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Old 05-29-2010, 07:06 PM
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Bit of background: I'm 16 and she's 15, and we've been together almost 8 months. We both love each other, and spend loads of time together. I'm pretty trusting; never had a problem with her going to gigs, parties and whatnot without me.

Anyway, a close friend of mine (who is also friends with my girlfriend) called me up a few minutes ago and said she wanted to tell me something: my girlfriend kissed another guy when both of them went to a party a few days back. Apparently my girlfriend didn't want to, that the guy was drunk and sort of lashes out when he doesn't get what he wants, which is why she kissed him. That's the story anyhow.

My thinking right now is that I just can't trust her again. Whether it was her fault or not, whether she wanted to or not, I just wouldn't be able to do it. Even though I love her (and she maybe still loves me; I've already talked to her and she says she does), I dunno if I can carry on our relationship.

Obviously, this is my first reaction and I haven't had much time to think about it. Just looking for some help really.

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Old 05-29-2010, 07:07 PM
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Does he know that you're dating her?
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:16 PM
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EDIT: Oh wait, you're just whining about it? Fuck, it's only a kiss. I bet she kisses her brother and her dad, too.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:18 PM
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Threesome.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:18 PM
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This is might be a bit overused, but kick the guy's ass.

And make it clear to your girl you want her to never do that shit again, no matter what.

But if you wanna break up with her instead, I don't blame you. She gave a pretty poor excuse after all.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:18 PM
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She's just trying to spare your feelings, which is lame in this case. People gotta just tell the truth, I hate fuckin' excuses
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You're 16. Shit happens. Get over it. If you legitimately think she was "forced" or whatever into it, forgive her. But make a point that next time anything close to it happens you kicking her the fuck out of your life. If you think shes lying, investigate, if you find out she is kick her to the curb for being a whore.

PS. Most of this is common sense, grow a pair.
PPS. If you can kick the guys ass, I suggest it, If you can't simply tell him to stay the fuck away from her.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:24 PM
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Fuck their moms in front of them, then kill them and their entire families.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:25 PM
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Your girlfriend sounds really weak-willed.

So either don't let her be put in these kinds of situations with you not around, or expect some guy to eventually want to fuck her and her go "k!" and bend over.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:28 PM
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Well there's two sides of this story. The side your friend made her tell you where she was kinda forced to kiss the guy. And then there's the part that actually happened.

Either way beat the shit out of the guy, and give your girlfriend a nice backhand.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:31 PM
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I can see where you guys are coming from. But even though it's "just a kiss", it means something more to me seeing as I actually care about her and our 8-months together.

I've thought about kicking the guy's arse, but I have no idea who he is (the friend who told me doesn't know either). I'll try to find out and then I will beat the shit out of him, whether it works or not (I suspect I'll be the one getting a good smack, but I don't care). That's if he knew she had a boyfriend anyways.

Either way, my original point was things would never be the same in my mind, whether or not she's telling the truth. I just wanted opinions.

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Old 05-29-2010, 07:35 PM
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Kick her to the curb. Its only gonna get worse from here. Next thing you know you guys have been together a few years and you keep catching her in bed with other guys. She probably aint worth your time.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:38 PM
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my girlfriend kissed another guy when both of them went to a party a few days back. Apparently my girlfriend didn't want to, that the guy was drunk and sort of lashes out when he doesn't get what he wants, which is why she kissed him.


That's not an excuse whether she is a teeny bopper or a grown ass fucking woman she and you need to learn the hard way. Dump her ass if she is going to play the "Ohh I am a woman I am so WEAK and HELPLESS!" bullshit. You always have the option to say "No!" and opt out and anything else is considered assault/sexual assault instantly if they persist after that.

Dump her, kick the guys ass and stomp on his balls and then roll out.
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You're 16 and 15... how the fuck can you love someone?

Anyway, it's just a kiss. Silly teenagers
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:51 PM
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Fuck their moms in front of them, then kill them and their entire families.
Best reply so far. Seriously though, beat that pussy motherfucker down.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:51 PM
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eh you guys are pretty young, id say forget about, if she does it again then dump her and find someone else,
its not like you guys are getting married or anything
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:53 PM
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Kiss another girl in front of her. When she complains say she forced you to.
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:55 PM
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You're 16 and 15... how the fuck can you love someone?

Anyway, it's just a kiss. Silly teenagers
Maybe it is just that silly teen-love, but it doesn't matter. I still care about her. And, the kiss itself (as in, physically) I don't give a shit about, it's the principle behind it. Like others have said, she could have said no, but she didn't.

Anyway, looks like I'm gonna be having a little break from girls. Wow... this wasn't planned =)
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:02 PM
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I know a girl who has done that, or said that she kissed someone elst to get out of relationships when she wanted to end it but was too afraid to end it herself...pretty gay...but, if it was forced and your gf didn't want to do it, then why wouldn't she just tell you herself? why hide it?
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:06 PM
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.but, if it was forced and your gf didn't want to do it, then why wouldn't she just tell you herself? why hide it?

Yeah this. If she really didn't have a way out, she would've told you about it after it happened.

Story seems weak.
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:08 PM
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everyone shut the fuck up it was just a fucking kiss jesus christ you are all retards
and ur a pushover...girl did him wrong, he's got reason to be mad unless he wants to give her the upper hand in the relationship by passing it off like he's cool with it....then you might as well just forget the relationship anyway.
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If they don't know who this guy is, or anything about him; how do they know that he lashes out when he doesn't get what he wants?

The story doesn't add up. They probably know this guy, closely or not; and she did consent to it.
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Old 05-29-2010, 08:25 PM
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If they don't know who this guy is, or anything about him; how do they know that he lashes out when he doesn't get what he wants?
You have a good point, Sir.

