Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by ^
That "i" is supposed to be capitalized. In fact (and I'm sure you'll be shocked by this) every first letter of a sentence is supposed to be a capital letter.
wat if ur using a run on sentence
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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You're too dumb to talk sense to. I learned that today.
are u okay?
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by arleybob
wat if ur using a run on sentence
lol that's a good one
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by ^
That "i" is supposed to be capitalized. In fact (and I'm sure you'll be shocked by this) every first letter of a sentence is supposed to be a capital letter.
The word earth is not to be capitalized unless used in context with other celestial bodies. This excludes the sun and moon.
earth is a great place to live. Earth is a nicer place to live than Pluto.
Ya dig?
Also, the first letter of the first word of every sentence is to be capitalized. These rules contradict each other. So what do we do?
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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He said shy and intelligent, not pretentious.
Coffee shop.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Did anyone say Zoklet yet?
Has anyone hooked up on Zoklet yet? That would be so cute.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
Book store.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by chilldo
i need to meet someone whose:
a little bit shy
intelligent
open minded
quirky
easy going
so wtf do i do?
Meet girls off internet forums/meetups. Yes I am serious.
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maybe in a library? I thought that was where intellectual types tend to hang out..
Book clubs, anime conventions, science fiction conventions, "nerdy" forum meetups etc all have those kinds of girls. Seriously, look for the girls who are REALLY shy and quiet and talk to them/ask them out. It isn't that hard -____-
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by chilldo
Almost all the girls i know are loud, and not terribly bright.
Dont get me wrong, ive dated some of them and they're fun but i feel they're no good (for me anyway) for the long term.
i need to meet someone whose:
a little bit shy
intelligent
open minded
quirky
easy going
but the problem is that kind of girl wouldn't be easy to find at your average night club, or party because they spend most of their time at home/with closer friends. and if you ran into one on the street and tried to talk to her, she would probably blow you off.
so wtf do i do?
Go back to highschool.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by chilldo
Almost all the girls are loud, and not terribly bright.
fix't
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Originally Posted by chilldo
i need to meet someone whose:
a little bit shy
intelligent
open minded
quirky
easy going
but the problem is that kind of girl wouldn't be easy to find at your average night club, or party because they spend most of their time at home/with closer friends. and if you ran into one on the street and tried to talk to her, she would probably blow you off.
And there it is. I came to the same realization a number of years ago. TBH, there's not really any great solutions.
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so wtf do i do?
TBH, your best bet is to get really good at reading people. The best shy people don't look shy. That is to say, the girl that looks shy is that way because of personal issues you don't want to deal with. Instead, pick up on characteristics that say intelligent and self confidant, but not egotistical or loud. Not saying it will be easy, but it's really the only shot you have.
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Originally Posted by Malcolm Equis
shy girls are usually really weird and become psycho.
True, but there is a small population of shy girls that aren't shy because they lack self confidence or interpersonal skills. They just don't think that the majority of people are fun to be around, and as such, don't act as extroverts. Unless it's advantageous to act extroverted; in theory the girl you're looking for would know how. Like I said before, they're not always easy to pick out of a crowd.
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Originally Posted by Gould
maybe in a library? I thought that was where intellectual types tend to hang out..
Trust me, you don't want the library girls. They tend to heavily overestimate their intelligence and end up being really narrow minded. Conversation gets old fast.
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Originally Posted by Ethan
Book store.
Similar traits to the library girls, but they tend to be more attractive at book stores. Nonetheless, not what you're looking for.
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Originally Posted by Ethan
Coffee shop.
Girls who go to coffee shops usually do so because they're more comfortable in public than alone, which is not what you're looking for. Plus, the good ones are minimalist and wouldn't want to pay coffee shop prices for fucking caffeine.
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University.
This is a good bet, especially in grad school. Thing is, it only works if you are within a certain age range. For instance, if I started trying to pick up chicks at a university people would think I'm creepy as shit.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
Don't listen to them.
In my post earlier, in which I quoted another genius post, I said that shy girls want to have fun too.
If you want a shy girl because you hope to be able to stay home with her and bang her, shit won't work. Shy girls, they want you to, like someone said recently, help them navigate socially. Do shit with you, go out.
They're staying inside by themselves all the time. They don't want to stay in with people.
Introverts like to do exciting stuff with their friends. Not sit around doing jack shit. We can do that alone, we won't do that with people.
We want to discuss, interact, drink, fuck, when we're with friends, girlfriends or boyfriends, depending on the orientation of the person in question.
Not sit around on the comp. We can do that alone.
You won't meet shy people unless you talk to them, and to talk to them you have to go out.
And try to make an effort to burn your goddamned checklist. It's an exploration process. Girls don't like when you go talk to them and try to gather alot of information too fast. They notice it, they reject you.
Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Originally Posted by Nameraca
Don't listen to them.
In my post earlier, in which I quoted another genius post, I said that shy girls want to have fun too.
If you want a shy girl because you hope to be able to stay home with her and bang her, shit won't work. Shy girls, they want you to, like someone said recently, help them navigate socially. Do shit with you, go out.
They're staying inside by themselves all the time. They don't want to stay in with people.
You don't have to take them to parties or whatnot, just hanging out around the city with them is cool
Yes I know this sounds like an anime plot, but it is TRUEEEE
Also remember some girls end up shy and whatnot because they literally become overwhelmed by their conditions/friends/etc and go shut-in for a period of time. As in I basically hung out with this girl who ended up overwhelmed/overstimulated by her social life and drama/shit and she really did not want to go out at times. She seriously just wanted to hang with me and talk and shit because she felt more 'at peace' with me.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
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Honestly? You don't want anything more than that?
Of course I'd want more than that. But I don't think pursuing girls for those reasons is practical, and the older I'm getting the less that I think pursuing relationships with girls is a good thing. Most of them are fucked up in various ways and eventually end up ruining a relationship.
In my opinion, a better way to live would be to meet girls, aside from being friends with them try to fuck them, and if they're good enough, perhaps have a relationship with them. The relationship should be the last step, not the first. That is if it even needs to happen at all.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
I didnt bother reading the thread, but here's something from my experience.
At first going out with a shy girl is pretty cool. I used to date this shy bitch, she was into games, was kinda smart, you know all that cool stuff. Then came the fucking crazy. We could never hang out in groups of ore than three cause she was so shy that she didn't know how to act in social situations. Like if I took her to a family event, she would just run off to my room and lay on my bed and cry. Shit was redic. Talk about social anxiety out the ass.
Trust, you dont want a shy girl. You want a reserved girl. Big difference.
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Re: where the hell can I meet a shy, intelligent girl?
true, there is a HUGE difference between "shy" and "reserved". at least a reserved girl will seem shy at first but when she busts out, she busts out big.
a shy girl will always be shy and will be more of a detriment than a compliment.
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