Going home quickly.

[Nameraca]

So I have met this girl on a dating site and she agreed to a date pretty quickly. More like having a drink AND agreed to the possibility of coming home after.

This is unusual. Is it normal for people to agree that fast to meeting and the possibility of sex?

How do I make sure this whole endeavour is safe? (For me and my shit at home, for my dick there are condoms)

[&Zenith]

You're fucking stupid.

[Issue313]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

. More like having a drink AND agreed to the possibility of coming home after.

You must be new to this game. My experience is that although there's absolutely no reason why a man can't feel up the boobs and finger bang a girl on the first date(I've never had a problem, I like to taste the juice early) actual sex is somewhat harder to achieve.

[Nameraca]

Originally Posted by &Zenith

You're fucking stupid.

Pot calling the kettle black.

Moving on...


Indeed, the drink thing is important - but I'll most likely have a beer in a bottle.

Also yes, if she's actually a male, he won't get her $3 for the bus fare back home.If she's a wale she can have $1.50 because chilvary ain't dead.

If her vagina doesn't get wet.

But my actual question is, how many girls... or how common is it for girls to accept dates that fast - especially from the internet? Some girls just want a quick fuck, right?

[JeffreyH]

Girls accept dates very easily. A lot easier than one might have been led to think.

[arleybob]

lol u nervous?

[Painzstake]

How do you know it's safe... You ask her for a recent picture of herself and meet her in a public place, ie bar and no that's not unusual. Believe it or not women actually want sex too. I know it's a shock 'twas news to me as well

[HelloClarice]

Originally Posted by Painzstake

How do you know it's safe... You ask her for a recent picture of herself and meet her in a public place, ie bar and no that's not unusual. Believe it or not women actually want sex too. I know it's a shock 'twas news to me as well

Pretty much this. Girls on Match.com or eHarmony want a relationship. Girls on OKCupid, Plenty of Fish etc. are a little less uptight about sex before a relationship. However, meet her in a public place and decide if she's someone you'd want to bring home before you do it.

[JeffreyH]

So, what are girls on these sites looking for in a guy's profile?

It seems to me, many are not actually there to meet anyone.

[ZappaFan]

She has a penis. Congratulations, you are on your way home, hauling ass for penis.

[Leshrac]

8mg of scopolamine in her drink / in a cigarette you'll offer her will net you all the sex you need with an obedient slave who will have zero memory of ever meeting you.

[Painzstake]

Originally Posted by JeffreyH

So, what are girls on these sites looking for in a guy's profile?

It seems to me, many are not actually there to meet anyone.

Same thing as people who aren't online... Some just want a quick fuck others want a relationship. As for what they're looking for, strangely enough the same thing as they normally would... a funny, smart, fit guy. The only difference with online 'dating' and actually meeting women. Is that online the women get pretentious simply because of all the attention they get.

[Leshrac]

You know the best way of having a girl you met online agree to meet you is to tell her you "don't normally ask that since most people are too common/bland" right ?

That'll set her bitch gauge on FIRE and she WILL come just to try and prove you she's worth it

[Nameraca]

Well, this has become quite interesting.

You know the best way of having a girl you met online agree to meet you is to tell her you "don't normally ask that since most people are too common/bland" right ?

IMO, don't speak in absolute, if some girls tell nothing about herself, you have no choice to label her as bland, and she's not naive. Asking otherwise might lead to date.

IMO I've pretty much turned away from all that bullcrap and other canned shit from the seduction community, or thing looking like it.

I've turned to other websites who explains things quite a lot better. And have a better mentality.

I have to go now, but I will come back and post useful links later. Right now I simply don't have the time to sort them. And explain that.

[broseph]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

I have to go now, but I will come back and post useful links later. Right now I simply don't have the time to sort them. And explain that.

[Nameraca]

K back.

So, let's see.

