My thoughts about women so far...

[BitterConflict]

This happened to me about 2-3 times in my life. I wasn't asking for this nor looking for a lady at those times, but now I see that getting at women is hard nowadays or at least when you're out of high school.

I'm about to turn 22 years old and I feel like I haven't done shit with my life so far. It sucks because the women know it too. I don't radiate that much confidence and I choose to be introverted which is definitely a disadvantage for me.

It sounds like I'm complaining, but I'm sick and tired how most women act in society. They think they can do anything they want just by flirting around and attention whoring to get exactly what they want. Maybe I'm just jealous because I can't get any. I had several chances to get some, but I pussied out because I knew it was a one night stand and I know she's gonna leave me and never come back. I'm sensitive and it's bothering me so damn much. My friends tell me I think too much, but I can't help it.

I think this sense of entitlement is killing me because it makes me think I deserve a nice looking lady, but the truth is I don't deserve shit. I'm just upset at the path I chose to sever my ties with all the women I talked to in my life. I wish I could've told them how I feel about our friendship, but they thought I wasn't man enough for them.

I just miss my high school days when encountering a girl was easier. Nowadays, most girls don't care or just want a one night stand.

I just want to run into a girl that makes all the first moves. I'll be glad to reciprocate back, but my little fantasy won't come true, because of the negativity I give out.

Most people see me as a creeper, and think so too, but to an extent. For the longest time I tried to rekindle friendship with women that I once knew in high school on social networking sites, but I end up with the convo getting stale and they stop talking or them not responding at all. I realized this when I tried to hit up my ex-coworker on a social networking site asking her how is she doing and if she still works at this place. It's been about four days and she hasn't responded yet. I'm assuming I creeped her out or maybe she doesn't go on her profile at all. Wait never mind she ignored it, because gurls use social networking sites non-stop or on a day to day basis. She was just being nice to me because it was the right thing to do and I misinterpreted it. I just don't know what women want anymore or tell if they're interested in me.

I used to talk to this girl that's in a messed up relationshit, but it seems like her somewhat terrible boyfriend is the best boyfriend she's ever had. This girl is fucking ditzy as hell and thinks she's intelligent. She's a fine looking lady, but she's an attention whore who happens to play videogames and watch anime, which I find somewhat attractive. I don't know why she responded back to me after all these messages we talked back and forth about life and such. I somehow convinced myself that I should care for this girl, even though she has a bf. I tried to tell her that I want to know more about her in a subtle way, but it ain't gonna happen. She's definitely loyal, but not a keeper. She thinks she's smart, but deep down she knows she's weak and she doesn't know what to do about it. I know her bf is doing her best to please her, but I don't think it's enough. These are the thoughts I used to think until I met her in real life again when we were at some party. I remember I was drunk and she had a little to drink as well and it was a moment where we were alone together, and I decided to sit next to her. As soon as I sat down and tried to talk to her while getting a bit comfortable, she moved a couple inches away from me. The sad part is that she was already far enough from me. I felt like I invaded her privacy way too much and her body language definitely summed it up. I was crushed that night. I know I wanted to get on her good side and maybe when she breaks up with her bf I'll be her rebound, but now I see that my way of thinking about women will cause me to have a difficult path in life. I mean she made it apparent to everyone that her bf mistreats her, but it seems like she mistreats him. This girl seems like bad news and plus she has a bunch of white-knights waiting for her to break it off with her bf as well.

I'm ashamed of myself into thinking that women want to fuck you or be with you just because they're nice to you. This way of thinking has led me into depression and short friendships with women. I just want a woman to love for who I am. I know it sounds retarded, but a woman can't love me just by meeting me, so this makes my desire illogical. I remember one girl told me that you don't need a gurl to be happy. I thought about that quote, but it was just a way of dealing with rejection and depression. This depression led me into a delusional state of my life when I thought rekindling this friendship with a girl that used to like me would get back with me. I used to send her love letters on social networking sites, but she eventually stopped responding to them and almost got a restraining order for me. She even got her sister on me, because she was too afraid to talk to me and tell me to leave her alone. That shattered me. I know I was obsessed with this chick, but I couldn't get my mind off her. She saw me as a creeper. I will concede to that. I thought talking to a girl like that will instantly rekindle the flames we once had, but I was too damn pushy and I moved too damn fast where she stopped talking to me.

