"Spontaneous" first date like in movies

[Tokerface]

You know what I mean. Some examples;
- in whip it (no homo) where they sneak into that public pool and end up fucking
- in the girl next door when they jump those fences into the dudes principles backyard
- in what's your number when they go into the basketball place and play 'strip basketball' and end up kissing
- in my sassy girl (I know, I'm a complete faggot on this one, but I was baked and nothing else was on) where the guy takes her to the amusement park after hours and he finds out they're "seeing each other".

They all have exactly the same formula, they go out blah blah blah, they like each other and the guy spontaneously suggests "hey! Why don't we ________?" And she's like yeah, and his idea is always to sneak into a place and do whatever childish/out of ordinary activity. Then they kiss/fuck/whatever.

Have any of you done this? How should I pull this off?

[Euda]

How can you expect anybody to explain how to be spontaneous? What you've described isn't even spontaneity, it's just general fun. Chances are that there's something that brought the idea into your mind, rather than the idea just occurring naturally.

Regardless, dating without a plan isn't rocket science. Someone comes up with an idea and suggests it, then things progress from there. Life doesn't have to be planned out to the nth degree. If you're not afraid to speak your mind, then you'll probably come up with something great and end up having a great time.

Hell, it doesn't even have to be a date. It can just be a fun day.

[Miley Highrus]

I've found that a good way to get girls is give them a unique memory of you. Let me explain, I got 2 separate girls in a week by convincing them to sneak into an old abandon office building where hobos slept. It wasn't fun in the least bit but it was "exciting". These movies kind of play on the same premise.

Sure you can take a girl shopping or to the movies or whatever whatever but when you can create something unique in her mind you stand out a lot more.

Take unwyred for example. He does the most faggot shit with girls but it works. Why? Because its unique.

[Dr. Awkward]

^truth.

I've had it work a few times, do something zany with a girl then fuck her. You have to do anything that shows her you're not just like every other douche she's tired of dealing with.

[Mirana]

Originally Posted by Dr. Awkward

^truth.

I've had it work a few times, do something zany with a girl then fuck her. You have to do anything that shows her you're not just like every other douche she's tired of dealing with.

Then don't be a douche, so you aren't like every other douche.

[Dr. Awkward]

Originally Posted by Mirana

Then don't be a douche, so you aren't like every other douche.

i think that's kind of implied

[Thought Riot]

Ya, there's a apartment complex that has a multiple level garage with a pool on the top. They never lock it up so I always ask girls if they want to swim there. Easy, fun, sense of danger/risk when there is none, and it's an awesome place to toke (though most white girls in STL don't really).

[A$AP Weed Smoker]

Originally Posted by Euda

How can you expect anybody to explain how to be spontaneous? What you've described isn't even spontaneity, it's just general fun. Chances are that there's something that brought the idea into your mind, rather than the idea just occurring naturally.

Regardless, dating without a plan isn't rocket science. Someone comes up with an idea and suggests it, then things progress from there. Life doesn't have to be planned out to the nth degree. If you're not afraid to speak your mind, then you'll probably come up with something great and end up having a great time.

Hell, it doesn't even have to be a date. It can just be a fun day.

You're a homosexual

anyway spontaneous "dates" are the best, i like them to be the first and the last time I see a bitch

[JeffreyH]

Those are the only "dates" that I do, everything else is boring.

[CarbonBV2]

Originally Posted by Tokerface

You know what I mean. Some examples;
- in whip it (no homo) where they sneak into that public pool and end up fucking
- in the girl next door when they jump those fences into the dudes principles backyard
- in what's your number when they go into the basketball place and play 'strip basketball' and end up kissing
- in my sassy girl (I know, I'm a complete faggot on this one, but I was baked and nothing else was on) where the guy takes her to the amusement park after hours and he finds out they're "seeing each other".

They all have exactly the same formula, they go out blah blah blah, they like each other and the guy spontaneously suggests "hey! Why don't we ________?" And she's like yeah, and his idea is always to sneak into a place and do whatever childish/out of ordinary activity. Then they kiss/fuck/whatever.

Have any of you done this? How should I pull this off?

Find a place that you go, take her there, fuck her there. If the girl is into you she is going to be up for whatever, she knows what the deal is and swimming is a perfect reason to see each other and get comfortable fucking around. Find a pool, break in, and then break that pussy in.