The seduction community is shit that's true and absolute. But then, what's a man to do? Sometimes we still need help. PUAhate is usually PUA bashing and not really helpful. But one day, googling about that, I found Seduction Myth.

http://www.seductionmyth.com/

They pretty much explain what is wrong with the seduction community and also how sexual attraction actually works, and why you can't attract someone sexually through your actions.

I'll let you browse the site but here are three pages that are must reads:

http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality_check/her-type/
http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality...onality-types/
http://www.seductionmyth.com/alpha-l...reated-so-far/

Other websites I like are

http://anti-pua-johnny.blogspot.ca

This one is pretty good. He explains what he does and what doesn't work in the community. Also goes over some simple principles.

http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/

Toronto Men Unite is also Johnny, I believe. This one is mostly about how (Toronto, but I suppose you see it everywhere to a certain degree) women act like bitches and like they are god's gift to manking.

http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.ca/

Aaron sleazy writes nice things and his book is good altough it can't be found on torrents, sadly.

Another very interesting blog similar to Johnny's blog, perhaps even the same writer.

http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.ca/


The main message is that it's a number's game and that's it. I'll leave you to read it and make your own conclusions.

Have a nice day.

[moron]

Trying to find the 10 commandments to getting laid might work, but you'll end up being an isolated manipulative douche no matter what. Cut this overthinking bullshit, just relax, do what feels good, be nice to people, etc. and things will fall into place.

[Dfg]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

K back.

So, let's see.

The seduction community is shit that's true and absolute. But then, what's a man to do? Sometimes we still need help. PUAhate is usually PUA bashing and not really helpful. But one day, googling about that, I found Seduction Myth.

http://www.seductionmyth.com/

They pretty much explain what is wrong with the seduction community and also how sexual attraction actually works, and why you can't attract someone sexually through your actions.

I'll let you browse the site but here are three pages that are must reads:

http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality_check/her-type/
http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality...onality-types/
http://www.seductionmyth.com/alpha-l...reated-so-far/

Other websites I like are

http://anti-pua-johnny.blogspot.ca

This one is pretty good. He explains what he does and what doesn't work in the community. Also goes over some simple principles.

http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/

Toronto Men Unite is also Johnny, I believe. This one is mostly about how (Toronto, but I suppose you see it everywhere to a certain degree) women act like bitches and like they are god's gift to manking.

http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.ca/

Aaron sleazy writes nice things and his book is good altough it can't be found on torrents, sadly.

The main message is that it's a number's game and that's it. I'll leave you to read it and make your own conclusions.

Have a nice day.

http://supernaturalseductionsystem.com/blog/
http://supernaturalseductionsystem.com/

[JeffreyH]

I am convinced that the majority of the effects of "PUA" are merely the guys actually going out and talking to people, with the confidence that their "techniques" or "skills" would work.

While in fact, it's not so much the techniques but the confidence and them actually approaching lots of women that makes the difference.

[Leshrac]

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/

This guy is pretty funny.

[Nameraca]

FIRST: I FORGOT TO POST THIS LINK AND UPDATED MY OLD POST WITH SAID LINK. http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.ca/

Coming up next...

Originally Posted by Dfg

http://supernaturalseductionsystem.com/blog/
http://supernaturalseductionsystem.com/

The 2nd link... why would a girl... testify for something... while she says she didn't want people to find out about it?

You honestly believe they didn't pay her? She got paid, man.

They pay people all the time. Sometimes they hire whores for their client's to succeed.
They hire girls to shoot with them in the hot tub while they do their publicities.

This guy is ridiculous: http://directplayboy.com/ He paid girls for those commercials BTW.

And also, a some PUA's birthday, there was only males, lol. Tyler Durden or mystery's or something. Oh and do you know Gunwitch killed women?

Also, nice webcomic: http://puacomic.com/comic/soulmate/

I am convinced that the majority of the effects of "PUA" are merely the guys actually going out and talking to people, with the confidence that their "techniques" or "skills" would work.