Well thanks guys; the reason I made this thread was because I've never actually been in this situation and am just confused, but I'm sticking with my first instinct. It's actually going to be ridiculously hard to give this girl up, but at the same time I can't carry it on.

And yeah, if I can find out who and where this guy is, I will be paying him a visit even if I will get my arse handed to me.

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I encountered the same problem... We're no longer together.
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Unwyred is right, dump the cunt. Don't stay in a relationship unless it's fucking perfect. Like perfect in the way that it would last 100 years. As soon as you get a reason to believe she's not right for you, just end it and get another one. Or go fuck someone. Or do drugs. It's supposed to be about fun.
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Sorry, but she doesn't "love you".
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You have a good point, Sir.

Well thanks guys; the reason I made this thread was because I've never actually been in this situation and am just confused, but I'm sticking with my first instinct. It's actually going to be ridiculously hard to give this girl up, but at the same time I can't carry it on.

And yeah, if I can find out who and where this guy is, I will be paying him a visit even if I will get my arse handed to me.

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It's just a fucking kiss, dude.

What are you expecting? A girl who will never kiss or touch or crave another man? Get real, brah.

Don't throw away an 8-month relationship over something so petty.
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Never understood this mentality. It's your fucking girls fault. Don't tell me you wouldn't hook up with some random dude's girl if she let you. It's her that's supposed to exercise restraint.
It's territorial and respect thing.

Somebody taking the piss out of you probably doesn't actually bother you, but if they are seen to get away with it; more shit is going to come your way. That's why you have to be a dickhead, and get way more violent than the situation calls for; even if everybody thinks your a twat, at least you're safe from people saying it.
Same with this. No retaliation and the guy and his mates are laughing at him, other people will think it's cool to try it on with his girlfriend. Nip it in the bud.

Full on twatty behaviour, but it's easy and the individual gets good short term results; only natural humans would be doing it then.

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Your girlfriend sounds really weak-willed.

So either don't let her be put in these kinds of situations with you not around, or expect some guy to eventually want to fuck her and her go "k!" and bend over.
No fucking shit, this. 'The guy lashes out and acts like a faggot baby when he doesn't get what he wants so I better give him what he wants'...what kind of thought process is that, honestly? Either she is lying or very weak willed and the thought that someone might get mad if she doesn't fuck them may force her to cheat on you .
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Bit of background: I'm 16 and she's 15, and we've been together almost 8 months. We both love each other, and spend loads of time together. I'm pretty trusting; never had a problem with her going to gigs, parties and whatnot without me.

Anyway, a close friend of mine (who is also friends with my girlfriend) called me up a few minutes ago and said she wanted to tell me something: my girlfriend kissed another guy when both of them went to a party a few days back. Apparently my girlfriend didn't want to, that the guy was drunk and sort of lashes out when he doesn't get what he wants, which is why she kissed him. That's the story anyhow.

My thinking right now is that I just can't trust her again. Whether it was her fault or not, whether she wanted to or not, I just wouldn't be able to do it. Even though I love her (and she maybe still loves me; I've already talked to her and she says she does), I dunno if I can carry on our relationship.

Obviously, this is my first reaction and I haven't had much time to think about it. Just looking for some help really.

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Find the guy and kick his ass for being an abusive piece of shit then break up with your gf for being so easy.
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Umm I'm gonna go ahead and guess that the girl in question wanted it/was drunk and all of this bullshit about the other guy is made up just to absolve her of guilt. So no, it's not his fault. Who gives a shit about him.
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Well, I broke up with her last night, and she was crying and all that and saying she'd do anything. But that's the end of it. Today my friend rang up again and said she's going to go see my girlfriend, and that my girlfriend wants to come see me. I told her I don't want to see her, but I'm going to see her - my friend - if that makes sense.

I can understand what you're saying Godfrey (apart from your last post; what the fuck), but I'd rather her come to me and say she's curious about what's out there and break up with me like that than kiss a guy at a party and then tell me.

Unwyred, I'm sure this has happened (well, something happened). I've talked to my girlfriend and my friend and they're saying the same thing.

So, anyway, now I'm gonna try and move on.
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break the cunts face then he wont be kissing anyone for a while make him pay for fucking you over
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Guys, this is really starting to hit me now. I've already left her, but I'm still so confused; it's kind of hitting me how much things are going to change. I don't care what some of you are saying about how we can't be in love because of how young we are, but I really am (as much as a teenager can be in love). And, to be honest (and without being to naive), I think she is too.

Maybe I should give some background. We first met at school; sort of a school anyway: it's a "medical needs unit". Kids basically go there after not being able to go to mainstream school. I was there for social anxiety and depression. She was there for similar reasons, not so much anxiety I guess. Anyway, it wasn't one of those typical teen relationships. Y'know, "wanna go out with me?", "sure". It was a slow (sort of "special") build up of dates.

Anyway, she really seems crazy about me at this point. She wants to see me every day, and occasionally asks me if I'd ever cheat on her (she had mild paranoia). Sometimes it gets to the point where I'm like I need some time alone. We always tell each other our problems; we've cried together (I don't care how "pussy" that sounds), laughed together, spent a hell of a lot of time together.

This girl literally changed my life around, and she always tells me I've done the same for her.

What happened at that party has seriously broken my heart. I hate what she's done; maybe the story is bullshit and she was drunk or whatever, but I don't think she wants to break up with me. Our friend (who told me what had happened) said she will come round and talk to me, which will probably help, and I'll just ask her whatever I need to and I'm 99% sure she will be honest with me.

I'm just so confused right now. I genuinely feel that I can't live without this girl, and am considering giving her a second chance but making it clear that she better not do something like that again.

I just don't know. I want to just get her out of my life, but at the same time I don't know if I can live without her.
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