Boyfriends that let their girl dance/flirt with other guys

[Dumpster Slut]

I don't understand this at all - but I see it pretty often in my town. What are your guys thoughts on this? I personally feel it shows the girl is in control, and the guy is the bitch.

[Lanny]

A relationship without trust is no relationship at all.

[reggie_love]

Originally Posted by Dumpster Slut

I don't understand this at all - but I see it pretty often in my town. What are your guys thoughts on this? I personally feel it shows the girl is in control, and the guy is the bitch.

What're you, 16?

[WAN]

Originally Posted by reggie_love

What're you, 16?

ok not trying to disagree with you or anything but if the boyfriend is present, why doesnt the girl dance with him?

[Rude Louis]

Can't stand that shit either. Some people say that makes me jealous, manipulative, unconfident, immature and a person not able to "flirt" for "fun", but I say: fuck you.

If I'm in a committed relationship with a person, that means I don't flirt with girls and she doesn't flirt with guys. That's the deal. Obviously I don't go after girls that like to flirt as if it's saying "Hello".

Because those girls are really just saying "Hello, get me drunk so I can have sex and blame you/drugs later".

[Psychotogen]

Like it or not, monogamy is dead. Just like chivalry. I think a little jealousy keeps relationships fresh. You just don't let the other know that you're jealous. It's all a head-fuck. As for OP. You should date younger males/females if that's your mindset. It'll give you an upper-hand (slightly).

[WAN]

Originally Posted by Psychotogen

Like it or not, monogamy is dead. Just like chivalry. I think a little jealousy keeps relationships fresh. You just don't let the other know that you're jealous. It's all a head-fuck. As for OP. You should date younger males/females if that's your mindset. It'll give you an upper-hand (slightly).

hmm...interesting. but imho if i truly care about (or love, even. )i would not want him to experience the negative emotion known as sexual jealousy which as we all know can be very unpleasant

[Psychotogen]

Originally Posted by WAN

hmm...interesting. but imho if i truly care about (or love, even. )i would not want him to experience the negative emotion known as sexual jealousy which as we all know can be very unpleasant

And that's just it. Most of the time that's what people go into these types of "arrangements" thinking. But soon after it gets "Stale". Humans need drama. Just a fact of life. We need to be entertained. I don't know about you, but as soon as I know i've got a girl locked down, it's time to move on. There's no need to try anymore. I won't be bettering myself in any way.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by Psychotogen

And that's just it. Most of the time that's what people go into these types of "arrangements" thinking. But soon after it gets "Stale". Humans need drama. Just a fact of life. We need to be entertained. I don't know about you, but as soon as I know i've got a girl locked down, it's time to move on. There's no need to try anymore. I won't be bettering myself in any way.

i c i c; very interesting. so i guess you are the type of person who needs a challenge in the sexual//romantic arena

tbh i honestly don't know how i would react; i personally wouldn't make my SO jelly but i can imagine liking it a little bit if HE tried to make me jelly. like i would ahve to work hard to maintain his affection.

i hope panzer isn't reading this thread

[Dumpster Slut]

Originally Posted by reggie_love

What're you, 16?

I live in a college town in California, I'm 22.

[Sleep Is A Curse]

I think that this has to do with boundaries that a couple agrees upon. Some guys don't care, some do. Let your girl know if you don't like it before it becomes a problem. I have some friends who are so relaxed about everything that you woulsnt know they're Ina relationship until you see them leave the place together. However, that isn't always the case. If it works for one guy I don't see the problem. Maybe he thinks it is funny when guys futilely swarm his girl, only for him to deny them all and take her home.

[jackiesbaby]

Originally Posted by Lanny

A relationship without trust is no relationship at all.

This. If you don't trust your girlfriend then you shouldn't be with her.

[sexually vulnerable CPR dummy]

Originally Posted by WAN

ok not trying to disagree with you or anything but if the boyfriend is present, why doesnt the girl dance with him?

This.

[STD]

Depends how much touching is going on...

[whatbpmscareshorses?]

It just totally depends on the relationship, different boundaries for different couples.
I couldn't care less if my own boyfriend danced with another girl and likewise, and we both agree there's nothing wrong with harmless flirting, but that doesn't work for every relationship and no one has the right to judge what one couple is comfortable with just because it's not akin to their own comfort level.

[Bradley]

What you do if your woman started doing this?

Turning a shit thread into an okay one.

[p6867]

R Kelly once said there ain't nothing wrong,
with a little bump and grind.

