Opinion Needed

[trustt]

I am facing a very peculiar situation and do need a different point of view to address my "Thoughts".


I also apologize because this is a fairly long post.

I have 2 children a son who is going to graduate next year and a daughter who will be in her senior high next year.

My son who is 17 year old son has grown up to be a Adonis himself. I am not overly stating but he indeed has grown into a handsome man. I had a family gathering the other day and my son mistakenly had come without his shirt on. Since he is highly conservative and a STOIC guy in this age, he immediately covered himself even though it was just our family(including my friends and sister in law) . My sister in law commented that my son had become such a good looking guy that he could have any women in the world . To make matters worse , my daughter commented that she had seen my son's tool and he indeed could have any women . they all laughed and even though i felt light about the situation then I feel terrible and have not stopped thinking this. I confronted my daughter when we were alone and she said she was curious about him and has a strong crush on him.
I told this to my husband who made light of the situation as always and tried to tell me that our daughter was a teenager who was just being curious and "the comments" from my sister in law were purely funny.

I do not know what to do. i just cannot get it out of my head. I love my kids but i just am not able to get this out of my head. My son is a stoic guy who plans to move away and i have never seen him displaying emotion unless he is angry. He works all the time and plans to pay for his college by taking a year's break after graduation. I am proud of my kids but just cannot imagine this from my daughter. I am worried. am i over thinking? i am just confused.

[Mirana]

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[JoePedo]

Originally Posted by trustt

My son who is 17 year old son has grown up to be a Adonis himself. I confronted my daughter when we were alone and she said she was curious about him and has a strong crush on him.

Your duty as a parent is to support their incestuous love. Perhaps you should sign them up for an incest support forum, so they can get assistance in their familial relationship.

Originally Posted by trustt

I am proud of my kids but just cannot imagine this from my daughter.

o.O Because gurlz are just like the totally asexuals whose purity is despoiled by male lust?

horseshit. You may not want to imagine your daughter, umm... having the whole range of normal human experience rather than being some sort of blank porcelain fetish-doll for your vicarious helicopter parenting, but it's still normal. What would be worrying is if she was as mentally, emotionally, and erotically blank as you narcissistically pretend she is.

So, what are you going to do - punish your daughter for having the same range of thoughts, feelings, and emotions as every other human being on the planet??

Your entire post is basically a non-issue, unless she actually does succeed in consumating her wincestuous passions, in which case - tell her fucking congratulations, dude. Go ahead. Say it out loud. "My. Teen. Likes. Boys." OMG! That's, like, the rarest fucking thing in history! It's never happened before!

Maybe you should've coped with your children experiencing and feeling the same things as everyone else, I dunno, 15-20 years ago.

But, hey - I still suggest you support them in their "special love," connect with the community, and advocate wincestuous rights in your area. Partly for the lulz, and partly for the win it would bring to society.

[Mirana]

ITT: moderators get trolled

[Tokerface]

If he actually is attractive (everyone on this site is a fucking liar) then you have to get used to people noticing it. On the other hand, we're talking about your daughter here. Just make her feel guilty and ashamed of those thoughts. Yeah, this sounds awful but she really shouldn't feel that way, it's just weird. She will thank you down the track.

[HampTheToker]

Set up a camera in your son's bedroom to record any clandestine encounters.

Upload footage.

[Myxomatosis]

Shouldn't you have friends for this if your son is good looking = you be good looking?

TITS or GTFO.

[Prometheus]

Actual response:

That shit's normal. A tad creepy from an outside perspective, but 100% normal. That is one of the things you should mention during the afore-recomended talk. Should help defuse the guilt crap that can help mess teens up.

Did they grow up together when younger? If they were separated for a span of a couple years when really young, kids don't develop the "ew, that's my brother" response hardly at all. Just throwing that out there.