her first......deposit

ytral · #1 08-17-2009, 03:06 PM

long time lurker first time poster. interested to see what you guys/ girls think.

me and my girlfriend get along just fine, we have been together for like 6 months, and I would say things are going nicely.
anyway, for the first time today i came in her mouth, she didnt swallow.
before she did this she told me not to laugh - which i was fine with and no intention of making her feel bad.
but.... after she came back from the bathroom, she kissed me.

now i didn't burst out laughing but i did a childish smile because of where her mouth had just been.
I am worried that I have hurt her or made her feel used, or put myself before her......

tl;dr - girls/ guys I would appreciate any input as to how your partner felt during the first blowjob- orgasm......were they angry, distant, sad, shy, happy?

also, feel free to tell me to man the fuck up if that's your slant on things.
trolls are welcome too.

Dfg · #2 08-17-2009, 03:08 PM

A) Welcome to Zoklet.
B) You don't need to worry, she will get used to it.
C) Have fun.

ytral · #3 08-17-2009, 03:15 PM

thanks for positive feedback you two. makes me feel a more comfortable, cos its kinda a leap forward for me too cos its the first time...
nice to know i can do something most men wont

000 · #4 08-17-2009, 03:37 PM

How old are you exactly..?

T.K. Baha · #5 08-17-2009, 03:50 PM

Who cares? Get her hot and bothered and she will be swallowing. You cum on her, she cums on you its only a matter of time.

Please insert username · #6 08-17-2009, 04:04 PM

She shouldn't get annoyed by something like that, you just smiled...

Trix Are For Kids · #7 08-17-2009, 04:06 PM

My girlfriend's orgasm went something this-
"I can't stand the beat
I'm asking for the check
Girl with crimson nails
Has Jesus around her neck
Swinging to the music
Swinging to the music
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah"

That Guy in the Bushes · #8 08-17-2009, 04:08 PM

lol I don't know what the stigma is with kissing after blow jobs, I mean it's your fucking dick you should know where it's been, are you that worried about becoming gay or something?

And yeah man I wouldn't worry, I'd enjoy this time if I was you, when sex is still giggly and a little awkward and gives you butterflies. She will get over it if you have been together for 6 months.

HTS · #9 08-17-2009, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Timby

lol I don't know what the stigma is with kissing after blow jobs, I mean it's your fucking dick you should know where it's been, are you that worried about becoming gay or something?

I've licked my spunk off of tits before. Om nom nom.

1983 · #10 08-17-2009, 04:12 PM

You: O yeah baby just like that.
Her: You're not going to laugh at me after this are you.
You: Of course not baby, I'll allmost there.
Her: I love you.
You: *pops one off in her mouth*
You: ...Well cock sucker you going to answer that?

Al

Silverfuck · #11 08-17-2009, 04:20 PM

Dude, you just got a blowjob. I think you're allowed to smile.

Lollygagger · #12 08-17-2009, 04:26 PM

Next time plug her nose so she has to swallow. Then laugh.

samguy700 · #13 08-17-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Silverfuck

Dude, you just got a blowjob. I think you're allowed to smile.

hawt.

Erorr · #14 08-17-2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Rewritten

Next time plug her nose so she has to swallow. Then laugh.

What happens when she opens her mouth and blows tiny balls of spunk all over your lap?

Will you still laugh?

Lollygagger · #15 08-17-2009, 04:37 PM

Yes

Snoopy · #16 08-17-2009, 04:38 PM

Tell her to close her eyes and open wide and then squeeze out a steamy dookie right in her throat.

sideshow · #17 08-17-2009, 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rewritten

Next time plug her nose so she has to swallow. Then laugh.

No man, when you come, deepthroat the bitch

EDIT: Goddamnit snoopy^^

Shaggy · #18 08-17-2009, 04:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 000

How old are you exactly..?

This.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SAS

Who cares? Get her hot and bothered and she will be swallowing. You cum on her, she cums on you its only a matter of time.

and this. It'll happen. And be a man.

LiquidIce · #19 08-17-2009, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dfg

A) Welcome to Zoklet.
B) You don't need to worry, she will get used to it.
C) Have fun.

This. First time she said it doesn't taste good. Then she started liking it. Then she got hooked.

. And yeah, I felt a bit bad, but I always said "Don't do it if you don't want to".

Rykoshet · #20 08-17-2009, 07:10 PM

I think it's an exactly equal number of girls that swallowed and that didn't swallow with me.

Results are skewed because of alcohol, and the one's that did were usually kept around longer.

But it is a slight turn off when they don't. Sex is messy, don't be a bitch about it.

