This conversation I was just analyzing...

[trolly]

What do you guys think; this is something I was just pondering about

Read this:



and tell me what you think

What I'm thinking

- Wow this guy seems really desperate HAVING to point out all the stuff he did.. that means she doesn't really like him
and doesn't even really remember all the stuff he did for her.. then why did he even like her in the first place?

- But then I check his facebook.. and he has 6000+ subscribers.. and he's this singer lol.. okay so all that stuff he did
was not desperate.. and is actually really sweet.. wow he's a nice guy.. cuz he probably has A TON of girls interested in him...

-which makes me wonder.. why did THIS girl really interest him.. that he can't let go of her.. and has to beg?

-and im wondering.. why did all her friends ditch her on her birthday?! did she do something that's so horrible that none
of her friends like her? then how come this guy is really interested in her? she seems to have negative qualities?

[ZeroMalarki]

Girl is a trashy self absorbed whore.

[Xavier-]

I'm thinking.............why am i reading other peoples facebook drama?

[The Chuggernaut]

Painesville sounds shitty.

P.S. you're a pussy, he got bored and decided to fuck another guy. Don't get yourself down, at least he found you attractive enough to fuck on the side.

E: Is Casey a guys or girls name? jesus.

[Mirana]

Being nice is good when you've been with someone less then a few months, but you need to know when to draw the line. Like if you drive all the way out to painseville when they having a shitty time. It's okay you're being decent human being, but don't call them the next day singing to them to, let them call you to see if they care enough to do something for you now. IMO he came off as desperate a few to many times and it turned her off.

which makes me wonder.. why did THIS girl really interest him.. that he can't let go of her.. and has to beg?

-and im wondering.. why did all her friends ditch her on her birthday?! did she do something that's so horrible that none
of her friends like her? then how come this guy is really interested in her? she seems to have negative qualities?

also ..why you would ask these questions to strangers is beyond me, how the fuck should we know?

[M. Samuel Chevalier]

You call that an analysis? 10 pager, on my desk, MONDAY morning!

[Poop]

em, you're not able to just look at people's private messages on facebook. why are you pretending that isn't you?

[trolly]

Originally Posted by Mirana

Being nice is good when you've been with someone less then a few months, but you need to know when to draw the line. Like if you drive all the way out to painseville when they having a shitty time. It's okay you're being decent human being, but don't call them the next day singing to them to, let them call you to see if they care enough to do something for you now. IMO he came off as desperate a few to many times and it turned her off.



also ..why you would ask these questions to strangers is beyond me, how the fuck should we know?

Ah okay I learned some good insight from the conversation we've generated. The guy was really clingy basically and desperate (which I felt too). He drove all the way to see her, and he drive way too hard...

Originally Posted by poop

em, you're not able to just look at people's private messages on facebook. why are you pretending that isn't you?

and nope, I'm not a famous singer/star lol. I wish. I got this off one of those site's and I was just wondering about it.


And I can't figure out for the life of me why he would be stuck on this girl when there were a lot of cute attractive girls writing on his facebook wall sympathizing for him.

[shotse]

Originally Posted by trolly

what do you guys think; this is something i was just pondering about

read this:



and tell me what you think

what i'm thinking

- wow this guy seems really desperate having to point out all the stuff he did.. That means she doesn't really like him
and doesn't even really remember all the stuff he did for her.. Then why did he even like her in the first place?

- but then i check his facebook.. And he has 6000+ subscribers.. And he's this singer lol.. Okay so all that stuff he did
was not desperate.. And is actually really sweet.. Wow he's a nice guy.. Cuz he probably has a ton of girls interested in him...

-which makes me wonder.. Why did this girl really interest him.. That he can't let go of her.. And has to beg?

-and im wondering.. Why did all her friends ditch her on her birthday?! Did she do something that's so horrible that none
of her friends like her? Then how come this guy is really interested in her? She seems to have negative qualities?

shut the fuck up you pussy

kill
yourself
right
now

[Dfg]

Simple trick, show the girls you care, give them the best time of their life and walk away. Works everytime, they either forget you (which saves you future issues) or find you and fuck you hard day and night.


