A few things I learned about boys

[WAN]

having been on forums for a long time and thus having interacted with, read about quite a few guys/boys.

I feel that physical attractiveness is not as important as I think based the impression I get from the media. Don't get me wrong, I know a certain level of physical attraction has to be present for a boy to like a girl, but once an initial "threshold" of physical attractiveness is reached (and this threshold varies from guy to guy), men look for other things in a potential mate. I find that to if one really wants a guy to like, or even love her, one has to engage a guy's emotions. Contrary to popular media, men can and do form emotional bonds, and in relationships other than the casual, one-night-stand type stuff, emotional involvement counts a lot for males to maintain his attraction to his mate. As for intelligence, I find the optimal level of intellligence in a woman is slightly less than that of her boyfriend. Most men are turned off by mindless, idiotic women. However, I find that they are not necessarily impressed by the super intelligent, "brainiac" type women either. They want someone smart enough to carry on meaningful and reasonably intelligent conversations with.

Boys/guys of this forum! Tell me if I am correct or not, and add anything you think I might have left out.

[HAS]

I definitely agree that emotional attachment is important to guys. It is to me.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by HAS

I definitely agree that emotional attachment is important to guys. It is to me.

Hi Has, I have always liked you. You are a very sensible guy and I like reading your posts. Keep up the good work!

[Mor3BL7]

Originally Posted by HAS

I definitely agree that emotional attachment is important to guys. It is to me.

yeah, but your probly a pussy hole.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by Mor3BL7

yeah, but your probly a pussy hole.

It's normal for guys to need emotional involvement in order to maintain attraction to a female. The more advanced groups like Aryans and asians have this tendency, because of the environments their ancestors evolved in selected for emotional attachment to mates in order for their offspring to survive.

Judging by your post, you must be of a lower racial stock.

[Jubal Harshaw]

This is news? I agree. Even though the majority of my relationships have been casual I still form an emotional attachment to most of them. I just never wanted to date any of them. Most of my regulars were average looking, easy women. I'm a slightly above average guy, I'm just too damn lazy to go further than the Internet to get laid. So some level of emotional attachment was needed to make me want more than another notch in my belt.

As for intelligence, I must be the exception. I'm an engineer and I like smart women. I want a woman with a good job, drive and a brain. Hell, one of my favorite fuck buddies was a member of mensa. I don't think I'm mensa level intelligence, but having a girl who could engage me in conversation was really refreshing.

My ex girlfriend wasn't as smart as me, we were in the same major together. She wasn't dumb by any means but there was an obvious in knowledge. It drove HER mad. It didn't bother me, I like explaining shit. She just hated that I was more knowledgeable and analytical than her.

[CoolStoryScrote]

I get attached too easily...the last time I got attached to a girl I got my heart ripped out and held in front of me and I've been single by choice ever since-funny how I get hit on when I DON'T want a girlfriend but when I want one, nothing.

[DECI4]

Hey WAN you should PM me a pic. I don't believe you are really female.

[1983]

Originally Posted by Monsterballz

I get attached too easily...the last time I got attached to a girl I got my heart ripped out and held in front of me and I've been single by choice ever since-funny how I get hit on when I DON'T want a girlfriend but when I want one, nothing.

Same shit here man... I took a year off and did my own thing for a while. I still have problems getting any sort of connection with a chick now and unfortunately treat them more like object than people and for some reason it works out better for me.

Originally Posted by LouisCypher

Hey WAN you should PM me a pic. I don't believe you are really female.

You're gunna fap to it aren't you...


As for the OPs question it all depends on the guy really. For me I want to be physically attracted to the person I'm with and want to actually be able to hold a conversation.
If the girl is smarter than me by all means that's fine as long as she's not boring. Attitude is a huge thing as well that I look or don't look for in women.
Shitty attitude where you need to listen with your mouth and I'm not going to stick around.
Also if something happens be it small or large I probably won't get mad at it and start yelling to try to get my point across so I expect the same. Life shouldn't be overly dramatic.

As is though different strokes for different folks as everybody is different in what they want in life.

I just choose not to be involved with some uppity bitch that feels the need to either grind me under her heals or needs to cause problems and test the relationship to see how strong it is.
Not sure if women know this yet but doing shit like that is what breaks apart a relationship.

Al

[bumble]

Fuck sex and companionship, get high.

[Lollygagger]

WAN sounds like a pedo, knowing alot about boys and all.

[HOLLISTER GUY]

Wan only likes little white boys getting with white girls to make white babies.

[psycho_8b]

This subject is easy to summarise: Everyone's different and depending on the type of relationship, different things are sought.

For example, if I were single and out on the pull looking for nothing more than a fleeting night of passion followed by a hangover and thoughts of "Where am I? Who the fuck is this?! Time to escape!" then the bar is going to be significantly lower. Looks would be a factor here but I would be extremely flexible with this depending on how mangled I am (get drunk and wake up with Moby Dick.) Intellect would be the last thing on my mind. All I want to know about this broad is if she's willing to fuck.

