All you lonely single males - Do you have a plan?

[DJ Meaty Cheeks]

Hookers: still cheaper than dating.

[Little Miss Sunshine]

Originally Posted by Jelv

Exactly.

Largetits4u, I think you're leading us on. If some sweaty fat guy with no car or job waddled up with just "confidence" (god knows how he managed that), I'm sure you'd point and lol at his sorry ass.

Good point....but, to turn this completely around, how many fat guys with no cars actually have confidence? It doesn't matter to me how they get the confidence, as long as they have it. And yes, taking care of themselves doesn't hurt either.

[Vizier]

I've yet to fuck a pale French chick

[-Fuck-]

Originally Posted by The Spirit Of Jazz

Do you? I bet you do. I bet you have it all worked out in your head what you need, and need to do, in order to get sex and/or a girlfriend. Start working out and get into shape? Get a car? Get your own place? I know you all think about this stuff. "If I just get really buffed out I'll be able to get a girl". Like girls will just automatically sit on your cock the second you get a six pack. Well sorry to tell you chaps, but no. It's not going to work, because all you lonely single guys are missing one vital thing - Confidence, and without it you don't have a chance. What's even worse is some of you are probably telling yourselves "Once I'm buff/have my new car/have my own place//have a better job/more money/whatever it'll make me more confident, more comfortable, this thing I'm working towards is the only thing stopping me from being a pussy magnet", but again no. Being insecure is part of your personality. You get into shape, or your new car and then it's something else. "Okay, I've got my new car, and I'm feeling SO confident, I just need to get my own place and then I'll be getting mad pussy!". The truth is the situation you're in is forever. It will never change no matter what you do, you've missed your chance and now you're stuck.

Do you have a plan? I bet you do. I bet you have it all worked out in your head what kind of women you need, and need to keep stable in order to keep her and get more. Git konfidynce? Spend all day with a woman? Go shopping with her? Marry her? I know you think about all this stuff. "If I just keep getting laid I'll be happy forever" Like you're not bored again the second you bust 2 nuts. Well sorry to tell you fag, but no. It's not going to work, because you're missing one vital thing: A fucking life, and without it, your happiness is dependent on your ability to pickup chicks. What's even worse is you're telling yourself "Im getting laid and I have it so much better than other guys so let me come in here and tell them how much they all suck, and someone will give a shit". But again no. Still, no one cares. I guess being lame is just part of your personality. You get laid, you fuck a whore, you get married and then it's something else. "OK Im getting laid, my girl loves me today, I just need to be teh 1337 h4xx0r and tell everyone on zoklet how kool I am and THEN someone will give a fuck!" The truth is, you're full of shit. It will never change no matter what you do, no one cares and now you're gay.

[Jerry]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Ajax is also a greek god.

Ajax play in the Dutch league.

[ZeroMalarki]

Yes, die alone.

Next question.

Seriously, whilst I can get my fair share of girls to sleep with me it'll be a long time before I want to actually have a relationship.

[Akagi]

If you're broke, unemployed, and still living with a parent, then you aren't going to be looking for women.

If you found a job in the shittiest economy of your life and got your own place and a vehicle, then you would actually have a place to take a girl back to if you were going to pursue a relationship.

So with that observation, yes, your situation is a major deciding factor.

As it is now, I'm in no position to pursue a relationship because I have so many other things more important to worry about. Personally, I don't see how anyone finds the time and resources to maintain a woman and still fulfill all their other obligations as well as just trying to making a living in this economic environment is a full-time task.

[Pringles]

this shit is funny. Yes we know we need confidence but seriously fuck you OP. LOL

[ThirtySeven]

Originally Posted by J.P.W

Ajax is also a greek god.

More like a mythical hero.

Now he's the shit stain warrior, always trying to beat comet at it's own game.

[SHH]

I'm pretty sure once you have money all those other things become arbitrary.

[StonedQC]

Originally Posted by Terminal Breath

No plan here. Just letting whatever happens happen. In the meantime, I'll be having fun doing what I like to do.

Thats my master plan !

[Ambient]

Originally Posted by Jelv

Exactly.

Largetits4u, I think you're leading us on. If some sweaty fat guy with no car or job waddled up with just "confidence" (god knows how he managed that), I'm sure you'd point and lol at his sorry ass.

You should understand the relationship between motivation/intention and conduct. Why is a fat person fat? Because of some anxiety otherwise known as a lack of confidence. A fat person is fat because of gluttony, gluttony occurs because of the desire for sense gratification, gratification fo the sense of taste. Such a person who places priority on the sense of taste over other matters like intelligence or knowledge and so on, lacks an understanding of life. Therefore such a person is confused and lacking in confidence, confidence means "to confide in", to confide in means to seek shelter, secuirity and solace in. So how fruitive is the ontology of a man who confides mainly in his sense of taste?

