Getting trashed and getting numbers

Iskalla · #1 05-11-2012, 11:58 PM

I went out a couple of nights ago and drank more than I usually would, I was with a big group of people from work. The more I drank the more I got talking to people, till eventually I got talking to two girls, I don't remember how or if they knew some of the people I work with. We talked about weed and shisha and music and stuff, I took down both their numbers and text to say goodnight. I think they said they wanted to smoke at mine, but I had work at 8am. I get three hours sleep and then I wake up, still drunk on the way to work and I don't remember much about anything.

Would you contact somebody again if you just have their number and no idea whether or not they expected you to contact them? What's the best and worst experiences you've had in a situation like this? I think I'm just too pussy to follow something up that i started when I was trashed.

Marty McFly · #2 05-12-2012, 12:07 AM

Best situation will be you'll meet your future wife.

Worst situation will be she will say "OMFG no way, gross!" or it's actually the wife of one of your colleagues and you get fired.

Most likely situation, she gave you her number because she was willing to get to know you better. Invite one over, or both. This is a no brainer.

Fuck the 3 days rule as well. Did you like them? Did you enjoy their company?

"hey it's Marty from last night. It was lovely speaking to you, I had fun

. Want to *suggest something fun, but not so fun that it takes over and you can't get to know each other, also make it non threatening, and obviously a common interest* on *insert a day*?" - maybe personalize it with an inside joke you guys had?

Simple. If you're not ugly and not a mong, that should work. It's never failed. Fuck what they think. Send it in the evening the day after meeting them. Don't even fuck around questioning your self. Just do it. What's the WORST that can happen?