Attraction to females under the legal age.

[007GoldenShower]

Who else here is equally attracted to a piece of 14 year old arse and say, a 25 year old?

I was at a local highschool helping a friend with some work and I found myself having a good eye at some of the action. Now, I personally believe it's OK to be perving, since these girls are naturally ready to reproduce. No, I would never engage in sexual activities with someone under 16, but god damn, surely it's acceptable to get a raging boner when a little 13/14 year old slut smiles at you.

I'm 19, by the way.

Discuss.

[whimsi]

If she's past puberty, imo, it's not perverse to be turned on by her. Biologically, you're SUPPOSED to be...

Although, as you said, I don't condone sleeping with youngsters, and the idea of say a 30 year old woman/man wanting to have a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a 13 - 16 year old girl is a little fucked up to me. I can't understand what they could possibly have in common, so it seems like the older of the two is just using the younger one for sex, which I frown upon. <- see?

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by whimsi

Although, as you said, I don't condone sleeping with youngsters, and the idea of say a 30 year old woman/man wanting to have a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a 13 - 16 year old girl is a little fucked up to me. I can't understand what they could possibly have in common, so it seems like the older of the two is just using the younger one for sex, which I frown upon. <- see?

As opposed to..?

If the 13-16 year old girl is happy, and the 30 year old woman/man is happy, what the hell is the problem? Would you rather that 13-16 year old girl had a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a 13-16 year old boy who hasn't got a clue what he is doing?

If it's an abusive relationship in which the girl is not happy, then the age doesn't matter - it can happen with a partner of any age.

[whimsi]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

As opposed to..?

If the 13-16 year old girl is happy, and the 30 year old woman/man is happy, what the hell is the problem? Would you rather that 13-16 year old girl had a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a 13-16 year old boy who hasn't got a clue what he is doing?

If it's an abusive relationship in which the girl is not happy, then the age doesn't matter - it can happen with a partner of any age.

It doesn't seem like you even read my post or understood at all what I was saying?

I said that it is a little fucked up to me because it seems like the older of the two would be using the younger for sex.

There's really no denying that this DOES happen, and does have lasting effects on the younger person, which is the reason for my apprehension to simply condone it.

I don't see where your problem with my post lies. I never claimed that it always has to be abusive, or that it's some heinous act. I simply stated that it <i>seems</i> fucked up to me and cited a reason. Are you upset that I think that this happens often? Are you only paying attention to the bit where I said I do not condone it and ignoring my reasons, or do you legitimately disagree that older men/women do take advantage of younger girls/boys?

If you're actually taking issue with what I said, you need to reword your questions to me, because I can't understand what parts of my post you are actually taking issue with, and which, if any, parts of your posts are just rhetoric injected to be insulting.

[AnalHerpes]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

As opposed to..?

If the 13-16 year old girl is happy, and the 30 year old woman/man is happy, what the hell is the problem? Would you rather that 13-16 year old girl had a relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a 13-16 year old boy who hasn't got a clue what he is doing?

If it's an abusive relationship in which the girl is not happy, then the age doesn't matter - it can happen with a partner of any age.

I think what she was saying was that it doesn't seem likely that they could be a legitimately happy couple. 16 year old girls have very little to nothing in common with 30 year men. What would they talk about? What direction would their relationship be moving? If the man is the elusive Peter Pan type, then he has issues that will most likely not be solved by dating someone of his mental age and will only reinforce him to never grow up.

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by whimsi

It doesn't seem like you even read my post or understood at all what I was saying?

I said that it is a little fucked up to me because it seems like the older of the two would be using the younger for sex.

There's really no denying that this DOES happen, and does have lasting effects on the younger person, which is the reason for my apprehension to simply condone it.

I don't see where your problem with my post lies. I never claimed that it always has to be abusive, or that it's some heinous act. I simply stated that it <i>seems</i> fucked up to me and cited a reason. Are you upset that I think that this happens often? Are you only paying attention to the bit where I said I do not condone it and ignoring my reasons, or do you legitimately disagree that older men/women do take advantage of younger girls/boys?

If you're actually taking issue with what I said, you need to reword your questions to me, because I can't understand what parts of my post you are actually taking issue with, and which, if any, parts of your posts are just rhetoric injected to be insulting.

Sorry if it came out as insulting, it wasn't at all meant to be.

It's just that from your post, it seemed as if you have a special case in your mind for relationships with young girls, in which there is a certain age gap.

Unless someone is forcing the girl into the relationship (in which case, the age of the person doesn't matter) - I don't see how a relationship with a 30-year-old is any different than a relationship with a boy the same age.
In both cases, the girl chooses to be in the relationship; and in both cases, the guy may genuinely care for the girl, or may only be in it for sex. I don't think one or the other really happens more often with any age group.
The one big difference, of course, is that the 13-year-old boy has no idea what he is doing, and the girl is more likely to get problems if he's only in it for sex.

Anyway; my point is, that you one would either be against 13-16 year old girls being sexually active in general, or be ok with it, disregarding the age of the partner. At least that's what logic tells me.

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by AnalHerpes

I think what she was saying was that it doesn't seem likely that they could be a legitimately happy couple. 16 year old girls have very little to nothing in common with 30 year men. What would they talk about? What direction would their relationship be moving? If the man is the elusive Peter Pan type, then he has issues that will most likely not be solved by dating someone of his mental age and will only reinforce him to never grow up.

People are all different.

For instance, as far as I remember, Silverfuck is around 16 now.