Women come and go, and I just want to keep meeting more until I find the right one. The problem is that I don't know who she is and I need to break my comfort zone and talk to them. I know alcohol and weed won't help, because I might become dependent on it and need it to socialize, but then again it makes me a bit chill and at ease when I talk to women. I'm indecisive and not confident enough to be myself in front of a woman. I always gotta impress them, but I end up failing miserably at it. I just need to get a job to occupy my mind, because this boredom is making me think about a lot of depressing shit.

I want to know what I want and get it. Other than that, I'm trying to find the motivation to make my life worth living.

TL;DR
It's hard to meet a good woman or a keeper nowadays. Me just ranting about women and my experiences with them. Know what you want in life and get it.

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

you're a creepy fuck, and this is coming from one of the creepiest fucks of all time. I get all my sexual kicks thru drugs and porn, I see no need for a woman, I have one close female friend who I have had sex with twice in the whole 3 years I've known her and I'm okay with not fucking her because she's bad ass. as for the rest of them they can go on by the wayside, call me jaded but I'm gonna keep dat straw to my nose and my flaccid dick in my hand and porn on screen, nigga


addendum: there's nothing WRONG with females, they're just like any other human being, unreliable, self-centered and self-serving, throw your own selfish sexual motives in there and you've got a recipe for a fucked up dynamic which will leave you stupified.

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Thugs get lonely too, well that's what hookers are for. Don't ever penetrate a hooker, just get meth dick and molest them for an hour or so. That's my PIECE.

[JeffreyH]

A guy complaining that most girls he knows only want a one-night stand?

Oh lawdy.

[REDiXP]

Man, wake up, this is not the end of the world. Life has it's ups and downs, like a rollercoaster man.

Now listen up I'm gonna give you some advise and you better take it, because by me responding with an intelligent and meaningful answer to your long and emotionally enthralled post I'm investing time here to make you feel better about yourself.

I myself feel the same way you do sometimes, that the one ex girlfriend is meant to be and maybe your past and re-kindle a vibrant future - my advise, is the past is the past and the future is the future. Ex-girlfriends are Ex's for a reason, a VALID reason otherwise you wouldn't be together. Myself I have fucked ex-girlfriends hoping something more would become of it, but it never does, why? because my better judgement kicks in, and I remember the valid reason why we broke up.

Women want your time and devotion. If you're a pot head or drunk and smoke/drink every day, you are drastically reducing the percentage of women who may potentially be interested in you. This is because there are brilliant intelligent women out there who hardly ever get intoxicated (as the rule of everything in moderation goes) and when they do they have a fun time, BUT if a woman likes to do all these other fun things without being intoxicated... once they realise you're intoxicated most of the time, a great majority of them will loose interest - WHY you say? because they're looking for compatibility, a relationship in which they share the same interests. Do you want to attract a pot head stoner girlfriend? if so, GREAT! Nothing wrong with that, except one thing I will mention... you may potentially be choosing an addiction to pot or alcohol over a potential partner who does not participate in those substances. What this means is if your perfect partner is out there and she doesn't like to get intoxicated very often, then you are very likely missing out on spending time with her.

So we've talked about the past is the past, and intoxication, now let's talk about the future...

The future. The future a girl sees with a potential future partner is someone that will readily be able to provide for her future she desires, this may be financially, or emotionally, but often one cannot survive without the other. Women also want someone who is interesting. This does not mean you need to go out and become a millionaire to buy her the future she deserves, no, most women realise that they will not reach that level in life as there are very few millionaires, so they will settle for something less.

You said you have accomplished nothing in life so far? Bullshit, you said you like to smoke weed and drink - this must have been while you're around other people, I bet you've made some good friends along the way and had plenty of fun times. But you say this is getting you nowhere at the moment. Fair enough, time to move on from old habits and create new ones.

