Becoming interested in my old ex

[whocares123]

My girlfriend of like over a year broke up with me in the fall, and then last month, my old girlfriend from a few years ago got dumped by her boyfriend of over a year. There were a lot of similarities so we started talking on the phone again, she's kind of turned to me for comfort or some such shit to help her get through this.

At first I just thought "well, she's a good friend" but lately I think I've been picking up signals that go beyond that. Like she has some kind of greater respect for me, i dunno. But it's weird because me and her exboyfriend are also friends, and I kind of stole her away from him a few years ago. In my gay head, I'm not sure if the romantic love story is about him and her being separated by whatever shit and then coming together eventually in the end, or if it's about me and her?

It's just a...delicate situation. My judgment is clouded by a lack of pussy in the past few months, a stark hatred for my most recent ex, and a desire for cuddly girly goodness to return to my life. This girl in question also, you know, broke my 17 year old heart and all that shit, but so much time has passed that it's like I really can't remember why I disliked her so much then and now it's like we're different people.

[( o Y o )]

go for it, you have one life, use it

[Drox]

you have one life

Speak for yourself

[Macgruber]

I got 9 lives bitch

[Centipede2]

What does your heart tell you? :)

[psycho_8b]

I say go for it. But don't invest a lot of emotion in it.

The reason I say keep your distance emotionally is because, on the whole, most people don't change. She broke your heart before, there's a good chance she will do it again.

As you said, you're probably just on the rebound with your mind reeling from lack of vag...This is perfectly normal but do NOT let this control you.
There's also a very good chance she's on the rebound too and just wants teh pen0r.

Give it a go, get your leg over but always be aware that she has fucked you over before and probably will fuck you over again.

After re-reading this post, I realise I am one cynical bastard. Nice.

[Knife in The Knight]

I say go for it. But don't invest a lot of emotion in it.

The reason I say keep your distance emotionally is because, on the whole, most people don't change. She broke your heart before, there's a good chance she will do it again.

As you said, you're probably just on the rebound with your mind reeling from lack of vag...This is perfectly normal but do NOT let this control you.
There's also a very good chance she's on the rebound too and just wants teh pen0r.

Give it a go, get your leg over but always be aware that she has fucked you over before and probably will fuck you over again.

After re-reading this post, I realise I am one cynical bastard. Nice.

This.

[Jo0]

Do it. I've been in a similar situation, but I didn't really know what to do so I never pursued the situation. I feel like an idiot now for not doing so in the past. GO FOR IT!