Physically I'm tall and skinny. I'm strong for my size but I've always had trouble gaining weight. Lots of hipster type chicks and indie pseudo-intellectual girls think I'm hot. In large part because I probably don't present a prototypical masculine image to threaten their non-conformist and possibly feminist leanings. But once they get to know me and find out my personality is the complete opposite of the hipster ideal, they lose interest.
Other more typical girls like my personality, but don't find me attractive physically.
Also apparently I have a jew nose. Even though I have blonde hair and blue eyes and no jewish blood that I know of, I've had Jewish girls approach me only to lose interest when they found out I wasn't a jew. Sometimes I wonder if that also keeps non-jews from having interest in me.
My life is just an accumulation of misperceptions.