I'll give you a few options and goals that, once dedicated to and/or accomplished, you will have raised your worth in a womans eyes far greater then any pothead/drunk who cares only about having fun, and theseeee optionssss areeee.....

1) Find a hobby, an interest (examples are beneath this option) that will give you some passion in life - something to talk about when meeting a girl and she asks 'so, what do you do?'. All of these below examples are perfect conversation starters to give her some input on your life, other than 'partying'..... do you know how many guys out there when asked about what they do on the weekends say 'partying' or 'go out for drinks with mates'..... sure these answers have good merit as it shows you have great social skills, but these examples are farrrrr more interesting for one on one conversation with a woman
(painting... women love painting, start a small business, digital art creation, digital sound creation, musical instruments, any kind of sport, media editing for video clips or sound clips, computer programming) all of these examples are just a few, i'm sure there is SOMETHING there you can get involved in and start honing your skills

2) Study - everyone can study, and under many different countries governments study is very often free (until you pay them back that is). What have you always been around as a kid/teenager/adult, what have you always had some interest in? You study full time and make plenty of new interesting friends on campus at university, and even work a part time/casual job to bring in some cash at the same time. This gives you a brighter future which will ensure, most of the time, that you don't continue working at McDonalds until you're 40 years old (Sorry Zoklet'ers if I have offended thee).

My brother has got his future set for him, he's done his hard yards by studying something he loves to do - and now he gets a healthy weekly paycheck, lives with his beautiful girlfriend who is perfect for him, and has a very happy life. This didn't just happen because he was lucky. Most of his success is because he has used Options 1 & 2, he has interests and has done some hard yards by studying his ass off - and well done to him. I can only hope one day to be as happy as him, when I finish my studies I am looking forward to the day things work out for me, I'm only just starting the hard yards right now and I'm the same age you are.
( always been on a PC? study Information Technology! always loved planning parties for your friends? learn how to be a party planner! Want to help people? Become a psychologist! Love the environment? Become an environmental lawyer. You get the picture, I hope)

and finally last but not least, option 3
Option 3) Expansion of self worth and knowledge
Read some books, get inspired (Sound familiar? School teachers have maybe told you this before, but it's true). Books about small business are great because they outline just how much time you're wasting, did you know that the average human being lives for 4000 weeks? How much of that time have you spent aching over heartbreak or worrying about where you're life is going. Realise that we all have 24 hours in our day, and that every second is a chance to turn it all around. What's around you? A basketball court, beach or local gym? Go play basketball man, even if you suck at it! Go for a swim at the beach! Dedicate yourself to the gym for a few weeks and admire your progress!

Don't waste time worrying. As wasted time worrying is death itself. If you stop worrying, you'll unlock limitless potential.

The sky is the limit my friend, and if you don't believe that then look at the foot prints on the moon. Thank You NASA

-RediXP

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

lol my advice is much more sound. get addicted to methamphetamine and watch porn ALL DAY.

[jator]

Originally Posted by Weed Smoker

lol my advice is much more sound. get addicted to methamphetamine and watch porn ALL DAY.

Lololol you're so hopeless it's comical.

[Snoopy]

I'm posting in this thread to subscribe. If I find the time I might give you some real man's advice later.

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

Originally Posted by jator

Lololol you're so hopeless it's comical.

Not in any way shape form or fashion

I guarantee I've had more/better tail than you, i reached the pinnacle of that shit in 2009.

[BitterConflict]

Originally Posted by REDiXP

Man, wake up, this is not the end of the world. Life has it's ups and downs, like a rollercoaster man.

Now listen up I'm gonna give you some advise and you better take it, because by me responding with an intelligent and meaningful answer to your long and emotionally enthralled post I'm investing time here to make you feel better about yourself.

I myself feel the same way you do sometimes, that the one ex girlfriend is meant to be and maybe your past and re-kindle a vibrant future - my advise, is the past is the past and the future is the future. Ex-girlfriends are Ex's for a reason, a VALID reason otherwise you wouldn't be together. Myself I have fucked ex-girlfriends hoping something more would become of it, but it never does, why? because my better judgement kicks in, and I remember the valid reason why we broke up.

