Cant decide what to do, setting myself up to be hurt?

[bassman]

OK so recently Ive taken this lady out a couple of times. Shes really gorgeous and I quite like her.
However just today weve been texting, and it got onto the topic of cheating. I found out that she cheated on her last boyfriend, and when I asked her why, she said she just did, but learned from it and wouldnt do it again.
Also, when they broke up, she slept around alot.
Ive been cheated on before, and the girl who done it learned from it and has really never cheated on anyone else.
Im in 2 minds here lol. Should I risk it, or back off?

[felonious_monk]

idk maaaan, i personally would not like to go out with sluts/girls who cheat. but if you're just looking for a friend to have sex with, it will probably be a good deal for you. i get too attached to go out with a girl who sleeps around

[bassman]

Thats what I mean lol.
I like relationships, and Im not just interested in sex.

[PuttinOnTheRitz]

she a skeezer cuz dont do it

[SHH]

At least she was honest with you about it.

[bassman]

Thats another thing.
She told me about it, and didnt keep it hidden away.

[Impolite]

Originally Posted by bassman

-she cheated on her last boyfriend,
-she said she just did, but learned from it and wouldn't do it again.
-when they broke up, she slept around alot.

I would keep this in mind for the duration of the relationship. That however, is just me. Maybe she won't, maybe she will.

[thatsMYdog]

She's not the person in your past who hurt you. She's new, this encounter is new, it's what's happening RIGHT NOW not what happened then. Has she given you a reason to not trust her?

Good luck

[bassman]

She hasnt no.
And the fact that my ex learned from it and changed is a positive aswell.

[Kinkou]

she will probably cheat on you, find a nice girl who isn't a whore.

[neosade]

Originally Posted by thatsMYdog

She's not the person in your past who hurt you. She's new, this encounter is new, it's what's happening RIGHT NOW not what happened then. Has she given you a reason to not trust her?

Good luck

LOL, I love how you can tell the age range of someone just by there comments and opinions. How often you been in a relationship buddy?

[thatsMYdog]

Originally Posted by neosade

LOL, I love how you can tell the age range of someone just by there comments and opinions. How often you been in a relationship buddy?

I'm a 23 year old kid

I just think it's better to go with your gut than dwell on past experiences, causing them to become present experiences

[felonious_monk]

Originally Posted by thatsMYdog

I'm 23 year old kid

I just think it's better to go with your gut than dwell on past experiences, causing them to become present experiences

don't go with logic, or proven facts...go with your gut. this way of thinking is what makes girls so dumb

[Vizier]

I'd say go for it. The past is the past and cannot be changed. IMO the most important thing in a relationship is trust above all things.

[33% God]

This is a bad idea. Don't date this chick.

[Nolte]

Of course you should start a relationship with her. To be honest, I think it's a great idea. It would probably be the best thing to ever happen to you. After all, She did say that she had learned from her past of being the pass-around cunt. I mean What kind of sick, disgusting person would just say that for no reason? She sounds like a good one to me man. Nice find.

[DashboardJesus]

She is a woman and the better looking she is the more often her door will get knocked on. She may not plan on it but one day if the situation is right she will answer. Everybody cheats at some point, just hope she isn't with you at the time.

[Mr.Happy]

I wouldn't trust her, especially not if the cheating was recent. I doubt she'd have said anything other than "I wouldn't cheat again, I've learned from the last time" a week before the last time she cheated... do you have a genuine reason to trust her?

Of course, she might have changed, but she's got a bad track record. Girls with a history like that are better for casual sex and casual pseudo-relationships IMO, not for a proper relationship. Some people are naturally less able to say no or do the right thing in the face of temptation and it can take more than the fallout from a single incident to change that.

[bassman]

Thanks for the mixed reviews guys.
Ive thought about it for a couple of days, and Im just going to leave it.
Im not going to trust her, so theres no point in really trying.
I know for a fact I am going to end up hurt lol.
Plus, she seems abit crazy.

[sophistry]

'A history of...'

People make mistakes. From what she said, she cheated on one boyfriend. Sure, cheating is cowardly, dishonest, and wrong regardless, but you don't know the circumstances. Someone can do a wrong thing or experience a moment of weakness without being a habitually bad person.

She was honest and upfront about her past; I'd say that's one reason to trust her, until you are given reason to the contrary.