However, in the case of a mate, physical attraction would have to be present but more importantly I'd have to connect with her on several levels such as humour, interests, music etc. Having said that, both people have to be able to accept certain differences in each other.
Most importantly though...Don't fucking smother each other!

[Raptor Ribs]

I hope you all realize WAN is an old, gay, man, who is just trolling you all.

[atara]

Originally Posted by WAN

It's normal for guys to need emotional involvement in order to maintain attraction to a female. The more advanced groups like Aryans and asians have this tendency, because of the environments their ancestors evolved in selected for emotional attachment to mates in order for their offspring to survive.

Judging by your post, you must be of a lower racial stock.

It is perhaps useful to point out:

* there is a difference between simple attraction and the desire to maintain an emotional relationship.

* both can occur independent of each other

* there existed similar relationships among all subcultures of the human species prior to globalisation, and in general intraracial genetic differences are far larger than interracial genetic differences

Generally, I don't really "measure" physical attractiveness. There are two degrees of physical attractiveness, to me, would fuck, and wouldn't fuck. It's important, yeah, but beyond the simple decision not so much.

[Sir Cornwell]

What: WAN saying that "she" is really a young, thin white boi is a lie?

What do you think about all the drama around her being under court ordered psyche medicine and fighting her parents is about? Just more nuttiness with little truth?

[WAN]

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[WAN]

Originally Posted by HOLLISTER GUY

Wan only likes little white boys getting with white girls to make white babies.

You can say that again, little dude!

[Sir Cornwell]

Originally Posted by WAN

This message is hidden because Sir Cornwell is on your ignore list.

Please, ma'am (man), let me do it do it do it to you!

[reggie_love]

Originally Posted by WAN

Contrary to popular media, men can and do form emotional bonds, and in relationships other than the casual, one-night-stand type stuff, emotional involvement counts a lot for males to maintain his attraction to his mate.

Nope. Emotions are for fags. Source:

[AdMech]

Originally Posted by WAN

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That's a terrible idea.

[I Kill Null Airtime]

OP, seriously, are you 12 or something? No fucking shit.

[SizableSac]

For me to be honest... I'm more about the emotional attachment to my women. Unless i am looking for sex, in which case, my intentions are known.

[WAN]

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[Dream of the iris]

Originally Posted by WAN

having been on forums for a long time and thus having interacted with, read about quite a few guys/boys.

This line doesn't make sense.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by I Kill Null Airtime

OP, seriously, are you 12 or something? No fucking shit.

Keep talkng like this to me and soon you will say hello to my ignore list.

seriously people, there is no need to be a rude piece of shit like this poster is doing.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by Dream of the iris

This line doesn't make sense.

It doesn't make sense in what way? explain please.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by AdMech

That's a terrible idea.

He is a DISGUSTING piece of shit who only spouted shit. There is aboslutely no loss in putting him on ignore. In fact, I encourage everyone to do the same and hopefully that sack of human WASTE will go away.

[takedrugs_killpeople]

dont make fun of WAN

[WAN]

Originally Posted by takedrugs_killpeople

dont make fun of WAN

Hello little dude! How are ya

[takedrugs_killpeople]

im good how r u??

[Lanny]

Originally Posted by Jubal Harshaw

As for intelligence, I must be the exception. I'm an engineer and I like smart women. I want a woman with a good job, drive and a brain.

I agree, all other things being equal, I'd rather have a girlfriend that was much smarter than me. I don't think I'd ever see high intelligence as a negative.

[Duelist]

first worthwhile post i've ever seen by wan,

*slowclap*

[AdMech]

Originally Posted by WAN

He is a DISGUSTING piece of shit who only spouted shit. There is aboslutely no loss in putting him on ignore. In fact, I encourage everyone to do the same and hopefully that sack of human WASTE will go away.

What makes him so disgusting? He's been a feature since I first signed up on Totse, and his way of communicating is often witty and delightfully strange. I've never seen him be a jerk.

[I Kill Null Airtime]

Originally Posted by WAN

Keep talkng like this to me and soon you will say hello to my ignore list.

seriously people, there is no need to be a rude piece of shit like this poster is doing.

Why would I care if I'm on your ignore list?

You're a dumb piece of shit. Every thread of yours I've seen is shit, especially this one. Seriously, how old are you?

[Raptor Ribs]

Originally Posted by I Kill Null Airtime

Why would I care if I'm on your ignore list?

You're a dumb piece of shit. Every thread of yours I've seen is shit, especially this one. Seriously, how old are you?

HE is an old german faggot (not even an insult, hes seriously a flamer), that has no life so he posts online pretending to be an asian chick. Its actually pretty sad. Right up there with meta and spec.

[Satyr]

So basically you discovered that men are also human and have emotions as well?

Props mang.

[WAN]

Originally Posted by I Kill Null Airtime

Why would I care if I'm on your ignore list?

You're a dumb piece of shit. Every thread of yours I've seen is shit, especially this one. Seriously, how old are you?

well since you dont mind being on my ignore list, on you go

faggoted shit

[Winston_Smith]