BastardLunatic · #21 08-17-2009, 07:20 PM

I kiss a girl after licking on her, so it would be ridicilous for me to react otherwise. Most of the times best advice you can get is put yourself in the position and see how you feel, then just reverse the situation and see how it reflects to your relationship.

Oh and next time gag her with cock, firmly holding her hair and shout: SWALLOW OR IT'S GOING IN YOUR EYE!

Rykoshet · #22 08-17-2009, 07:37 PM

That's another dealbreaker for me. I WANT to go down on you. Don't give me any bullshit, because none of it is true. This includes but is not limited to:

1) It doesn't do anything for me
2) I don't like it
3) Everyone before was bad at it and ruined it for me

If I have to tie you up and give you orgasm after orgasm, I will, but oral is a big part of sex, and I'm not going to be with a partner who doesn't want me to go down on her.

ComradeAsh · #23 08-17-2009, 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trix Are For Kids

My girlfriend's orgasm went something this-
"I can't stand the beat
I'm asking for the check
Girl with crimson nails
Has Jesus around her neck
Swinging to the music
Swinging to the music
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah"

You gave her vertigo?

Ouch.

toraton · #24 08-17-2009, 08:49 PM

I always smile after a blowjob. How can you not?

Trix Are For Kids · #25 08-17-2009, 08:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trix Are For Kids

My girlfriend's orgasm went something this-
"I can't stand the beat
I'm asking for the check
Girl with crimson nails
Has Jesus around her neck
Swinging to the music
Swinging to the music
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
Whoa
yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah"

WHAT THE FUCK! I go through all that trouble to make a witty pop culture reference, and nobody thanks me?

Trix Are For Kids · #26 08-17-2009, 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ComradeAsh

You gave her vertigo?

Ouch.

Oh her head was spinning on my high thing when I was done with her

C'mon Cloudcat, that was witx2.

Uber_Apples · #27 08-17-2009, 09:19 PM

I tasted cum once. Haven't bothered afterwards

Syphilis · #28 08-17-2009, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ytral

but.... after she came back from the bathroom, she kissed me.

That happens. It's not like you were snowballing or something.

Quote:

I am worried that I have hurt her or made her feel used, or put myself before her......

Well, technically you did put her before you, if you know what I mnea.

But really, stop worrying about how she feels so much.

jator · #29 08-17-2009, 10:04 PM

You should have just left after she went to the bathroom to spit it out. Then you wouldn't have had to taste your own dick.

Fag.

Phlegm! · #30 08-17-2009, 10:15 PM

Hey, even Clint Eastwood would smile after a blowjob.

Isn't that a comforting thought?

Timmah! · #31 08-18-2009, 04:13 AM

Who cares if she kissed you afterwards. Is the skin on your dick really any different than any other skin on your body? Saying that is like saying that you wouldn't kiss a girl because she kissed your neck or something like that.

I kiss my girl all the time afterwards.

ComradeAsh · #32 08-18-2009, 04:55 PM

Speaking of deposits, looks like the introductory interest rate of this thread has lapsed.

Nero · #33 08-18-2009, 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HTS

I've licked my spunk off of tits before. Om nom nom.

I'd rather eat bloody shitty vomit than read one of your posts.

ComradeAsh · #34 08-18-2009, 07:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chichi

I'd rather eat bloody shitty vomit than read one of your posts.

Because somebody vomited on a shit...or would it be more related to some gastric issue?

unstableasatable · #35 08-18-2009, 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cloudcat

I don't completely understand....

Why is she possibly mad/hurt?

Edit: Oh, ok, she said not to laugh but...Ok, I get it.

She should just be glad you kissed her after your dick was in her mouth, most men won't do that.

i guess women always want payback huh'

HTS · #36 08-18-2009, 11:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chichi

I'd rather eat bloody shitty vomit than read one of your posts.

blatant_narcisism · #37 08-19-2009, 02:15 PM

As long as you let her cum from oral sex, too, it's fine.

My current partner was my first sexual partner and I fucking loved it. Make sure you drink lots of pineapple juice to make your semen taste sweet. It's cruel to make her take it in her mouth if it's bitter.

Trix Are For Kids · #38 08-19-2009, 02:31 PM

Tell her that it weirds you out and make it clear not to do it again. I'm sure she'd be willing to comply. If she tries to do it again after that just don't give her any. After all men have to put up with a lot of weird female shit. Fishy pussy, saggy tits, menstual cycle. It's not that big of a favor to ask and if you give her a reason not to do it she probably won't. I see where you're coming from, the idea of my own cum in my mouth gets me nervous too. But if you don't come in her mouth and she kisses you don't worry about it. It's just skin.