Chances are, an obese person lacks confidence dude. I have no plan, im satisfied being single.

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by The Spirit Of Jazz

Do you? I bet you do. I bet you have it all worked out in your head what you need, and need to do, in order to get sex and/or a girlfriend. Start working out and get into shape? Get a car? Get your own place? I know you all think about this stuff. "If I just get really buffed out I'll be able to get a girl". Like girls will just automatically sit on your cock the second you get a six pack. Well sorry to tell you chaps, but no. It's not going to work, because all you lonely single guys are missing one vital thing - Confidence, and without it you don't have a chance. What's even worse is some of you are probably telling yourselves "Once I'm buff/have my new car/have my own place//have a better job/more money/whatever it'll make me more confident, more comfortable, this thing I'm working towards is the only thing stopping me from being a pussy magnet", but again no. Being insecure is part of your personality. You get into shape, or your new car and then it's something else. "Okay, I've got my new car, and I'm feeling SO confident, I just need to get my own place and then I'll be getting mad pussy!". The truth is the situation you're in is forever. It will never change no matter what you do, you've missed your chance and now you're stuck.

You say it's all about confidence... But it's not.

Take me. I can say I am the most confident person I know... Things most people can't do unless they are drunk, I can easily do while sober. It's really not a big deal to me. I am totally cool with myself, know what I am doing and where I am heading, and don't need validation from others to feel good.

Yet you know what? It doesn't get me laid. Walking up to a random girl and having the guts to say "Hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" does not get you laid. Being confident enough to not care about fashion and wear whatever clean clothes you have around does not make girls look at you and want you. There's plenty of guys who are skinny as fuck, can't lift 50kg, have no willpower and spend shitloads of money on some gay haircut that get laid more than I do. You sayin' they have more confidence than me? Bullshit.

I am not lonely, however, and that's the thing. I think they can smell that I have a low tolerance for bullshit, may want them but not need them, and that they can't easily manipulate me and that puts them off. Fuck knows though. But one thing for sure - confidence is by all means a good thing to have, but in terms of getting laid it's way overrated.

[Nameraca]

This topic is getting better.

Then how do you get laid?

You say it's all about confidence... But it's not.

Take me. I can say I am the most confident person I know... Things most people can't do unless they are drunk, I can easily do while sober. It's really not a big deal to me. I am totally cool with myself, know what I am doing and where I am heading, and don't need validation from others to feel good.

Yet you know what? It doesn't get me laid. Walking up to a random girl and having the guts to say "Hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" does not get you laid. Being confident enough to not care about fashion and wear whatever clean clothes you have around does not make girls look at you and want you. There's plenty of guys who are skinny as fuck, can't lift 50kg, have no willpower and spend shitloads of money on some gay haircut that get laid more than I do. You sayin' they have more confidence than me? Bullshit.

I am not lonely, however, and that's the thing. I think they can smell that I have a low tolerance for bullshit, may want them but not need them, and that they can't easily manipulate me and that puts them off. Fuck knows though. But one thing for sure - confidence is by all means a good thing to have, but in terms of getting laid it's way overrated.

It's not confidence...?
It's not physical strenght
It's not willpower for decisions...

I'm pretty much like the guy I quoted... But then, why the fuck did I make all the effort to know where I have to go, understand that I don't need validation, etc...?

How the fuck do you get laid?

There's plenty of guys who are skinny as fuck, can't lift 50kg, have no willpower and spend shitloads of money on some gay haircut that get laid more than I do. You sayin' they have more confidence than me? Bullshit.

Those guys use fake confidence?

[sheff]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

Those guys use fake confidence?

Booze?

[Ambient]

Originally Posted by Cloudcat

Maybe the nigga just has an eating disorder? Or maybe he's Samoan?

And people with eating disorders are defined by there rediculous flourishing confidence?

Lol'd at the samoan thing

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

Those guys use fake confidence?

But they don't. There is nothing masculine about them.

Or take your average brain-dead douchebag. What do (dumb) girls find attractive about them that I don't have? Who knows.

But, you know what? There's nobody I'd rather be. It's a good feeling. It may not get me laid every night, but I am happy with myself and I'm having fun. In the end, it is their loss and not mine.

[Nameraca]

Then... why? Because they're the ones who go talking to girls and are easily abused?

But then...




Aaaaargh. I'm becoming frustrated... I don't get what I should do. Damn, I want to be more social already, but I've tried becoming a better person but I'm still mostly afraid of people... what to do?

[Ambient]

Originally Posted by Nameraca

Aaaaargh. I'm becoming frustrated... I don't get what I should do. Damn, I want to be more social already, but I've tried becoming a better person but I'm still mostly afraid of people... what to do?

