Is phone sex cheating?

gadzooks · #1 08-06-2012, 07:55 AM

If you call a phone sex line and jerk off during the call, are you cheating on your significant other?

dephdiddy · #2 08-06-2012, 07:58 AM

ask your girlfriend. she can tell whether it is or not... bring it up casually..
what a stupid question.
it obviously matters to you if it's considered cheating, but to whom does it matter?
you or your girlfriend.
promptly fuck off, please.

gadzooks · #3 08-06-2012, 08:00 AM

I'm currently single, btw, so I have nothing to worry about at the moment.

I'm just curious to hear other peoples' positions.

gadzooks · #4 08-06-2012, 08:01 AM

The chick on the phone sex line said it wasn't cheating (we talked about it briefly), but clearly she has a biased opinion.

dephdiddy · #5 08-06-2012, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by gadzooks

I'm currently single, btw, so I have nothing to worry about at the moment.

I'm just curious to hear other peoples' positions.

dont defend yourself to me, its still a frustratingly stupid question.
at the beginning of relationships you feel out what they (girl / boy friend) would consider "cheating"
this isn't rocket science.

gadzooks · #6 08-06-2012, 08:09 AM

dephdiddy · #7 08-06-2012, 08:11 AM

very, im furious.
im pacing steaming mad.

p.s. i just cuntpunted ur mom.

gadzooks · #8 08-06-2012, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by dephdiddy

p.s. i just cuntpunted ur mom.

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gadzooks · #9 08-06-2012, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by dephdiddy

at the beginning of relationships you feel out what they (girl / boy friend) would consider "cheating"

I think there is definitely something to this. Some people might find phone sex to be no big deal, whereas others might freak out over it. People do vary.

Personally, I don't think I would mind too much if I found out a gf used a phone sex line once or something. But I wouldn't be comfortable with it being a regular thing.

dephdiddy · #10 08-06-2012, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by gadzooks

I think there is definitely something to this. Some people might find phone sex to be no big deal, whereas others might freak out over it. People do vary.

Personally, I don't think I would mind too much if I found out a gf used a phone sex line once or something. But I wouldn't be comfortable with it being a regular thing.

girls dont use phone sex...
girls do not have sex for pleasure, you have alot to learn my friend.

Fox Paws · #11 08-06-2012, 08:22 AM

Maybe if it was with someone you know. But an actual sex line is no different than watching porn.

**Zanick** · #12 08-06-2012, 08:24 AM

If you'd hide it from her, it's probably cheating.

**HelloClarice** · #13 08-06-2012, 03:51 PM

no, i wouldn't consider it cheating

Vigilante · #14 08-06-2012, 04:24 PM

It's probably not cheating.. but it's always pathetic.

**mizled** · #15 08-06-2012, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by gadzooks

If you call a phone sex line and jerk off during the call, are you cheating on your significant other?

Not if you wear a condom.

Clover · #16 08-06-2012, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by HelloClarice

no, i wouldn't consider it cheating

Maybe not cheating, but I'd sure feel like a real piece of shit if my girlfriend was masturbating on the phone with another man.

Feeling like such a piece of shit would make me angry and sad at the same time. Not sure what to call that.

Poop · #17 08-06-2012, 05:38 PM

Phone sex is really fucking stupid.

**HelloClarice** · #18 08-06-2012, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Clover

Maybe not cheating, but I'd sure feel like a real piece of shit if my girlfriend was masturbating on the phone with another man.

Feeling like such a piece of shit would make me angry and sad at the same time. Not sure what to call that.

i wouldn't like it much if my boyfriend did it either, i just wouldn't claim he was cheating on me. would i feel a little inadequate? probably. everyone's different though.

**psychomanthis** · #19 08-07-2012, 01:43 AM

You should ask yourself this: How would i feel if the girl i was seeing did this to me? Go from there, it's suited for any situation really.

moron · #20 08-07-2012, 01:45 AM

nah it's just pathetic

Fox Paws · #21 08-07-2012, 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Clover

Maybe not cheating, but I'd sure feel like a real piece of shit if my girlfriend was masturbating on the phone with another man.

Feeling like such a piece of shit would make me angry and sad at the same time. Not sure what to call that.

I think that feeling is called jealousy

Clover · #22 08-07-2012, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Fox Paws

I think that feeling is called jealousy

Perhaps that's what angry/sad is, but I certainly wouldn't be jealous if this was happening with my girlfriend...it'd be too pathetic to bear I think for me.