Women want your time and devotion. If you're a pot head or drunk and smoke/drink every day, you are drastically reducing the percentage of women who may potentially be interested in you. This is because there are brilliant intelligent women out there who hardly ever get intoxicated (as the rule of everything in moderation goes) and when they do they have a fun time, BUT if a woman likes to do all these other fun things without being intoxicated... once they realise you're intoxicated most of the time, a great majority of them will loose interest - WHY you say? because they're looking for compatibility, a relationship in which they share the same interests. Do you want to attract a pot head stoner girlfriend? if so, GREAT! Nothing wrong with that, except one thing I will mention... you may potentially be choosing an addiction to pot or alcohol over a potential partner who does not participate in those substances. What this means is if your perfect partner is out there and she doesn't like to get intoxicated very often, then you are very likely missing out on spending time with her.

So we've talked about the past is the past, and intoxication, now let's talk about the future...

The future. The future a girl sees with a potential future partner is someone that will readily be able to provide for her future she desires, this may be financially, or emotionally, but often one cannot survive without the other. Women also want someone who is interesting. This does not mean you need to go out and become a millionaire to buy her the future she deserves, no, most women realise that they will not reach that level in life as there are very few millionaires, so they will settle for something less.

You said you have accomplished nothing in life so far? Bullshit, you said you like to smoke weed and drink - this must have been while you're around other people, I bet you've made some good friends along the way and had plenty of fun times. But you say this is getting you nowhere at the moment. Fair enough, time to move on from old habits and create new ones.

I'll give you a few options and goals that, once dedicated to and/or accomplished, you will have raised your worth in a womans eyes far greater then any pothead/drunk who cares only about having fun, and theseeee optionssss areeee.....

1) Find a hobby, an interest (examples are beneath this option) that will give you some passion in life - something to talk about when meeting a girl and she asks 'so, what do you do?'. All of these below examples are perfect conversation starters to give her some input on your life, other than 'partying'..... do you know how many guys out there when asked about what they do on the weekends say 'partying' or 'go out for drinks with mates'..... sure these answers have good merit as it shows you have great social skills, but these examples are farrrrr more interesting for one on one conversation with a woman
(painting... women love painting, start a small business, digital art creation, digital sound creation, musical instruments, any kind of sport, media editing for video clips or sound clips, computer programming) all of these examples are just a few, i'm sure there is SOMETHING there you can get involved in and start honing your skills

2) Study - everyone can study, and under many different countries governments study is very often free (until you pay them back that is). What have you always been around as a kid/teenager/adult, what have you always had some interest in? You study full time and make plenty of new interesting friends on campus at university, and even work a part time/casual job to bring in some cash at the same time. This gives you a brighter future which will ensure, most of the time, that you don't continue working at McDonalds until you're 40 years old (Sorry Zoklet'ers if I have offended thee).

My brother has got his future set for him, he's done his hard yards by studying something he loves to do - and now he gets a healthy weekly paycheck, lives with his beautiful girlfriend who is perfect for him, and has a very happy life. This didn't just happen because he was lucky. Most of his success is because he has used Options 1 & 2, he has interests and has done some hard yards by studying his ass off - and well done to him. I can only hope one day to be as happy as him, when I finish my studies I am looking forward to the day things work out for me, I'm only just starting the hard yards right now and I'm the same age you are.
( always been on a PC? study Information Technology! always loved planning parties for your friends? learn how to be a party planner! Want to help people? Become a psychologist! Love the environment? Become an environmental lawyer. You get the picture, I hope)

and finally last but not least, option 3
Option 3) Expansion of self worth and knowledge
Read some books, get inspired (Sound familiar? School teachers have maybe told you this before, but it's true). Books about small business are great because they outline just how much time you're wasting, did you know that the average human being lives for 4000 weeks? How much of that time have you spent aching over heartbreak or worrying about where you're life is going. Realise that we all have 24 hours in our day, and that every second is a chance to turn it all around. What's around you? A basketball court, beach or local gym? Go play basketball man, even if you suck at it! Go for a swim at the beach! Dedicate yourself to the gym for a few weeks and admire your progress!

