Can't be attracted to anyone at all

[sepht]

Believe it or not I've had times where girls and guys seemed like they were coming on to me. However such advances leaves me cold and uncaring toward any of them. I remember one young chap who made it obviously clear he wanted to hook up with me but instead of continuing his friendship and possibility of something more, I became withdrawn to a point where I simply ignored his phone calls and internet PMs. It's gotten to a point where I've cut off all contact with anyone, only going out at midnight when no one is around.

I get a lot of people saying my German Shepherd is beautiful but such advances makes him nervous to a point where he hides behind my legs like a scared puppy. I have the same problem he has but I learned how to dissociate to a point where I'm a robot without feelings. When I get back to the safety of my room however, the bottled up emotions come out, leaving me frustrated and confused. I get this mini mental break down, shaking and rocking with my arms hugged around my knees. My dog then becomes very concerned and lays down next to me with a sigh, which helps a bunch.

I feel like I'm destined to be a loner and as time progresses my avoidance becomes more and more set in my stone cold demeanor.

[BitterConflict]

Stop fucking your dog.

And don't tell anyone that you have sexual encounters with your dog either.

Just by you fucking your dog alone, has completely corroded your already fucked up brain.

[Marty McFly]

I can't tell if you're trolling or not, but either way, your dog sounds awesome.

[Proots]

Sounds like you just have some social anxiety issues and are compensating with a textbook/stereotypical "I don't need them, my heart is cold" type of mindset.

Why do you feel like you're not worthy to have any sort of relationship? Why do you feel so inadequate and fucked up?

[Zanick]

To me it sounds like you get emotional fulfillment from your dog, which brings you comfort because he will always love and accept you, he protects you from rejection and makes you feel safe. But you expect to require that from other people, so you feel nervous because you aren't sure how to approach a relationship with another human, and maybe guilty for being unable to reciprocate their advances, and I'd imagine this results in some self-depreciation.

You might be living in your head far too much, I know that happens to me when I neglect the part of me that wants to be around people. Have you considered taking him to a dog run? I think both you and your dog could benefit from getting more active in a social setting. This would be scary at first, reintegrating with your community doesn't happen overnight. Aside from this I would definitely see a therapist about your avoidant tendencies.

[is all mememememe with me]

i'll just leave this here

Partial list of zoonoses

* Anthrax
* Babesiosis
* Balantidiasis
* Barmah Forest virus
* Bartonellosis
* Bilharzia
* Bolivian hemorrhagic fever
* Brucellosis
* Borrelia (Lyme disease and others)
* Borna virus infection
* Bovine tuberculosis
* Campylobacteriosis
* Cat Scratch Disease
* Chagas disease
* Chlamydophila psittaci
* Cholera
* Cowpox
* Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (vCJD),

a transmissible spongiform encephalopathy (TSE)
from bovine spongiform encephalopathy (BSE) or "mad cow disease"

* Crimean-Congo hemorrhagic fever
* Cryptosporidiosis
* Cutaneous larva migrans
* Dengue fever
* Ebola
* Echinococcosis



* Escherichia coli O157:H7
* Erysipelothrix rhusiopathiae
* Eastern equine encephalitis virus
* Western equine encephalitis virus
* Venezuelan equine encephalitis virus
* Giardia lamblia
* H1N1 flu
* Hantavirus
* Helminths
* Hendra virus
* Henipavirus
* Human Immunodeficiency Virus
* Korean hemorrhagic fever
* Kyasanur forest disease
* Lábrea fever
* Lassa fever
* Leishmaniasis
* Leptospirosis
* Listeriosis
* Lymphocytic choriomeningitis virus
* Marburg fever
* Mediterranean spotted fever
* Mycobacterium marinum
* Monkey B
* Nipah fever
* Ocular larva migrans
* Omsk hemorrhagic fever
* Ornithosis (psittacosis)
* Orf (animal disease)



* Oropouche fever
* Pasteurellosis
* Plague
* Puumala virus
* Q-Fever
* Psittacosis, or "parrot fever"
* Rabies
* Rift Valley fever
* Ringworms (Tinea canis)
* Rotavirus
* Salmonellosis
* Sodoku
* Sparganosis
* Streptococcus suis
* Toxocariasis
* Toxoplasmosis
* Trichinosis
* Tularemia, or "rabbit fever"
* Typhus of Rickettsiae
* Venezuelan hemorrhagic fever
* Visceral larva migrans
* West Nile virus
* Yellow fever
* Yersiniosis

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zoonosi...st_of_zoonoses

[sepht]

Originally Posted by Unwyred

Sepht, if you came here looking for advice, you need to see a psychiatrist and a psychologist. You need therapy and medication because you obviously suffer from some kind of dissociative disorder and cannot function properly socially.

Please, seek professional help before it gets worse and you end up hurting yourself or someone else.

I already went to a therapist to talk about the root of my problems. I just wanted to see how the community would react.