And while he's urinated on high school girls and recorded the atrocious soundtrack to space jam, in this he is correct.

My girl doesn't do that shit when i'm around, but when she goes out with her girls i bet she does that shit.

Which is great honestly, i do that when i go out with my friends and after a few years, it feels really good to know that even though i'm not going to do anything with someone else, I could. Keeps the eye teeth sharp and is just harmless fun. I don't mind other guys trying to fuck my girlfriend. Yeah she's hot, you want that, but it's MINE!

[jackiesbaby]

Originally Posted by BradleyB93

What you do if your woman started doing this?

Turning a shit thread into an okay one.

That's about the upper limit of what I'd tolerate. It depends on how drunk she was and if she did it every time we went out.

[jackiesbaby]

Originally Posted by p6867

Which is great honestly, i do that when i go out with my friends and after a few years, it feels really good to know that even though i'm not going to do anything with someone else, I could. Keeps the eye teeth sharp and is just harmless fun. I don't mind other guys trying to fuck my girlfriend. Yeah she's hot, you want that, but it's MINE!

This. I don't get why guys get so fucking pissed when another guy tries to hit on their girlfriend. As long as you aren't dating a slut and you're man enough to satisfy her yourself, you have nothing to worry about.

[Rude Louis]

Originally Posted by Sleep Is A Curse

Maybe he thinks it is funny when guys futilely swarm his girl, only for him to deny them all and take her home.

Until one day he comes home to find another man's cock in her mouth.

[mizled]

20,000 bikers can't be wrong.

[Haiti's Space Agency]

Those are the type of guys that let their girls get pounded by black men while they jagoff in the corner.

[arleybob]

I'm on house arrest, so I really have to trust my girlfriend when she goes out. I know that guys swarm her and they all try and dance with her, but she turns them all away.

Last time she went out, some dude flipped her off because she was such a bitch to him after he wouldn't leave her alone. It's nice knowing that.

[jackiesbaby]

Originally Posted by Rude Louis

Until one day he comes home to find another man's cock in her mouth.

That's only an issue if your cock can't satisfy her or if she's a slut. If it's the latter, than you knew what you were getting yourself in to. It's easy to know if a girl is a slut.

[Rude Louis]

Originally Posted by jackiesbaby

That's only an issue if your cock can't satisfy her or if she's a slut. If it's the latter, than you knew what you were getting yourself in to. It's easy to know if a girl is a slut.

I agree: a slut usually likes to flirt with other guys.

[benny vader]

Maybe your to young to understand or comprehend but I'll just say it anyway.

ITS ALL ABOUT CONTROL AND POWER.

I bring my sister to clubs or a bar and let her dance and flirt with other guys all the time, just let her go wild and run around like a caged dog who suddenly find itself free and unrestrained. She runs around, flirts, dances and sometimes even kisses, tongue kisses other guy.

But when the time comes, and as soon as the guy she's been flirting/dancing with thinks he have a chance to get under her dress, I gulps down the remaining of my drinks, walks onto the stage towards her, tells her that the time is up, and she'd hold out her hand, and I'd grab it, and take her home with me and she wouldnt even look back at the guy she's been dancing with and wave goodbye.

That gave me a sense of power and control, reaffirming the fact that she's mine and mine only and re-attested the notion that she's my gott damn property .......

IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN AND MAKE MY EGO SOARED SKY HIGH !

You little greasy punks, you think you get to fuck my sister ?????? HELL NO.

[lillix]

Originally Posted by Dumpster Slut

I don't understand this at all - but I see it pretty often in my town. What are your guys thoughts on this? I personally feel it shows the girl is in control, and the guy is the bitch.

If you believe that either party in the relationship, regardless of gender, should be the 'bitch' you frankly don't deserve to be in one.

[p6867]

I don't get it when dudes try to control their sisters. Umm, she's a grown woman, she can do what she wants.

[constantinople]

If you're girlfriend is grinding on some dudes dick on the dance floor or fuckin daggering with some nigger ape, I would definitely say something. I probably wouldn't be a dick about though, and it wouldn't be while we are at the actual club/bar/whatever. People that cause scene's in public make me fucking sick

[moron]

Originally Posted by p6867

while he's urinated on high school girls and recorded the atrocious soundtrack to space jam, in this he is correct.

[jackiesbaby]

Originally Posted by Vizier

Yeah, I understand if your sister is like, 10 and she gets bullied by people and you go and help her and defend her... but when she grows up and grows tits and ass and bleeds from her cunt and is thinking of dicks every other minute you need to space the fuck out and let her live her own life.