Don't waste time worrying. As wasted time worrying is death itself. If you stop worrying, you'll unlock limitless potential.

The sky is the limit my friend, and if you don't believe that then look at the foot prints on the moon. Thank You NASA

-RediXP

Yeah my close friend told me the minute a person spends complaining about a situation in life is 60 seconds wasted of improving themselves.

Options 2 & 3 are the right approaches, and I'm going to invest some time improving myself.

It's hard to kick a bad habit, though.

I'm going to put a hold on women for a while and work on myself, because I don't want them to see me like this. I've got a lot of problems and I'm going to see a therapist about it, hopefully it'll steer me in the right direction and help me out of depression.

I don't have that many interests though. I only game and browse the internetz. That's about it.

[Nameraca]

Meeting people is hard. Especially when you are older. People form cliques and such... I have this feeling, at least looking around where I live, in a big capital, that people long to form groups and have solidarity, yet are alone in this as they fear others and are not ready to put a lot of time in getting to know other people. Also, they don't trust easily.

We are all guilty of this. Local nudist groups have alot of issue with lone men, altough being single is totally legit and understandable, yet how do you filter creeps? Women are usually weaker and can be easily cast out.

In other cases, student right groups, sports groups, or simply people groups... they all have issue with having new people in. Hell, the biggest thing is that once someone is accepted in, they usually try and cast him in a role, and if role is not followed, they are rejected. But I digress.

I have had issues but my recent sexual encounter cleared all that. I realized that one: Putting your dick anywhere is kinda dangerous - Two: That the cost of meeting people (alcohol and other things, time, patience) is often pushed to the limit (in my case, low tolerance for new people (introverted) and anxiety from drinking hard liquor) and three: sex isn't all that it's made out to be, it's just a normal bodily function while fun it's overrated.

I've sought it so hard because I was frustrated from my last relationship, but now, I feel calmer and my libido is back to normal levels. Guess it was just from frustration. I don't feel starved for it anymore.

My best bet is lower your standards a bit, work on yourself a bit, and then go on OKcupid and AS A SIDE ACTIVITY, not a main one, message people and get them to come for a drink - but get them to come to you, to a bar near your place, so that's it's easier to move there. Sex first, date second.

But yeah, people really suck and you have to find the right people to be friends with and sometimes that's kinda hard.

A couple useful links about how people interact:

http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/2011/0...e-culture.html
http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/2011/0...et-anyway.html

[REDiXP]

^^ Sex first & Date second??? ^^

Worst advise ever when it comes to meeting your potential perfect future partner

[Nameraca]

By date I meant relationship, sorry. Lost in translation & shit.

At some point, if there is no sexual attraction, it's pointless and even if there is there is still sexual compatibility.

I admit relationships cannot be built alone on the grounds of pure passion and intensity. Even so, I'd dare say... still I'd say I lack experience in the relationship domain, but then again girls are as clueless as guys when it comes to them.

Depends of what you want, but sexual deprivation/frustration (as the act of sex) can get you to see reality for what it is not. In my experience, fulfilling sex (no drama, decent, simple, erotic) brings you back to reality about what it is.

[Duke Zion]

I always believed that at my age it was too late for me to find a girl and develop a relationship but to my surprise it did happen. What made this happen was me changing the way I carried myself. I was somewhat quiet at times which of course does not work well when you want a woman to like you.

I also didn't care to find a woman, I had my heart broken before and never really had the desire to try to get out and find a girl but it happened by fate and I am glad it did.

Just because a woman is nice to your or is with you does not mean she is ready for sex right away. You are best off not rushing or pressuring her into it. It will happen when it is right. It also depends what kind of woman you are talking to. Some can be uptight or shy when it comes to sex. Start off by just touching or rubbing her, not necessarily in a sexual way unless she seems to be OK with it.

Confidence is Always key to getting a girls attention. Don't overdo it or it will come off the wrong way and may turn her off. Be yourself dont try to change the way you act in order to come off as someone you are not. There is nothing wrong with changing things that are negative but being fake is not going to help, women can see through that shit if they are smart enough.

Drugs dont help either, they may be a temp solution but they just give you a false sense of self confidence which wont last after they wear off.