My therapist said that being a shut in is fine and you should focus on making millions of dollars, which will open up a world of trust amongst the bourgeois.

[Marty McFly]

Originally Posted by sepht

My therapist said that being a shut in is fine

They lied and sound like a horrible therapist.

The world is beautiful, with so much to see, and your problem is curable. It's just a matter of you having the willpower and desire to do so. It's so much easier to accept how you are as "that's how I was made, so it's how I'm meant to be" and to give up. No. You were made faulty, or at some point became faulty. Fix your self.

If you need people to talk your problems out with, talk here. Begin by ignoring the trolls. I'm assuming being gay is a major issue for you? Maybe start there.

Honestly, the way I beat my insecurities at first was drugs, but that just lead to bigger problems than insecurities. Then it was fitness, and that is a more sustainable solution. You could also look at that? It could be that you're over judgemental of your self, doubting that you'll be able toe eventuate anything so you cut your self off short before others even get the chance to - just to avoid rejection. Rejection comes in many forms, often subtle. You sound like one of these dudes.

[felonious_monk]

One foot out and one foot back it dont pay to live like that

Jus get out there man n clean up ur life. It takes work but when u get past it it will be worth it

[sepht]

Originally Posted by Marty McFly

They lied and sound like a horrible therapist.

The world is beautiful, with so much to see, and your problem is curable. It's just a matter of you having the willpower and desire to do so. It's so much easier to accept how you are as "that's how I was made, so it's how I'm meant to be" and to give up. No. You were made faulty, or at some point became faulty. Fix your self.

If you need people to talk your problems out with, talk here. Begin by ignoring the trolls. I'm assuming being gay is a major issue for you? Maybe start there.

Honestly, the way I beat my insecurities at first was drugs, but that just lead to bigger problems than insecurities. Then it was fitness, and that is a more sustainable solution. You could also look at that? It could be that you're over judgemental of your self, doubting that you'll be able toe eventuate anything so you cut your self off short before others even get the chance to - just to avoid rejection. Rejection comes in many forms, often subtle. You sound like one of these dudes.

No

i will fight and claw my way to the top and none of you are going to stop me

Rancid - Maxwell Murder - YouTube

Rancid - Maxwell Murder - YouTube
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[sepht]

Originally Posted by Unwyred

You're awful at lying, sir.

why would i lie and what difference does it make if im lying or not

[Marty McFly]

Troll. Lock this shit.

[sepht]

I still want to help mankind but i know that your enemies seduce you to gather secrets for blackmail

the less people connected to your business, the less security leaks will be had.

you dont understand the power of words and their effects on the mind. If you remind yourself every day to make a lot of money, your subconscious makes you go through the motions to get that goal.

Bob Proctor on The Secret - YouTube

Bob Proctor on The Secret - YouTube
Video: click to display

[Marty McFly]

Originally Posted by sepht

I still want to help mankind but i know that your enemies seduce you to gather secrets for blackmail

the less people connected to your business, the less security leaks will be had.

you dont understand the power of words and their effects on the mind. If you remind yourself every day to make a lot of money, your subconscious makes you go through the motions to get that goal.

Bob Proctor on The Secret - YouTube

You're a fucking mong and have made me feel better today knowing that my life is SO much fucking better than yours.

Thank you, sincerely, for making my day better.

[sepht]

Originally Posted by Marty McFly

You're a fucking mong and have made me feel better today knowing that my life is SO much fucking better than yours.

Thank you, sincerely, for making my day better.

your welcome

i think science and progress can lead to all people's happiness

Charlie Chaplin final speech in The Great Dictator - YouTube

Charlie Chaplin final speech in The Great Dictator - YouTube
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[REDiXP]

Dogs are a mans best friend. I believe they can pickup on emotions in human beings and often mimic them. For example, if you're having a really fun time throwing a frizbie and entertaining your dog then the dog will pickup on those emotional frequencies and be happy as shit! I'm not saying your dog is unhappy because you are unhappy, I'm just saying try being a little more positive and happy and look for changes in your dogs behaviour (going from sad, to happy) and use this as inspiration in order to remain happy and positive for your beloved pet

[Marsh]

I too have been feeling less and less attracted to older girls.

[Tokerface]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality

[Leshrac]

You don't need any kind of stupid "professional help".

You just have the capacity to turn off your feelings. I do too and it's great.

The only thing you need to do to avoid these "breakdowns" is to learn to channel some emotions. Find your strongest emotional barrier and gradually replace what "breaks you down" with it.

Won't work 'on the fly' at first but after a few weeks/months of doing it, you'll feel a hell of a lot better being completely desensitized.

At one point it will become second nature and you'll do it without even realizing it, which is something AWESOME since you'll be able to fake any emotion at will and with a credibility not even a professional actor would achieve.