Or basically, JUST HAVE FUCKING SELF RESPECT. Also, this helps in a lot of cases. Pretend she is a dude and just roll with it. As TDR said, enjoy while it lasts, DON'T think about the future and don't fucking commit. It saved my ass.

[STD]

OP is a virgin.

Then I took a glance at the screenshot.

OP is certainly a virgin.

for overanalysis by a virgin.

No insult man, it's just typical of virgins and guys who rarely get laid.

[Dfg]

I just saw the picture, what a dumbass. This is the exact same reason why I love white girls, sooner or later they will dumb your ass and move on. You just fuck them & leave. That guy got hoodwinked. Oh well, I hope he learned his lesson. Good guys ALWAYS, I will repeat ALWAYS GET FUCKED. That's how things work. If you're a cunt you will get everything, if you're a decent, nice and caring human being that actually gives a fuck about the world, YOU WILL GET THE BITTER end of the deal.

The best way is to be the middle guy, good and bad. That's what I have become. I can be good and I can be bad. To fucking extremes.

[psychomanthis]

Fuck that bitch.

[p6867]

She's a fucking whore. She should spend her entire life with the first guy to be both nice and in her vagina. Fuck what she wants, this other kid took her to the cheesecake factory for her birthday. That's like, at least 60 dollars for two people. Once you've spent that kind of money, you're basically married.

Shit, how did she leave him? He was NICE!

That's the only quality in the world that matters.

[Zanick]

That was kind of harsh. She deserved it though. I hope he holds to his principles, he should find somebody real.

Unless this is some kind of power game, anyway.

[p6867]

Originally Posted by Dfg

I just saw the picture, what a dumbass. This is the exact same reason why I love white girls, sooner or later they will dumb your ass and move on. You just fuck them & leave. That guy got hoodwinked. Oh well, I hope he learned his lesson. Good guys ALWAYS, I will repeat ALWAYS GET FUCKED. That's how things work. If you're a cunt you will get everything, if you're a decent, nice and caring human being that actually gives a fuck about the world, YOU WILL GET THE BITTER end of the deal.

The best way is to be the middle guy, good and bad. That's what I have become. I can be good and I can be bad. To fucking extremes.

I'm a nice guy and i do really well with women. It's probably because i don't act like being nice is the only quality i should need. Being 'nice' is a good quality, but it's not the only good quality. I'm also fun, funny, sociable, successful, well groomed, fit and well dressed. I'm a good dude to hang out with. I'm also nice.

See the difference?

[Zanick]

Originally Posted by p6867

I'm a nice guy and i do really well with women. It's probably because i don't act like being nice is the only quality i should need. Being 'nice' is a good quality, but it's not the only good quality. I'm also fun, funny, sociable, successful, well groomed, fit and well dressed. I'm a good dude to hang out with. I'm also nice.

See the difference?

fucking this

I'm one of those 'nice guys who never gets the girl' and it took so long before I was able to see that girls don't just want douchebags, they want qualities that I lack, that those people happen to have. Or not, and they dump their asses eventually anyhow.

[tuer502gt]

I'm a nice guy with no job and am a pussy and I get girls. I have no qualities.

[Myxomatosis]

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[Poop]

Originally Posted by Dfg

I just saw the picture, what a dumbass. This is the exact same reason why I love white girls, sooner or later they will dumb your ass and move on. You just fuck them & leave. That guy got hoodwinked. Oh well, I hope he learned his lesson. Good guys ALWAYS, I will repeat ALWAYS GET FUCKED. That's how things work. If you're a cunt you will get everything, if you're a decent, nice and caring human being that actually gives a fuck about the world, YOU WILL GET THE BITTER end of the deal.

The best way is to be the middle guy, good and bad. That's what I have become. I can be good and I can be bad. To fucking extremes.

Everyone is like that. Anyone that calls themselves a "nice guy" or "bad boy" are deluded fucks with no real understanding of themselves.