[13579]

I've just given up on woman. I'm sick of all the bullshit they cause, and I refuse to trust any of them in a relationship setting.

My last girlfriend would have to take most of the blame for that. Shit happened, I broke up with her, and months later we started talking again, and fixed all of the old problems.

Thing is, I randomly learned from a friend that she fucked my best friend a little bit after we broke up. After a shitstorm, everything is fine again. We start seeing eachother, but decide not to tell anyone because of the social shit that would cause between our friends.

Everything seems good. She's happy, or so she says, I'm happy. We're doing everything together. We're talking about finding a place to rent together, we talk every day, shits good.

Then one day months later out of FUCKING NOWHERE she pretty much tells me everything was a lie, and that she's been leading me on for the last several months, as she realized she doesn't want any of this but didn't want to tell me. I get a shit explanation from her, and when I ask for a better one I get this whole "I don't own you anything" bullshit and she goes nuts. Says she wants to stay friends though, bla bla bla. Afterwards she completely stops talking to me. Though calls me one day a month later to complain about my friend she fucked, and to ask my opinion on some tatoo she's never going to get.

Ask a female friend to gather information, I read some text messages, have a different (but still shit) explanation that makes no sense. Oh, she also says I used her. The fuck? If anything, I'm the one that got used here. I wanted a legitimate relationship, and she just used me until it was convenient to throw me away.

Oh, and looks like she's probably chasing the dick of another close friend of mine. Whom she started hanging out with again right before she told me to fuck off. Whom she said was like a brother to her and nothing could ever happen with.

It's like everything we've been through together and every time I was there for her suddenly doesn't fucking matter. Like nothing I did counted for anything, she threw me away just like that.

So, there's my sob story of why I don't trust people. It's a little more complex than that, but I don't want a huge wall of text. Thought I'd contribute after reading all of yours. Thoughts?

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

drugs > women

money > women

money = drugs

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[rabbitweed]

Originally Posted by Snoopy

I'm posting in this thread to subscribe. If I find the time I might give you some real man's advice later.

Being an accomplished gnu-hunter doesn't mean you know anything about human females.

[Snoopy]

Originally Posted by rabbitweed

Being an accomplished gnu-hunter doesn't mean you know anything about human females.

Rabbitweed you are arguably the least appealing looking dude on zoklet. Acting like a playboy on the Interbutts does not really work in your favour.

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

that's why im buyin diamonds
my flow is THAT sweet

[rabbitweed]

Originally Posted by Snoopy

Rabbitweed you are arguably the least appealing looking dude on zoklet. Acting like a playboy on the Interbutts does not really work in your favour.

All the deflecting in the world won't change the fact you're five feet tall and have a gnu/wife.

[Snoopy]

Originally Posted by rabbitweed

All the deflecting in the world won't change the fact you're five feet tall and have a gnu/wife.

Now you're just being butthurt.

[Tokerface]

Oh yeah I forgot, SNOOPY IS MARRIED TO A 2/10!

[CarbonBV2]

Originally Posted by BitterConflict

This happened to me about 2-3 times in my life. I wasn't asking for this nor looking for a lady at those times, but now I see that getting at women is hard nowadays or at least when you're out of high school.

I'm about to turn 22 years old and I feel like I haven't done shit with my life so far. It sucks because the women know it too. I don't radiate that much confidence and I choose to be introverted which is definitely a disadvantage for me.

It sounds like I'm complaining, but I'm sick and tired how most women act in society. They think they can do anything they want just by flirting around and attention whoring to get exactly what they want. Maybe I'm just jealous because I can't get any. I had several chances to get some, but I pussied out because I knew it was a one night stand and I know she's gonna leave me and never come back. I'm sensitive and it's bothering me so damn much. My friends tell me I think too much, but I can't help it.

I think this sense of entitlement is killing me because it makes me think I deserve a nice looking lady, but the truth is I don't deserve shit. I'm just upset at the path I chose to sever my ties with all the women I talked to in my life. I wish I could've told them how I feel about our friendship, but they thought I wasn't man enough for them.

