wrote her a farewell e-mail.

[J.P.W]

She replied with saying that she thought our bond was stronger than that and that eventhough our ''friendship'' has suffered troughout the last summer, she didn't think I'd break the ''friendship'' like that, she misses me everyday.

fucking hell, she's even more on my mind then ever.. she's a bitch but I can't get her out of my head.

Other women don't seem to interest me at all, I've had a date last week and eventhough the date wanted to meet up again I had to decline.

I'm going to run into my ex, either tomorrow or next week at work and I don't want to come of as I'm feeling bad, but I am.

After her mail, I told her I wanted to talk things out, saying that I wanted to tell her what's on my mind and what shit I won't accept from her anymore.
She told me she needed time to think about it all. I'm running impatient here and -this- close to just text her and saying that she shouldn't bother at all.

Yeah, it's this type of thread again. fuck you.

tl/dr; fuck off.

[Cammie]

Zoklet's "other Chavinist" having trouble with women?

Damn shame.

[J.P.W]

Protip of the day; Don't fall for a bisexual woman with bi-polar.

[My Mom Is Dead]

...wrote her a farewell e-mail.... [I'm emo, and let a girl dick my feelings arounf one too many times---BUT I still want to grab her attention one last time before I give up on ever getting out of the friend-zone]

...She replied with saying blah blah blah, I'm a woman. It's your fault things aren't working out, crybaby... [Being a tool, she knows playing ditz to the blame will drag you out. The bait's been set.]

...fucking hell, she's even more on my mind then ever.. she's a bitch but I can't get her out of my head... [a suckerfish bites]

...After her mail, I told her I wanted to talk things out, saying that I wanted to tell her what's on my mind and that I'm completely playing into her hands, because I'M DEPENDENT ON HER FUCKING WITH MY HEAD (because I desperately crave female attention)... [She reels it in! Perfect form. I think I heard what's left of OP's spine being flushed down the toilet of broken dreams.]

...She told me she needed time to think about it all. I'm running impatient here and -this- close to just text her and saying that she shouldn't bother at all.... [LOL ]

[J.P.W]

Originally Posted by My Mom Is Dead

(because I desperately crave female attention)...

Spot on on mostly everything, besides this. I have no problem getting a woman's attention, read the date part.

Yeah, I was a spineless fucker. I learned from all this though.

[Dog]

Originally Posted by My Mom Is Dead

...wrote her a farewell e-mail.... [I'm emo, and let a girl dick my feelings arounf one too many times---BUT I still want to grab her attention one last time before I give up on ever getting out of the friend-zone]

...She replied with saying blah blah blah, I'm a woman. It's your fault things aren't working out, crybaby... [Being a tool, she knows playing ditz to the blame will drag you out. The bait's been set.]

...fucking hell, she's even more on my mind then ever.. she's a bitch but I can't get her out of my head... [a suckerfish bites]

...After her mail, I told her I wanted to talk things out, saying that I wanted to tell her what's on my mind and that I'm completely playing into her hands, because I'M DEPENDENT ON HER FUCKING WITH MY HEAD (because I desperately crave female attention)... [She reels it in! Perfect form. I think I heard what's left of OP's spine being flushed down the toilet of broken dreams.]

...She told me she needed time to think about it all. I'm running impatient here and -this- close to just text her and saying that she shouldn't bother at all.... [LOL ]

This. It happens to the best of us (well, when we're inexperienced, at least), but you need to come to terms with a few things, OP:

1) You will almost certainly never have sex with her again. If you ever do, I can guarantee you that it will be in the distant future after you are over her.

2) There is no point in having a female friend you want to fuck, unless she hooks you up with her own attractive friends.

3) She doesn't give a fuck about your feelings, you aren't going to be able to guilt her back into your arms, and spilling your heart to her will only serve to hurt your self-esteem and pride.

Count your losses and separate entirely.

[My Mom Is Dead]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Spot on on mostly everything, besides this. I have no problem getting a woman's attention, read the date part.

Yeah, I was a spineless fucker.

Glad you can admit it, brah. The following is the most important part:

I learned from all this though.

Just forget about her. Phase the bitch out of your life.
You mentioned something about seeing her at work, that sucks, but keep on trucking. Just because she's a piece of shit doesn't mean you can't be civil.
Bottle the emotions.
Play it off legit.



Think Fonzie.

[J.P.W]

Originally Posted by My Mom Is Dead

Just forget about her. Phase the bitch out of your life.

Easier said than done, ofcourse. It's not that I miss her though, I just miss someone who I can bond with like I could with her. As said, I find it difficult to find women I can connect with. But I'll manage.

[J.P.W]

Couldn't resist and called her up, she spoke to me with a tone that sounds like she's guilty. I know I'm doing the wrong thing but I'm gon' try and stay friends with her.

