what some girl told me one time

[bumble]

Originally Posted by jerome

this is why a female thinks that you should pay for everything when you go out with her. when in reality, it doesn't make her equal to a man at all, or doesn't "raise" her value.

I've paid for my own meal many times. (not that it was actually my money to begin with.) Usually it actually makes me feel guilty if they pay for it, like in a way that I "owe" them, I don't know, it's weird I don't like it. It makes me feel like I had sex for food or something. It's certainly not an expectation for me. Am I wrong for feeling that way, were they just trying to be nice? Maybe I don't trust people as much as I thought.I like to give people stuff, just be nice and show my affection for them. They've insisted on paying before, and usually when that happens I order the cheapest thing possible.

[Asheville]

Originally Posted by jerome

This. They don't seem to realize when someone pays for all your shit and plays a dominant role, that person automatically begins to think they are "higher" than you in some way.

Nah, women want to be equal to men, but they don't really want that most of the time. Equality is an illusion IMO, however, this is about as good as it will ever be. Women are just as able to get a good job and shit, but men can't have children! In the end, both men and women will always be somewhat limited by their underlying functions in the gene pool, but in different ways. When a man can punch a woman without fear of reprisal, then shit will be equal.

I didn't miss your point, it just sounds like you're a bit angry about the whole idea of women being taken care of. If you don't like that, no one will force you to get married and serve that "role", although there are men who mooch off women in relationships as well.

[Ambient]

Originally Posted by bumble

It makes me feel like I had sex for food or something.

Ugghh, duhhh, he's not paying for the conversation.

[Leshrac]

Women simply expect men to take care of them because that's how they are.

Have any of you guys ever LIVED with a woman ? Expect for a VERY FEW housewives or pseudo-dykes, living with a woman is a fucking nightmare.

- They trip over shit 10 times a day, are clumsy as a god damned retard.
- Rearrange the scenery on the fly because "they just KNOW it's better that way" even if it's clear to anyone it's completely impractical.
- Are messy and dirty as FUCK (sure they keep their bodies clean but watch out for the rest of the damn house).
- Forget you have a bathroom, it's theirs now. Btw if you do have a bathtub prepare to see your water bill go through the roof.
- Won't shut up. Ever. Maybe on rare occasions to bleed your ears by blasting their latest stupid-as-fuck favorite music video.
- Will try to implicate you in matters you don't give a flying crap about and shouldn't even be concerned with in the first place.
- Will keep an eye on you should you even get within 2 meters of "their stuff" but will have next to zero respect for yours, except if they have a use for it.

I've lived with all kinds of girls over the years. 20's, 30's, 40's, introvert, extrovert, bitchy, geeky etc and it almost always resulted in that (let's say on the 6 I lived with, 5 fit the profile on various degrees). I try to keep the damn place clean and orderly and in the few days that follows the "arrival" of a girl, the place looks like it's been bombarded by artillery fire and not cleaned for a godamn year.

The sad thing being you can't even be 'truly' mad at women for being like that, same way you can't be mad about a shark eating people. That's just what they are and what they do.

[psychomanthis]

Originally Posted by Leshrac

Women simply expect men to take care of them because that's how they are.

Have any of you guys ever LIVED with a woman ? Expect for a VERY FEW housewives or pseudo-dykes, living with a woman is a fucking nightmare.

- They trip over shit 10 times a day, are clumsy as a god damned retard.
- Rearrange the scenery on the fly because "they just KNOW it's better that way" even if it's clear to anyone it's completely impractical.
- Are messy and dirty as FUCK (sure they keep their bodies clean but watch out for the rest of the damn house).
- Forget you have a bathroom, it's theirs now. Btw if you do have a bathtub prepare to see your water bill go through the roof.
- Won't shut up. Ever. Maybe on rare occasions to bleed your ears by blasting their latest stupid-as-fuck favorite music video.
- Will try to implicate you in matters you don't give a flying crap about and shouldn't even be concerned with in the first place.
- Will keep an eye on you should you even get within 2 meters of "their stuff" but will have next to zero respect for yours, except if they have a use for it.