I just miss my high school days when encountering a girl was easier. Nowadays, most girls don't care or just want a one night stand.

I just want to run into a girl that makes all the first moves. I'll be glad to reciprocate back, but my little fantasy won't come true, because of the negativity I give out.

Most people see me as a creeper, and think so too, but to an extent. For the longest time I tried to rekindle friendship with women that I once knew in high school on social networking sites, but I end up with the convo getting stale and they stop talking or them not responding at all. I realized this when I tried to hit up my ex-coworker on a social networking site asking her how is she doing and if she still works at this place. It's been about four days and she hasn't responded yet. I'm assuming I creeped her out or maybe she doesn't go on her profile at all. Wait never mind she ignored it, because gurls use social networking sites non-stop or on a day to day basis. She was just being nice to me because it was the right thing to do and I misinterpreted it. I just don't know what women want anymore or tell if they're interested in me.

I used to talk to this girl that's in a messed up relationshit, but it seems like her somewhat terrible boyfriend is the best boyfriend she's ever had. This girl is fucking ditzy as hell and thinks she's intelligent. She's a fine looking lady, but she's an attention whore who happens to play videogames and watch anime, which I find somewhat attractive. I don't know why she responded back to me after all these messages we talked back and forth about life and such. I somehow convinced myself that I should care for this girl, even though she has a bf. I tried to tell her that I want to know more about her in a subtle way, but it ain't gonna happen. She's definitely loyal, but not a keeper. She thinks she's smart, but deep down she knows she's weak and she doesn't know what to do about it. I know her bf is doing her best to please her, but I don't think it's enough. These are the thoughts I used to think until I met her in real life again when we were at some party. I remember I was drunk and she had a little to drink as well and it was a moment where we were alone together, and I decided to sit next to her. As soon as I sat down and tried to talk to her while getting a bit comfortable, she moved a couple inches away from me. The sad part is that she was already far enough from me. I felt like I invaded her privacy way too much and her body language definitely summed it up. I was crushed that night. I know I wanted to get on her good side and maybe when she breaks up with her bf I'll be her rebound, but now I see that my way of thinking about women will cause me to have a difficult path in life. I mean she made it apparent to everyone that her bf mistreats her, but it seems like she mistreats him. This girl seems like bad news and plus she has a bunch of white-knights waiting for her to break it off with her bf as well.

I'm ashamed of myself into thinking that women want to fuck you or be with you just because they're nice to you. This way of thinking has led me into depression and short friendships with women. I just want a woman to love for who I am. I know it sounds retarded, but a woman can't love me just by meeting me, so this makes my desire illogical. I remember one girl told me that you don't need a gurl to be happy. I thought about that quote, but it was just a way of dealing with rejection and depression. This depression led me into a delusional state of my life when I thought rekindling this friendship with a girl that used to like me would get back with me. I used to send her love letters on social networking sites, but she eventually stopped responding to them and almost got a restraining order for me. She even got her sister on me, because she was too afraid to talk to me and tell me to leave her alone. That shattered me. I know I was obsessed with this chick, but I couldn't get my mind off her. She saw me as a creeper. I will concede to that. I thought talking to a girl like that will instantly rekindle the flames we once had, but I was too damn pushy and I moved too damn fast where she stopped talking to me.

Women come and go, and I just want to keep meeting more until I find the right one. The problem is that I don't know who she is and I need to break my comfort zone and talk to them. I know alcohol and weed won't help, because I might become dependent on it and need it to socialize, but then again it makes me a bit chill and at ease when I talk to women. I'm indecisive and not confident enough to be myself in front of a woman. I always gotta impress them, but I end up failing miserably at it. I just need to get a job to occupy my mind, because this boredom is making me think about a lot of depressing shit.

I want to know what I want and get it. Other than that, I'm trying to find the motivation to make my life worth living.

TL;DR
It's hard to meet a good woman or a keeper nowadays. Me just ranting about women and my experiences with them. Know what you want in life and get it.

Dude, you are a loser, unattractive, a creeper and exhibit no qualities that any woman no matter how fat and desperate would find attractive. I think you should just go ahead and kill yourself, because I'm getting really tired of the whining.

