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Originally Posted by Marriage Material Honest!
When I first came to uni I felt the same the people in my halls were all trying to be so 'random' posh grammar school hipsters.
I made friends when I deferred uni for a year to work but actually the more people I talked to the more I realised, I'd been writing people off too soon as lame as that sounds. The more people you spend time around the more your confidence in this unfamiliar city will grow the more you'll attract people you actually wanna be around.
Everyone has these two personalities (they have more obvs but cba)
The outside one you judge them on their appearance, how they act in a group or at a party where they don't know people so much, or when drunk or w.e
and the inside one where you sit down and talk about how you both found out you love jane eyre or whatever and talk to each other on a one to one we do get each other level.
When your alone you start to feel too much of an individual i.e. like you're too different and weird and you cant relate to anyone it isn't that you're that weird and shit it's becos you're lonely you're outer personality has become hostile and disinterested, you're rejecting so your not rejected.
tldr the conclusion is basically you need to give people you wouldnt usually give a chance that means the airheads, the sluts, the bitches, the drunken ass who wants to fight you cos you may have picked his beer up, because lets be honest most ppl meet their ideal best friend purely by accident if it wasnt for that accident they wudnt have nown they lvoe each other n shit. So make those accidents happen.
Bored now.
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