[kroz]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Protip of the day; Don't fall for a bisexual woman with bi-polar.

pro tip of the day... dont fall for obviously goofy bitches who claim bisexuality and mental illness as part of a way to be noticed and seem unique

[T.K. Baha]

Don't write her a fucking email. Figure out what you want to say and tell her in person. And its hard at first but it gets better every day. If shes a crazy bitch cut her loose, you don't need her around anyhow.

[Lollygagger]

Originally Posted by kroz

pro tip of the day... dont fall for obviously goofy bitches who claim bisexuality and mental illness as part of a way to be noticed and seem unique

Its the fade lately.

[My Mom Is Dead]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Couldn't resist and called her up, she spoke to me with a tone that sounds like she's guilty. I know I'm doing the wrong thing but I'm gon' try and stay friends with her.

That was the moment she got the upper hand again. She's going to be your friend for a short time, then turn the whole thing on you.
You might have caught her off guard with the first "we're through" letter, but now she's aware that you're wisening up to her game. She's going to cut you lose on her own terms now.

[FaithlessAggression]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Couldn't resist and called her up, she spoke to me with a tone that sounds like she's guilty. I know I'm doing the wrong thing but I'm gon' try and stay friends with her.

Why not try to do the right thing, by leaving this one alone. People who are losing will always try to get the upper hand on you.

[J.P.W]

Originally Posted by My Mom Is Dead

That was the moment she got the upper hand again. She's going to be your friend for a short time, then turn the whole thing on you.
You might have caught her off guard with the first "we're through" letter, but now she's aware that you're wisening up to her game. She's going to cut you lose on her own terms now.

We didn't get into stuff I wanted to talk about earlier, just some general chit-chat like we always used to do. I really dont know what I'm doing currently, I feel better about the whole situation though. Spoke to a woman I haven't spoken to in years tonight, going to meet her up soon and eventhough she's not single, she told me she has some friends who are.

[Little Miss Sunshine]

Now that you feel better about things, take a break from her, just for a week. No calls, emails....give you some time and space.

[Mor3BL7]

JPW is such a pussy LMAO

[Arcade]

Remaining friends will not work out, considering the things you've said...plus, if things do repair themselves, you'll never look at her the same way, and she won't look at you the same way as she once did...sometimes it's a lot easier to just let go and move on without looking back even though it seems like its the much harder approach, it's not...and down the road you'll be thankful you moved on.

[靠rent-a-jew輩]

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[J.P.W]

Originally Posted by Mor3BL7

JPW is such a pussy LMAO

I'm going to fucking kill you.

[hitnrun]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Protip of the day; Don't fall for a bisexual woman with bi-polar.

QFT... her name doesn't happen to be Tena, does it? if so... oh God.

[TCO420]

Lol, lets just laugh.

[Time Out! Sasquatch.]

Originally Posted by Pizza "Fuck Asses" Nazi

This. It happens to the best of us (well, when we're inexperienced, at least), but you need to come to terms with a few things, OP:

1) You will almost certainly never have sex with her again. If you ever do, I can guarantee you that it will be in the distant future after you are over her.

2) There is no point in having a female friend you want to fuck, unless she hooks you up with her own attractive friends.

3) She doesn't give a fuck about your feelings, you aren't going to be able to guilt her back into your arms, and spilling your heart to her will only serve to hurt your self-esteem and pride.

Count your losses and separate entirely.

Oh my god, PizzaNazi has the correct advice for dealing with a issue arising from a relationship with a woman. I'm fucking flabbergasted. I guess miracles can really happen.

[BitterConflict]

It seems like you're missing her attention. If you ever get back with her, it will be a disappointment. Don't fall prey into your emotions nor ego. Just let it be and try your best not to develop feelings for her. If not, then iono.

[Mr.Happy]

Originally Posted by hitnrun

QFT... her name doesn't happen to be Tena, does it? if so... oh God.

Who names their kid after a sanitary pad?

EDIT: She more than likely does care about you, just doesn't want to sleep with you. How your relationship proceeds depends on whether you can be mature enough to accept that and still maintain a friendship. A lot of people will say you should cut her out completely, but if you can work through it you'll grow as a person instead of just running away from a situation you can't deal with.

[靠rent-a-jew輩]

Originally Posted by Pizza "Fuck Asses" Nazi

Count your losses and separate entirely.

It's CUT your losses you fucking dumbshit.

seriously is everyone on zoklet like fucking 12?

[iSocrates]

ders plenty o catch out nthere

[J.P.W]

Saw her yesterday at work. Spoke to her quite a bit, actually had fun being around with her. She also gained some weight and told me she was back with her gay ex.

I told her that I'll never take shit she has given me from her, or anyone else for that matter. She was ashamed when I reminded her of some of the shit she said to me and I told her that we should start all over as friends like we used to be. I do have to point out that we where really good friends- with benefits, instead of lovers.