Its going to be my first tattoo, and I feel like something drum related is the best bet for me. Ive been playing drums for 12 years now, its part of my life, im going to school for it and I cant live with out it. Thing is a lot of drum tattoos Ive seen are pretty bad or something so big I dont want to get into that.
I dont plan on getting it big, and i plan on getting it on the right side of my quad, right above my knee. I was thinking something with just a single drum, with crossing drumsticks in front of it or behind it, and over it have some sort of saying regarding playing drums is my life, like "I live to play" or something along those lines. Nothing to extravagant, I dont want fire or snakes or barbed wire and stuff like that for now, maybe something that could be added in later if I wanted to.
Im also making this my first tattoo so my parents warm up to it as well. My mom really is that against it, and my dad is just like go fuck yourself, do not do it. But I know Im definitely able to get him to agree on something along the lines of drums. So what would you think would be the best bet, and if somebody could whip up a quick photoshop of lets say, this drum

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crossing if possible behind it. I just want to get some ideas about it, and see how they look.