[tuer502gt]

Originally Posted by Poop

Everyone is like that. Anyone that calls themselves a "nice guy" or "bad boy" are deluded fucks with no real understanding of themselves.

I call myself a nice guy.

[M. Samuel Chevalier]

I call myself a bad boy




when I masturbate

[Poop]

Originally Posted by tuer502gt

I call myself a nice guy.

Chances are you're not as nice as you think.

[tuer502gt]

Chances are I am very introspective.

[SomeBum]

never bother me with strangers face book drama again. you need to go and see sunlight if you give the smallest amount of fucks about this.

[trolly]

Originally Posted by p6867

I'm a nice guy and i do really well with women. It's probably because i don't act like being nice is the only quality i should need. Being 'nice' is a good quality, but it's not the only good quality. I'm also fun, funny, sociable, successful, well groomed, fit and well dressed. I'm a good dude to hang out with. I'm also nice.

See the difference?

I agree

I used to know nothing about style or how to talk or how to be funny

And I learned all those skills, AND I'm a nice guy too. Now I attract most of the girls that I talk to.

I can give off a good first impression before I introduce myself to the girl.

[BitterConflict]

Y'all need to realize that being a gentlemen will truly get your ass placed in last. Women love betas who are doormats, because they make good emotional dumps. These bitches have no honor and gravitate to superficial guys that treat them like the whores they are.

If you're going to be nice to bitches, don't expect to get anything out of it. Don't be a fucking doormat, either.

Honor and self-respect is something that some people have and others don't.

[Tokerface]

Originally Posted by STD

OP is a virgin.

Then I took a glance at the screenshot.

OP is certainly a virgin.

Incorrect.



He raped her.

[36fuckin5]

Rape still counts as sex.

[Ligaturd]

Fuck the "oh he was such a good guy, she should have stayed with him because he does stuff for her". If somebody isn't attracted to you then they are not attracted to you, I sincerely doubt it's because people would consider him a nice guy. Being nice only goes so far, what if she didn't like his personality, she wasn't attracted to him visually? Some women like assholes but it would be a huge over generalization to say that all woman like assholes; there are so many variables at play here. Just focusing on one aspect of yourself or somebody else because you can't handle that somebody just doesn't find you as attractive as you find them is childish.

Sure be butt hurt for awhile after it happens, it's natural to feel terrible when somebody doesn't have reciprocal feelings for you but I would rather find out sooner than later that the person that I thought I loved was just staying in the relationship because they feel it's the right thing to do or they just don't want to hurt you.

Situations like these ought to teach people not to invest so much emotion into a relationship so early into the relationship, that's a huge part of life; being let down and hurt like this guy was, sure it sucks, but pain is an important part of growing, it's how we learn. I would even go as far as to say it is necessary to get your heart broken when you are young because it's going to give you the motivation to approach the next relationship more tactfully.

I think this idea about nice guys just constantly get fucked over by woman could come partially come from (in a lot of cases) "Nice Guys" who never bothered to learn from the past, constantly going for woman with similar personality traits subconsciously and allowing a similar situation to happen again. I have witnessed a lot of people go through many horrible/abusive relationships over and over again, once somebody starts making the same bad decisions in choosing somebody to be with repeatedly it can become habit forming, they learn to associate abusive relationships with love and affection they subconsciously start seeking these situations out subconsciously, it becomes normal to be treated like shit.

Anyways, guys need to stop bitching about how they don't get what they want out of woman simply because they are nice. They need to start thinking about all of the variables that come in to play with each and every experience with a new partner, analyze yourself, try to empathize and look upon yourself without the huge bias that springs out of feeling as if you were wronged and realize that you are probably better off without them and quite possibly that they are better off without you because they took the plunge, ended the relationship (which is very hard to do in most cases) sooner rather than later and you can both go about your lives and move onto the next human being that you will inevitably start a relationship with somewhere down the road but this time with more experience and more caution.

[ThunderDownUnder]

Originally Posted by Ligaturd

Bricks of text.

Fuck you for bumping this.

[STEROS]

what a faggot.

she still offered the "friends with benefits" deal.

homo.