I suggest reading a few books on cold reading and emotional responses, that way you'll be able to adjust yourself to the 'emotional response' someone talking to you would expect fit best to whatever crap he/she is spewing. It's exceptionally handy to identify and pick up fragile girls/men.

[chilldo]

did you tell your therapist that you have sex with your dog?

you probably dont want to hear this but i think your dog might be holding you back from the real world. my sister had a dog when we were younger and it seriously impaired her social development because she was closer to that fucking dog than any human, which in my opinion is why she treated everyone else like shit.

[Proots]

Some people are defective units. They would never and will never fit in to any "social norms" that any kind of society offers. You are defective. Nothing is going to fix you. Ever. I mean, you have sex with a dog. Seriously.

You might as well accept that fact and just learn to deal with it the best you can.

[Leshrac]

Have you seen the kind of women some men are inclined to date/fuck ?

I bet a dog is a whole more easier to imagine as a sexual partner !

You guys just don't have any fucking clue about the human mind.

[Duke Zion]

Another dog fucking thread I see...

[Leshrac]

Let the guy be happy how HE feels like it.

As long as it doesn't hurt anybody (HUMAN), let it rip !

All you gotta do is hook up with a girl that has a fetish for animals. Easy peasy. PLUS you won't have to shake down these "feelings" as they'll be shared and enjoyed by both parties.

If you're in the US, I suggest putting an anonymous ad in craigslist with a pre-paid number. You'd be amazed at how many women dabble in "underground" sexual stuff like that

I'm in europe so it might not count due to the number of populace but my first "ad" (2002 LOL!) for "underground" shit designed SPECIFICALLY for women went on like this : "m XXyo looking for f max XXyo for scalpel xp" (shit you not). Know how many answers I got in a month ? 12. 8 of them being of the 'OMFG ITS ATRAP' type ^^

Try your luck ! Asap !

[Doki66]

Originally Posted by sepht

Believe it or not I've had times where girls and guys seemed like they were coming on to me. However such advances leaves me cold and uncaring toward any of them. I remember one young chap who made it obviously clear he wanted to hook up with me but instead of continuing his friendship and possibility of something more, I became withdrawn to a point where I simply ignored his phone calls and internet PMs. It's gotten to a point where I've cut off all contact with anyone, only going out at midnight when no one is around.

I get a lot of people saying my German Shepherd is beautiful but such advances makes him nervous to a point where he hides behind my legs like a scared puppy. I have the same problem he has but I learned how to dissociate to a point where I'm a robot without feelings. When I get back to the safety of my room however, the bottled up emotions come out, leaving me frustrated and confused. I get this mini mental break down, shaking and rocking with my arms hugged around my knees. My dog then becomes very concerned and lays down next to me with a sigh, which helps a bunch.

I feel like I'm destined to be a loner and as time progresses my avoidance becomes more and more set in my stone cold demeanor.

your asexual I had a friend who claimed to be but I think he just had sex with his mom all the time.

[Leshrac]

Originally Posted by Doki66

your asexual I had a friend who claimed to be but I think he just had sex with his mom all the time.

Lucky guy. Doesn't even have to spend nor please.

[Tokerface]

Don't be so judgmental, none of you fuckers are perfect, this is Zoklet, which unless you're new, you'll know that it's a moral free zone. Sepht, see a psychiatrist or something, none of us are professionally trained and we can't hear enough from you to properly try and see what's wrong anyway.

[sepht]

Originally Posted by Leshrac

Let the guy be happy how HE feels like it.

As long as it doesn't hurt anybody (HUMAN), let it rip !

All you gotta do is hook up with a girl that has a fetish for animals. Easy peasy. PLUS you won't have to shake down these "feelings" as they'll be shared and enjoyed by both parties.

If you're in the US, I suggest putting an anonymous ad in craigslist with a pre-paid number. You'd be amazed at how many women dabble in "underground" sexual stuff like that

I'm in europe so it might not count due to the number of populace but my first "ad" (2002 LOL!) for "underground" shit designed SPECIFICALLY for women went on like this : "m XXyo looking for f max XXyo for scalpel xp" (shit you not). Know how many answers I got in a month ? 12. 8 of them being of the 'OMFG ITS ATRAP' type ^^

Try your luck ! Asap !

i get that a lot from bitches who like my dog more than i do and want in on the action

im not shallow enough to give in to their lies

[Proots]

Originally Posted by Tokerface

Don't be so judgmental, none of you fuckers are perfect, this is Zoklet, which unless you're new, you'll know that it's a moral free zone. Sepht, see a psychiatrist or something, none of us are professionally trained and we can't hear enough from you to properly try and see what's wrong anyway.

He's fucked in the head. He's broken. Nothing is going to fix him, ever. This isn't necessarily a bad thing - but, you are what you are.

Sepht seeing a shrink would be at worst, a waste of money and at best, a waste of time.

[WAN]

whatever guys. a guy being attracted to dogs is not much different than say a guy having a fetish for fishnet stockings. get over it