I've lived with all kinds of girls over the years. 20's, 30's, 40's, introvert, extrovert, bitchy, geeky etc and it almost always resulted in that (let's say on the 6 I lived with, 5 fit the profile on various degrees). I try to keep the damn place clean and orderly and in the few days that follows the "arrival" of a girl, the place looks like it's been bombarded by artillery fire and not cleaned for a godamn year.

The sad thing being you can't even be 'truly' mad at women for being like that, same way you can't be mad about a shark eating people. That's just what they are and what they do.

This man speaks the truth

[Marty McFly]

Originally Posted by Leshrac

Women simply expect men to take care of them because that's how they are.

Have any of you guys ever LIVED with a woman ? Expect for a VERY FEW housewives or pseudo-dykes, living with a woman is a fucking nightmare.

- They trip over shit 10 times a day, are clumsy as a god damned retard.
- Rearrange the scenery on the fly because "they just KNOW it's better that way" even if it's clear to anyone it's completely impractical.
- Are messy and dirty as FUCK (sure they keep their bodies clean but watch out for the rest of the damn house).
- Forget you have a bathroom, it's theirs now. Btw if you do have a bathtub prepare to see your water bill go through the roof.
- Won't shut up. Ever. Maybe on rare occasions to bleed your ears by blasting their latest stupid-as-fuck favorite music video.
- Will try to implicate you in matters you don't give a flying crap about and shouldn't even be concerned with in the first place.
- Will keep an eye on you should you even get within 2 meters of "their stuff" but will have next to zero respect for yours, except if they have a use for it.

I've lived with all kinds of girls over the years. 20's, 30's, 40's, introvert, extrovert, bitchy, geeky etc and it almost always resulted in that (let's say on the 6 I lived with, 5 fit the profile on various degrees). I try to keep the damn place clean and orderly and in the few days that follows the "arrival" of a girl, the place looks like it's been bombarded by artillery fire and not cleaned for a godamn year.

The sad thing being you can't even be 'truly' mad at women for being like that, same way you can't be mad about a shark eating people. That's just what they are and what they do.

You actually sound like you've either never lived with a woman; Only lived with shit women; or lived with fantasy hollywood cliches of women based on shitty romantic comedies.

Your options aren't looking good...

Stereotyping an entire sex rarely works. There are neat bitches and there are messy bitches and there are inbetween bitches and I've lived with a combination of pretty much all of them. Some had the qualities you mentioned, some had none, actually most had none. Hmmm...

[water bottle]

I don't think she was necessarily being as ditzy as it might seem. I could see myself saying "having a girlfriend who takes care of you is nice" and just mean that I appreciate the affection, not that I like having somebody buy everything for me. But then maybe this girl meant the inverse, I dunno.

[adrieann]

jerome is mad because no one does those things for her/it

[DJ Meaty Cheeks]

That's some fucking codependent shit right there.

[yawanur]

Originally Posted by Marty McFly

Stereotyping an entire sex rarely works

people love sensationalist shit though, so they probably won't stop trying that anytime soon

[slicknickns]

Girls of zoklet (jerome),

Your boyfriend can be the boy's face you like to sit on.

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

girls are trash, porn & meth ftw

[jerome]

Originally Posted by adrieann

jerome is mad because no one does those things for her/it

meh not really.

Originally Posted by slicknickns

Girls of zoklet (jerome),

Your boyfriend can be the boy's face you like to sit on.

we need moar girls.

[sploogook]

Jerome

[jerome]

sploo

[sploogook]

Wutwhy

[jerome]

you sex.

[slicknickns]

Originally Posted by jerome

we need moar girls.

If I was ballsy enough I'd sneak into girl's bathrooms and tag "zoklet.net" on the stall walls. I'll have my girlfriend do it for me though. You should do this too though all over the great state of Texas.

[kite--]

A relationship is about mutual understanding and often yes, reliance. I guess it depends where on the spectrum that reliance lies.

It seems some of of you have lived or have known some terribly needy women, but there are guys out there like that too.

Regardless if you're in a healthy relationship then having someone to care for you doesn't mean a literal carer role, but is there for moral, practical and emotional support. And that should be a two-way thing.

I would suggest dating women, and leave the girls behind.

[Sir Cornwell]

Nono! Keep the girl's behind, as it's the best part, get rid of the rest.

[DJ Meaty Cheeks]

Oh yeah:

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