Is it wrong to fuck a good friend's ex-girlfriend?

[SirGillroyJenkinstheThird]

Say she pretty much dumped him, it was a serious, long term relationship, happened like a year ago.

Assume she is very attractive

[yawanur]

so he's going to find out? does he have a new girl? does he still talk about the ex?

it's not wrong but obviously you want to be careful, not start any drama

[Oral B]

Yeah, that's not cool. It doesn't matter if he will find out or not, thats just a fucked up thing to do to a good friend.

[rustyshackleford420]

hit it and quit it


I'm just kidding, I guess it really depends on whether he'll know, and if so will he care.

[yawanur]

Originally Posted by Oral B

thats just a fucked up thing to do to a good friend.

Why? Are you friends drama queens who flip out about stupid shit? Sure it all depends on the situation, but most of my friends would give me a hi-five for becoming eskimo brothers.

[Arcade]

If he didn't give a fuck about her I'd smash, but if he still had feelings then no, shitty thing to do.

[dysik]

sharing is caring... arent you supposed to be friends?


i guess theres a bit of a difference. if he still has feelings for her then i guess he might not want you to, but if hes over her then there should be no reason why he would care, i hate those jealous motherfuckers who think every girl they ever thought about banging is off limits to their entire friend group.

if hes never going to find out then it doesnt matter either way.

just note though, if the girl were ever to see him again and they arent on the greatest of terms, bitches tend to love using "i fucked your best friend" as ammunition when they inevitably cant keep up an argument.

[yawanur]

Originally Posted by dysik

bitches tend to love using "i fucked your best friend"

shaking in my boots

[Zanick]

If you have to ask, then don't. It means you're trying to rationalize from a perspective of personal satisfaction, and looking to zoklet to tell you that you should go through with it. You'd know if he would be alright with it, so unless he's one to take these things lightly, just don't do it.

[dysik]

Originally Posted by yawanur

shaking in my boots

..... well if you dont care about your friends opinion, why even try to keep it a secret in the first place? why even ask the forum you idiot?

whats with the attitude.

[Duke Zion]

Of course it is, you are a dick

[bortmackie]

People like to act like they'll fuck any pussy they want to and fuck the consequences, but that's some bullshit. People who are so desperate for action that they'll fuck their friends girl, even if its an ex, aren't men. Personally, i don't give a fuck what a girl does after we're through, but if she's doing a friend of mine, that's gonna complicate shit. I don't want to hang out with my friend if he's got my ex around, fuck that. And just like that, your friend picked a hoe over their bro.


All it really comes down to is considering how you would feel if your friend fucked your ex. If it's just some girl you fucked, then by all means, pass that shit around. But if it's someone you dated seriously, that shit's off limits. Generally speaking friends should be more important than that. I guess it depends somewhat on how good of a friend it is. One of my ex's ended up dating a kid i was cool with after me, and i didn't mind. If he had actually been a close friend tho, i'd probably be pretty peeved.

[rabbitweed]

at least tell him you intend to first. If anything would make him feel shitty, it might be all your friends gossiping about it and trying to keep him from knowing. tell him first IMO - at least he won't feel like you've gone behind his back.

[HelloClarice]

how serious was the relationship before it ended? if your friend has any sort of feelings left for this girl, don't risk it. if he's fine with it, go for it.

[dysik]

Originally Posted by bortmackie

People like to act like they'll fuck any pussy they want to and fuck the consequences, but that's some bullshit. People who are so desperate for action that they'll fuck their friends girl, even if its an ex, aren't men. Personally, i don't give a fuck what a girl does after we're through, but if she's doing a friend of mine, that's gonna complicate shit. I don't want to hang out with my friend if he's got my ex around, fuck that. And just like that, your friend picked a hoe over their bro.


All it really comes down to is considering how you would feel if your friend fucked your ex. If it's just some girl you fucked, then by all means, pass that shit around. But if it's someone you dated seriously, that shit's off limits. Generally speaking friends should be more important than that. I guess it depends somewhat on how good of a friend it is. One of my ex's ended up dating a kid i was cool with after me, and i didn't mind. If he had actually been a close friend tho, i'd probably be pretty peeved.

why?

if you were never put in the position of having to hang out with your friend and ex at the same time, why would it bother you?

why is it a question of loyalty? if your friend finds love in somebody you couldnt work with why is that a problem?

[bortmackie]

Obviously this is all one big grey area, with some shit being cool and other shit not cool. I think it's really a matter of respect. I have this one friend who's so desperate to lose his virginity that he'll hit on my girl when i'm not there and try to grope her. Fucking always calling her when he's drunk and saying fucked up shit. Obviously we're not really friends anymore, because a friend doesn't do that shit to you. Now it's one thing if your friend and your ex legitimately 'fall in love.' I've had that happen and didn't give a fuck. But if your friend is just trying to get laid and is always trying to get your leftovers, that shit can get kinda aggravating.