Why does this even concern you? We are not doing arranged marriages here or anything. If the girl doesn't find the guy interesting? She doesn't get into the relationship.

If they are not a happy couple? Then the relationship doesn't work out, and they separate.

How is this case any special?

If you saw a 30-year-old guy with a 16-year-old girl, and they were both happy with each other, would you feel disgusted, just because you would think "What do they have in common with each other? What direction is their relationship going?". They obviously have something in common since they are together.

[AnalHerpes]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

People are all different.

For instance, as far as I remember, Silverfuck is around 16 now.

Why does this even concern you? We are not doing arranged marriages here or anything. If the girl doesn't find the guy interesting? She doesn't get into the relationship.

If they are not a happy couple? Then the relationship doesn't work out, and they separate.

How is this case any special?

If you saw a 30-year-old guy with a 16-year-old girl, and they were both happy with each other, would you feel disgusted, just because you would think "What do they have in common with each other? What direction is their relationship going?". They obviously have something in common since they are together.

I was trying to clarify her post. It doesn't concern me, for the most part, I'm fairly indifferent as to what other people do but that doesn't mean that I don't have any thoughts regarding them.

While it's not inherently wrong, it's usually an indicator of something. If they were both in it for the sex, then that's one thing; after all, a man's perception of attractiveness doesn't change much with time. It's that if they were to have a relationship then it's usually more than that. You seem to forget that a lot of people are together but don't really like each other, you probably know a couple like this. A lot of times the only reason they're together is that they're afraid of being alone. While it is up to them how they decide to manage their relationship and their life, expecting people to think nothing of it is quite unrealistic.

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by AnalHerpes

While it's not inherently wrong, it's usually an indicator of something. If they were both in it for the sex, then that's one thing; after all, a man's perception of attractiveness doesn't change much with time. It's that if they were to have a relationship then it's usually more than that. You seem to forget that a lot of people are together but don't really like each other, you probably know a couple like this. A lot of times the only reason they're together is that they're afraid of being alone. While it is up to them how they decide to manage their relationship and their life, expecting people to think nothing of it is quite unrealistic.

That's all true; and it happens with all sorts of combinations of different ages. I've also seen a lot of happy relationships where both partners have an age gap.

I guess, just, as usual, we should try to make a decision on each person individually, and not just stick them into a group, and have an apriori negative attitude towards them.

[AnalHerpes]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

That's all true; and it happens with all sorts of combinations of different ages. I've also seen a lot of happy relationships where both partners have an age gap.

I guess, just, as usual, we should try to make a decision on each person individually, and not just stick them into a group, and have an apriori negative attitude towards them.

Stereotypes in general came to because people do not have the mental capacity to separate every person they see so they lump them into a category to prevent their brains from melting. Most reasonable have some prejudice but are also very open to being proven wrong by individuals.

[Rich White Male]

Kids are so sexy.

[whimsi]

I never specified that it had to be a 30 year old guy dating a 16 year old girl. I said man/woman for the older of the two, and admittedly forgot to add /boy for the younger.

I have a problem with anyone who is purposefully taking advantage of another person, regardless of age. Now, please don't assume that I mean that every 30 year old who wants to date a 16 year old is purposely taking advantage of them... I don't think that. In fact, I know a 30ish year old dude who is dating a 16 or 17 year old girl, and they are completely happy. I am fine with that. They actually DO have a lot in common, because his mentality is very juvenile. I don't think this is usually the case.

Anal Herpes pretty much smacked the nail on the head with his clarification of my post. I think that more often than not, from what I have observed, most 30 year olds do not have much in common with 16 year olds. There are usually fairly large maturity and responsibility barriers as well as just being from different generations and not having anything in common. I've only really ever been around 3 or 4 relationships like this, and 3 of the 4 have been situations where the older person was taking advantage of the younger.

If it isn't abusive. If both parties know exactly what the situation is and what they can expect from it, are happy with it etc.... I don't see a problem.

[Silverfuck]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

For instance, as far as I remember, Silverfuck is around 16 now.

I'm 17 and I don't see how that is at all relevant .

[reallystupidstuff]

I dont really find many girls below 15ish attractive but I am 21 and I have to say I tend to be more turned on by 16-19 year olds than girls my age. or maybe it's just because I am a 21 year old with tatoos and a motorcycle so highscool girls would fucking worship me hmmmmm

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by Silverfuck

I'm 17 and I don't see how that is at all relevant .

Oi, you're not under the legal age any more, get out.

[Raptor Ribs]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

Oi, you're not under the legal age any more, get out.

Depends where you live bro

[MAYOR]

Tight pussys is the attraction - if you're into relationships with children.

http://zoklet.net/bbs/showthread.php?t=25101

[AnalHerpes]

Originally Posted by Silverfuck

I'm 17 and I don't see how that is at all relevant .

I think he was talking about your mental maturity, learn how to take a compliment.

[JoePedo]

Originally Posted by Agent 008

People are all different.

For instance, as far as I remember, Silverfuck is around 16 now.

4rl?

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lol. Just out of curiosity though... so as to help us with the "intelligence and maturity versus meaningless numbers" - anyone know how old whimsi is?

[whimsi]

Originally Posted by ImJoeThePedo

4rl?

fapfapfapfapfap...

lol. Just out of curiosity though... so as to help us with the "intelligence and maturity versus meaningless numbers" - anyone know how old whimsi is?

Whimsi knows how old whimsi is. You could just ask. I am 22.

[Stock Market Anomalies]

Its completely natural, just discouraged because teenage pregnancies fucks up the demographics and economy like you wouldn't believe.