While in fact, it's not so much the techniques but the confidence and them actually approaching lots of women that makes the difference.

NO. The purpose of seduction methods like Mystery and that supernatural shit up there in this post is to seduce one woman, i.e the one you have your eyes on.

Mystery's ratio is 3% lays from within all the girls he approaches.

The ratio usually stays the same.

And why is it, if something so strong, so powerful to change human relationships existed, that there was no scientific paper or PROOF that it worked- other than the word of said seducers?

Adressed there: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2011...in-your-favor/ With actual results.

And There: http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...fake-pick-ups/

And there: http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...lacebo-effect/

The cause and effect analysis here is wrong. The methods makes (forces) them to talk to people more (and usually it ain't very fun...) and to more people, which increases their chances to find someone who is their type (or they are the someone's type) and then get laid.

Adressed there: http://www.seductionmyth.com/alpha-l...cal-fallacies/

Or we can try the experiment.

http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...he-experiment/

__________________

That being said, it's a number's game.

If anything, going to the whores is the alpha thing to do.

http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.ca/...han-using.html

In fact changing our behaviour more than the necessary social, relatively capable person, is not necessary. Sure, dress well, be clean, these are musts. But beyond that, approaching woman the PUA way and resorting to that method because women wouldn't reply to other demands, that is not alpha, that is catering. They see relationships as adversarial, which usually never is the case, because http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality...nd-to-be-nice/ .

I know a guy who came from France (Paris) to my city. He arrived by April 25th, but he made his diary thread on Art de Seduire on February 1st, 2012. He follows PUA stuff. He's going to "sarge" with people every week. Apart from a handful of meaningless dates, he has gotten nothing and most women cut ties with him. Since the very opening of his thread, nothing. In fact I should write to him next week to see if there's an update.

Trust me he would update his "Diary" thread on Art De Seduire if only he had success. Since June 12 there was no news.

Oh, and about askmen or men's psychology. If that's actually him you're talking about, anyway... Anything with Dr. Paul is utter shit. He never treated anyone he just took the basic classes and never published any study.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Dobransky

Not to say there's nothing good in it. Facts are verified by themselves, not by whoever says them.
That is to say, is it worth to filter the tons of bullcrap to find the gram of good information? I don't think so.

And the community can help people, the problem is that it's not necessary. Someone who is kinda lost, who needs to set himself in the right track, he can find good basic information there- but the problem is, the information SHOULD be accessible elsewhere and 2, he'll be sucked in the crap and brainwashed. So, yes, it can help, but it's not the only way, and it's not the community who helps, it's the basic information, basic information you can find on Seduction Myth, Aaron's Sleazy's blog and book, and Lifestyle Journey, Tomenunite or Johnny's blog. The information is what helps, NOT THE COMMUNITY, NOT IT'S MINDSET.

[kroz]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

So I have met this girl on a dating site and she agreed to a date pretty quickly. More like having a drink AND agreed to the possibility of coming home after.

This is unusual. Is it normal for people to agree that fast to meeting and the possibility of sex?

How do I make sure this whole endeavour is safe? (For me and my shit at home, for my dick there are condoms)

dude im not sure how old you are, but if a guy and girl are mature and have sexual chemistry yes , yes it is normal to happen. I just met up with this 19 year old blonde off a dating website, I fucked her in a park near her house, then thought i would bring her home which was a mistake because I didn't wanna drive her all the way to the other side of town so i left her at a fiesta (store) off I-35.

But the sex was fucking good

[Dfg]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

FIRST: I FORGOT TO POST THIS LINK AND UPDATED MY OLD POST WITH SAID LINK. http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.ca/

Coming up next...



The 2nd link... why would a girl... testify for something... while she says she didn't want people to find out about it?

You honestly believe they didn't pay her? She got paid, man.

They pay people all the time. Sometimes they hire whores for their client's to succeed.
They hire girls to shoot with them in the hot tub while they do their publicities.