Doing that "you don't wanna ain't fucking my sistah" (in a redneck voice) when she's 18 and you're 21 or some shit is just ridiculous.

True. I can also understand if your sister is in a relationship with an abusive douchebag who treats her like shit, but hating a guy just for fucking your sister is retarded. How would you like it if every time you brought a hot girl home she acted like that?

[p6867]

Originally Posted by Vizier

Yes, exactly. The whole jealousy thing is just some closet desire for incest. I bet benny vader has masturbated to the thought of her sister dozens of times.

There's no telling with the methematician. He's always sucked.

[FrY]

Originally Posted by Vizier

Yeah, I understand if your sister is like, 10 and she gets bullied by people and you go and help her and defend her... but when she grows up and grows tits and ass and bleeds from her cunt and is thinking of dicks every other minute you need to space the fuck out and let her live her own life.

Doing that "you don't wanna ain't fucking my sistah" (in a redneck voice) when she's 18 and you're 21 or some shit is just ridiculous.

I can see yo too have a sister.

[ZeroMalarki]

I was seeing a girl in Barcelona. She was beautiful; 5'4, half Greek/half Italian, 34 DD and with these beautiful brown eyes. Probably one of the most fun girls I have ever met. Wherever we went though guys would hit on her, her being friendly would chat away to them. As she did this though, I would typically amuse myself either by engaging the guy as well, or talking away to someone else. Almost just as many occasions that she would be approached by guys, I would be by girls. After a while, it just didn't matter. We would laugh about it, mock the lines popped out on us. A couple of occasions I would be taken by suprise by things said to me in front of her "I want to take you into the bathroom and fuck you." After a while though it strengthened our trust in each other and kept us on an equal podium.

[adhesive tape]

Some chick I was dating started acting flirtacious towards and grinding on a nigger that I am acquainted with, we have many mutual friends. I flew off the handle, punched a brick wall, flipped the shit on her and got into a fistfight with some other asshole that assumed she was single and was trying to pull her outside to try to and make out with her or worse. She was a total cunt anyway, what a waste of my time. This happened on New Years Eve of all nights, what a fucking waste of a usually enjoyable holiday.

[Dumpster Slut]

Originally Posted by lillix

If you believe that either party in the relationship, regardless of gender, should be the 'bitch' you frankly don't deserve to be in one.

I didn't say that, keep filling in words for me though.

[Lanny]

Originally Posted by Unwyred

Yea, but are tacos that hard to cook?

[WAN]

Originally Posted by ZeroMalarki

I was seeing a girl in Barcelona. She was beautiful; 5'4, half Greek/half Italian, 34 DD and with these beautiful brown eyes. Probably one of the most fun girls I have ever met. Wherever we went though guys would hit on her, her being friendly would chat away to them. As she did this though, I would typically amuse myself either by engaging the guy as well, or talking away to someone else. Almost just as many occasions that she would be approached by guys, I would be by girls. After a while, it just didn't matter. We would laugh about it, mock the lines popped out on us. A couple of occasions I would be taken by suprise by things said to me in front of her "I want to take you into the bathroom and fuck you." After a while though it strengthened our trust in each other and kept us on an equal podium.

u hot?

[Rude Louis]

Originally Posted by benny vader

Maybe your to young to understand or comprehend but I'll just say it anyway.

ITS ALL ABOUT CONTROL AND POWER.

I bring my sister to clubs or a bar and let her dance and flirt with other guys all the time, just let her go wild and run around like a caged dog who suddenly find itself free and unrestrained. She runs around, flirts, dances and sometimes even kisses, tongue kisses other guy.

But when the time comes, and as soon as the guy she's been flirting/dancing with thinks he have a chance to get under her dress, I gulps down the remaining of my drinks, walks onto the stage towards her, tells her that the time is up, and she'd hold out her hand, and I'd grab it, and take her home with me and she wouldnt even look back at the guy she's been dancing with and wave goodbye.

That gave me a sense of power and control, reaffirming the fact that she's mine and mine only and re-attested the notion that she's my gott damn property .......

IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN AND MAKE MY EGO SOARED SKY HIGH !

You little greasy punks, you think you get to fuck my sister ?????? HELL NO.

Troll detected. You want someone to reply with something about how you want to fuck your own sister ect.

Nice try. I'll give you 3/10 for effort and spelling/grammar.

[ZeroMalarki]

Originally Posted by WAN

u hot?

Yes.