[BitterConflict]

Originally Posted by CarbonBV2

Dude, you are a loser, unattractive, a creeper and exhibit no qualities that any woman no matter how fat and desperate would find attractive. I think you should just go ahead and kill yourself, because I'm getting really tired of the whining.

Kill myself? I think you should kill yourself. I may be socially retarded when it comes to women, but that doesn't mean I have to off myself. You superficial bitch.

[Blunderstar]

Humiliating Pie - YouTube

Humiliating Pie - YouTube
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[Snoopy]

Originally Posted by Blunderstar

Humiliating Pie - YouTube

Interesting, that video completely explains your autism.

[Blunderstar]

Originally Posted by Snoopy

Interesting, that video completely explains your autism.

I don't though. I don't have autism.

[BitterConflict]

Fuck this thread, but I don't regret making it. I finally got it all off my chest.

[Blunderstar]

I don't mean to sound insulting or anything, but are you even trying to get a girlfriend? Like - have you seen The Jeremy Kyle Show, for example? Bitches will take anything these days.

[BitterConflict]

Originally Posted by Blunderstar

I don't mean to sound insulting or anything, but are you even trying to get a girlfriend? Like - have you seen The Jeremy Kyle Show, for example? Bitches will take anything these days.

I don't care at this time of my life right now. I'd rather get a job first then finish school.

I feel miserable staying at home doing nothing but playing videogames and applying for shitty retail jobs.

[Blunderstar]

I suggest either

a) Embracing your submissiveness
b) Embracing your dominance

Teetering back and forth won't do you any good. Fap to an extreme and you'll feel better.

[BitterConflict]

What girl would put up with me at the moment? I always stay at home. I choose to be anti-social. I hate everything that has to do with society or socializing in general. I feel like a damn parasite in my family because I don't have a job.

I do have nothing going on for me at the moment, but I invested too much time into school. So hopefully sometime in the future it will reward me.

I'm still looking for a purpose in life. I don't feel like committing suicide at all. It's just I don't know what the fuck to do with my life.

[BitterConflict]

Originally Posted by Blunderstar

I suggest either

a) Embracing your submissiveness
b) Embracing your dominance

Teetering back and forth won't do you any good. Fap to an extreme and you'll feel better.

I have to be more dominant. There's no way I'm stay submissive.

[CarbonBV2]

Originally Posted by BitterConflict

Kill myself? I think you should kill yourself. I may be socially retarded when it comes to women, but that doesn't mean I have to off myself. You superficial bitch.

Well speak of superficiality, your post reeks of it.

Originally Posted by BitterConflict

What girl would put up with me at the moment? I always stay at home. I choose to be anti-social. I hate everything that has to do with society or socializing in general. I feel like a damn parasite in my family because I don't have a job.

I do have nothing going on for me at the moment, but I invested too much time into school. So hopefully sometime in the future it will reward me.

I'm still looking for a purpose in life. I don't feel like committing suicide at all. It's just I don't know what the fuck to do with my life.

It sounds like you should stop whining and just...die.

Originally Posted by BitterConflict

I have to be more dominant. There's no way I'm stay submissive.

Dude you don't have a job, you are literally everyone in the world's bitch.

[Blunderstar]

Originally Posted by BitterConflict

What girl would put up with me at the moment? I always stay at home. I choose to be anti-social. I hate everything that has to do with society or socializing in general.

Why is this stopping you from socializing? You think Ted Bundy liked people? I think you're just lazy.

[southernsun]

Fuck bitches, just get a dog

[RubysAviary]

Originally Posted by Blunderstar

Why is this stopping you from socializing? You think Ted Bundy liked people? I think you're just lazy.

Agreed. Your dilemma is that you crave something that requires you to be social yet you can't be fucked to do it properly. C'mon.

[REDiXP]

One good post with meaningful content can't outweigh the negativity that comes from several of the troll users who have nothing better than to put someone down when they ask for advise or help. Ignore the haters who push that negativity onto you man, fuck them, it's their loss they bathe in the filth they call advise. In other words, you are not a loser and you should not kill yourself. Waste of freedom to read such trash like that