to...And there he is.
So you go about it...You get yours...He gets his...Done.

This is the key point...
Afterwards, you're doing what you do (whatever it is...Breathing hard, enjoying the wave, wiping spunk off your moosh. Whatever) then you get dressed.
You tell him that you had a great time and that he's a fucking stallion (even if he's not) and that you'll call him.
Leave the option open.

Make sure you tell him it was just sex and to enjoy it for what it was and that's it.

If you leave loose ends, he'll be thinking of you and, seeing as he's a stallion, you'll want to be with him full time.

Basicaly put...

"Fuck dude, that was great. You know your shit. Don't go getting any feelings for me though, man. It was a fuck. I'll probably call you again to get the job done some time though, big boy. See ya around."

He's now a player and you're free of his shit.

[jackketch]

It's easy sweetheart...Do it the guy way.

Capture your prey...You want a good hard seeing-to...And there he is.
So you go about it...You get yours...He gets his...Done.

This is the key point...
Afterwards, you're doing what you do (whatever it is...Breathing hard, enjoying the wave, wiping spunk off your moosh. Whatever) then you get dressed.
You tell him that you had a great time and that he's a fucking stallion (even if he's not) and that you'll call him.
Leave the option open.

Make sure you tell him it was just sex and to enjoy it for what it was and that's it.

If you leave loose ends, he'll be thinking of you and, seeing as he's a stallion, you'll want to be with him full time.

Basicaly put...

"Fuck dude, that was great. You know your shit. Don't go getting any feelings for me though, man. It was a fuck. I'll probably call you again to get the job done some time though, big boy. See ya around."

He's now a 'playa' and you'll just have to shoot yourself for sleeping with a chav

Fixed for accuracy.

[all_for_war]

Uhm no, not at that price.

yes at that price and they all independent

[psycho_8b]

fixed for accuracy.

bahahahahahahahahaha!!!

[darkeasterbunny]

Just have to find someone who's not full of bullcrap. Most people just say , hell quite often they believe it themselves, a lot of shit.

You gotta find someone who really deep in his hart means he just wants to screw your brains out, and hell, then you can even be nice to him.


I had a fuckbuddy for months. Once a week/2weeks we would meet, eat, drink, talk some bout our lives and have hours of mad sex. She was actually surprised i called her when i found a gf to cancel the next appointment. She thought a simple txt would have done. Life can be so simple....

[faze2]

I find it the other way around. I've been in two FWB relationships and they both ended because the girls got attached. It fucking ruins everything.

[unstableasatable]

says, lets just have a fling,

[Nitronick]

I know you're all probably thinking this is a stupid question, and I don't blame any of you. It's not really that I have a problem getting a fuck buddy, it's what happens once I get one that is the big problem.

I'm sick and tired of getting into relationships where I don't necessarily have any romantic feelings towards the guy, all I want is a good hard fuck every once in a while.

The problem I have is that everytime I do get a fuck buddy, it leads to the guy getting these 'romantic' feeling towards me, and this is NEVER what I want! It just complicates things to a point where I don't even want to deal with it.

Where and how do I find a guy who just wants what I want? Is it so hard to get a guy who wants 'no attatchment necessary' sex?

Why do you need one? Just to get your whore orgasm? You fucking disgust me.

[freeRadical]

Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places ;)

Probably so. Most of the women around here are stuck up bitches who think their shit don't stink. It seems they're all on the "independent women" kick.

[ergoat]

Oh a fellow Australian. I'm from Brisbane.
You don't say.

[birdy]

You don't say.

Hmmm tis the truth.

[superspeedz]

meet girl, date girl, fuck girl, tell her you're too scared/random bullshit about how you don't want an emotional relationship only a physical one.

[birdy]

meet girl, date girl, fuck girl, tell her you're too scared/random bullshit about how you don't want an emotional relationship only a physical one.

That might work for a guy, although fuck you if you actually do that to girls.

[superspeedz]

That might work for a guy, although fuck you if you actually do that to girls.

You put a smile on my face, sadly it works wonders on women, you just not have to fail in bed.

Sometimes don't even mention that you just want to keep it physicial, and simply don't do much romantic or time spending except for fucking and most girls will catch the hint.

I'm 100% sure it will work on guys.

[birdy]

You put a smile on my face, sadly it works wonders on women, you just not have to fail in bed.

Sometimes don't even mention that you just want to keep it physicial, and simply don't do much romantic or time spending except for fucking and most girls will catch the hint.

I'm 100% sure it will work on guys.

I don't want to be sneaky about it though. I just want to be able to say, yeah, I need a fuck, when are you free?

[superspeedz]

I don't want to be sneaky about it though. I just want to be able to say, yeah, I need a fuck, when are you free?

Instead of need a fuck, when do you want to meet up and hang out?
or im free tonight stop by.

[yoplait]

Act like a complete and utter twat. Or just lock him up and give him regular beatings along with incredibly violent sexual intercourse. :)

[lostmyface]

I know you're all probably thinking this is a stupid question, and I don't blame any of you. It's not really that I have a problem getting a fuck buddy, it's what happens once I get one that is the big problem.

I'm sick and tired of getting into relationships where I don't necessarily have any romantic feelings towards the guy, all I want is a good hard fuck every once in a while.

The problem I have is that everytime I do get a fuck buddy, it leads to the guy getting these 'romantic' feeling towards me, and this is NEVER what I want! It just complicates things to a point where I don't even want to deal with it.

Where and how do I find a guy who just wants what I want? Is it so hard to get a guy who wants 'no attatchment necessary' sex?

just go to a bar an tell this to a guy you think is cute.

[*ivy]

I don't want to be sneaky about it though. I just want to be able to say, yeah, I need a fuck, when are you free?

Best ones are guys you might already fleetingly know from your local area/'scene' or is a friend of a friend. After the first night's flirting, maybe have sex, mention you're not really into a relationship. Few nights later, ring him up to come round, again stress you don't want a relationship.

He'll just go with the flow -> mental process is "This girl wants sex, but I don't need to buy her flowers, win."