This guy is ridiculous: http://directplayboy.com/ He paid girls for those commercials BTW.

And also, a some PUA's birthday, there was only males, lol. Tyler Durden or mystery's or something. Oh and do you know Gunwitch killed women?

Also, nice webcomic: http://puacomic.com/comic/soulmate/



NO. The purpose of seduction methods like Mystery and that supernatural shit up there in this post is to seduce one woman, i.e the one you have your eyes on.

Mystery's ratio is 3% lays from within all the girls he approaches.

The ratio usually stays the same.

And why is it, if something so strong, so powerful to change human relationships existed, that there was no scientific paper or PROOF that it worked- other than the word of said seducers?

Adressed there: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2011...in-your-favor/ With actual results.

And There: http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...fake-pick-ups/

And there: http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...lacebo-effect/

The cause and effect analysis here is wrong. The methods makes (forces) them to talk to people more (and usually it ain't very fun...) and to more people, which increases their chances to find someone who is their type (or they are the someone's type) and then get laid.

Adressed there: http://www.seductionmyth.com/alpha-l...cal-fallacies/

Or we can try the experiment.

http://www.seductionmyth.com/just_pr...he-experiment/

__________________

That being said, it's a number's game.

If anything, going to the whores is the alpha thing to do.

http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.ca/...han-using.html

In fact changing our behaviour more than the necessary social, relatively capable person, is not necessary. Sure, dress well, be clean, these are musts. But beyond that, approaching woman the PUA way and resorting to that method because women wouldn't reply to other demands, that is not alpha, that is catering. They see relationships as adversarial, which usually never is the case, because http://www.seductionmyth.com/reality...nd-to-be-nice/ .

I know a guy who came from France (Paris) to my city. He arrived by April 25th, but he made his diary thread on Art de Seduire on February 1st, 2012. He follows PUA stuff. He's going to "sarge" with people every week. Apart from a handful of meaningless dates, he has gotten nothing and most women cut ties with him. Since the very opening of his thread, nothing. In fact I should write to him next week to see if there's an update.

Trust me he would update his "Diary" thread on Art De Seduire if only he had success. Since June 12 there was no news.

Oh, and about askmen or men's psychology. If that's actually him you're talking about, anyway... Anything with Dr. Paul is utter shit. He never treated anyone he just took the basic classes and never published any study.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Dobransky

Not to say there's nothing good in it. Facts are verified by themselves, not by whoever says them.
That is to say, is it worth to filter the tons of bullcrap to find the gram of good information? I don't think so.

And the community can help people, the problem is that it's not necessary. Someone who is kinda lost, who needs to set himself in the right track, he can find good basic information there- but the problem is, the information SHOULD be accessible elsewhere and 2, he'll be sucked in the crap and brainwashed. So, yes, it can help, but it's not the only way, and it's not the community who helps, it's the basic information, basic information you can find on Seduction Myth, Aaron's Sleazy's blog and book, and Lifestyle Journey, Tomenunite or Johnny's blog. The information is what helps, NOT THE COMMUNITY, NOT IT'S MINDSET.

Why does it seem like you're actually promoting these websites?
Hmm

[Captain Falcon]

Originally Posted by Dfg

Why does it seem like you're actually promoting these websites?
Hmm

Aren't we all promoting something anyway?

[Nameraca]

Originally Posted by Dfg

Why does it seem like you're actually promoting these websites?
Hmm

Why do you care what I do? It's true that I like those website, so I endorse them. Then I leave people to think whatever they want of them. I'm not forcing them to read it and don't care whether they do or not. If they want to believe in PUA and hang out on Art de Seduire or Fast Seduction, all the power to them. If that makes them happy...

The topic at hand was about world views/mindset so I explained mine, and what I base it upon, unlike some tards who build themselves over shit, I build myself over facts.

What Captain Falcon punched. You did promote supernaturalpuathingy