[SirGillroyJenkinstheThird]

I should've mentioned that I've been friends with the girl about as long as the dude and also consider her a good friend, it's not really hoes over bros it's like bros over bros, except she's a sexy hoebro


He talks smack about her and they don't like each other or talk to each other anymore. He also has a new girlfriend of his own. I dunno it's all more complicated than I'm used to. It's not like he's pining away for her or anything. I was out of town the entire time they were breaking up so it wasn't like I was there saying "oh man she's no good" or any of that stuff either.

[kingOfCrash]

Originally Posted by SirGillroyJenkinstheThird

Say she pretty much dumped him, it was a serious, long term relationship, happened like a year ago.

Assume she is very attractive

It would be a problem if I were him. But some guys wouldn't care... maybe?

Let me guess. You know the situation better than us and you think it's wrong. But you come to Zoklet to talk to people who are probably going to tell you to fuck her. And then, you fuck her.

[yawanur]

Originally Posted by dysik

..... well if you dont care about your friends opinion, why even try to keep it a secret in the first place? why even ask the forum you idiot?

whats with the attitude.

I was facepalming girls who say that, not you. I guess I'm ultimately facepalming guys who try to hide it and fail when the girl flips out.

I care about my friend's opinions, but my friends don't care about me sleeping with a girl they've banged, and vice versa. There's only been one case where it was a real relationship instead of a fling, but my buddy thought it was hilarious.

I can see how if this meant all 3 of you would hang out together, that might be awkward... but it seems 99% of the time if your buddy is not okay with that, it is due to his own insecurity.

[WAN]

ask said friend for permission and shit?

[dysik]

Originally Posted by WAN

ask said friend for permission and shit?

women's logic

[WAN]

Originally Posted by dysik

women's logic

huh why?

[Ghost Buster]

99% of the time - Yes. End of story.

[Death_Merchant]

It's not wrong, but you might upset a whiny bitch.

[sexually vulnerable CPR dummy]

that goes against the bro code, bro. dont break the bro code.

[Intoxicated Shaman]

I did it before and we're still friends. He doesn't really give a shit about her, then or now, and neither do I.

[chilldo]

yeah thats fucked up if you care about your friend. and this opinion is coming form a community of socially retarded schizophrenics.


in the normal world itd b super super fucked up.


i'd only hit it if she was THE PERFECT girl for you and life long happiness was guaranteed with her despite losing your current best friend, because if you dated her, im pretty sure he wouldnt want to be your best friend anymore

[Myxomatosis]

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[JeffreyH]

If I was your friend and you did that, I would laugh, say "Haha, you're fucked now!" and offer to buy you a drink.

Spread HAIsm.

[Xlite]

Where i'm from its wrong and considered holy ground between friends.
You just don't do it.

[sexually vulnerable CPR dummy]

it depends. if u fuck her the day after they break up that may be a problem.

[Jebise]

I have a friend who is dating this chick. Her and I really get along and we know that we really like each other, but no one else does. She likes me more than him I'm sure, but neither of us really know what to do. This friend is a real dick to everyone including her, and I got fucked over so many times due to him. I'm pretty sure he took my Zippo too, so I think of him as just a really shitty friend. I'm still gonna ask her out after all this shit is through, but I'm wondering if you guys would do the same

[SirGillroyJenkinstheThird]

Yea so I did it, felt good man

[-Fuck-]

Dude go for it!

What, do you want Justin Bieber to get all the fucking pussy?!



I-I-I-I, I-I, I-I, I!!!

I wouldn't personally though. I pretty much don't even like to hang out with "friends" and meet women through them - it's ALWAYS a fucking battle these days. People are so fucking insecure and clingy.

There really is no answer to this question - is it wrong or right to stick your cock in some pussy, if there is no intended child, and with whom, where, and how many times?

See it's things like this that make me question wrong or right in the universe - your nature says yes, your morals say no, if they don't find out you win, you're stuck. I say, go for a call girl if it bothers you that much or actually go meet someone on your own or just watch porn. Shit man, it's just sex, no reason to be so indecisive. I'm pretty glad I never let my old friend's GF cheat on him with me, come to think of it though. There's so many hot single girls out there, I don't think I could stay limited to someone I met in high school or some bullshit.

[BITCH TITZ]

i wouldn't do it out of respect.

[33% God]

You're a piece of shit if you do something like that.

[yawanur]

Originally Posted by 33% God

You're a piece of shit if you do something like that.

Yeah! If your buddy fucked her, then she's his property forever and you're a piece of shit for even considering her to be a separate individual!

Yeah!

[slicknickns]

Depends on how long they've been broken up, whether or not you were with them while they were going out (by which I mean hung out with them while they were together, you know at the same time), how long ago they broke up, why they broke up and who broke up with whom.

I'd shoot the idea past your friend, maybe even ask for permission or respects

[SirGillroyJenkinstheThird]

Yeah I already fucked her guys it was pretty good

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She has been marked as his territory through his phallus. Prepare for fisticuffs if you pursue this.