Hide from the world

Seriously, hermetism FTW!

[Nomad]

It's a little bit of everything mentioned.

But!

You did forget one major factor in this: The situation. Situational factors govern many things in someone's reactions to you. Your stuff is also a deciding factor on how you might act that day. The current place could also be a problem.

It honestly just comes down to your luck, actions, and mindset.

[The Risen Ghost of Hitler]

Originally Posted by i poop in your cereal

Yeah!

[sexualjesus]

Originally Posted by superspeedz

This thread is funny, I simply hit and quit, it lets me try as many women as possible and gets my dick wet, I guess being a confident asshole gets you laid.

the one thread i really lol'd at, going to a bar to pick up chicks that you cant see there faces cause of the costume, then bringing them home and kissing there curry smelling mouth, then fucking there curry smelling pussy, then kissing those ugly motherfuckin indians, i would rather stay single if i was you

[Unholy Batman]

sometimes I crave a relationship and have a plan, but i dont think i really give a shit
yestoday i was thinking oh ill go hang out, try to find some cute girl maybe, small talk, etc

bullshit, i ended up huffing ether with this jewish guy for like an hour and taking suboxone... im hopeless with women

[superspeedz]

Originally Posted by sexualjesus

the one thread i really lol'd at, going to a bar to pick up chicks that you cant see there faces cause of the costume, then bringing them home and kissing there curry smelling mouth, then fucking there curry smelling pussy, then kissing those ugly motherfuckin indians, i would rather stay single if i was you

What the fuck are you talking about man, i meet most of the girls i end up with through campus groups/clubs/gym/sports/library/etc

[The Risen Ghost of Hitler]

This was a good thread. Let's have some more fun with it.

[Agent 008]

Originally Posted by The Spirit Of Jazz

This was a good thread. Let's have some more fun with it.

I agree.

[LiquidIce]

Originally Posted by Killallthewhiteman420

You should understand the relationship between motivation/intention and conduct. Why is a fat person fat? Because of some anxiety otherwise known as a lack of confidence. A fat person is fat because of gluttony, gluttony occurs because of the desire for sense gratification, gratification fo the sense of taste. Such a person who places priority on the sense of taste over other matters like intelligence or knowledge and so on, lacks an understanding of life. Therefore such a person is confused and lacking in confidence, confidence means "to confide in", to confide in means to seek shelter, secuirity and solace in. So how fruitive is the ontology of a man who confides mainly in his sense of taste?

Chances are, an obese person lacks confidence dude. I have no plan, im satisfied being single.

So, a fat person can't be smart ? Are you fat?

But maybe you could try finding a woman? I'll tell ya bud, it's the most wonderful drug you could ever try, the 1.5 years of my life with my exGF was nothing like I've ever had before... Sure, it the hangover is terrible, but the hangover lasts for how long? A month? 3 months?
Cut 'em up and snort some love, brah!

[FrankyDiesel]

Shit man.I have more confidence NOW then I did when I drove a BMW and was making pretty good money.

Instead of going out with a couple of hundred bucks,My black BMW and new Armani clothes.At this time I was also in the best shape of my life.

Now I go out in my Acura,wear older clothes and have a set budget as to how much I can spend...And like I said have much more confidence to just strike up a conversation with anyone.

I thought all those things would get me laid,or make new friends.But it didnt,and it wont.At least not the kind of people I want in my life.

You dont need a nice car,or to be all swol to make friends.

Personality and confidence will get you laid or make friends.or both.lol whatever.

...Being just plain old good looking doesnt hurt either.

[ShyStar]

Also no plan here.

I have a car, nice place of my own with heaps of material shit (completely furnished and then some), college education, solid job, and I suppose money too...just how things worked out naturally (i.e. Needed a way to get to work, got the car, got kicked out of home bought a place instead of paying someone for rent, etc).

No girlfriend.

I've taken many drugs to help 'discover who I am' and in attempts to create false confidence.

I know exactly who I am now. I'm not looking for a piece of ass and pair of tits for the hell of it. I want someone I can really connect with, would fight for and am comfortable to be around.

[Marijuanasaurus]

keep on truckin

[ShyStar]

Originally Posted by FrankyDiesel

Shit man.I have more confidence NOW then I did when I drove a BMW and was making pretty good money.

Instead of going out with a couple of hundred bucks,My black BMW and new Armani clothes.At this time I was also in the best shape of my life.

Now I go out in my Acura,wear older clothes and have a set budget as to how much I can spend...And like I said have much more confidence to just strike up a conversation with anyone.

I thought all those things would get me laid,or make new friends.But it didnt,and it wont.At least not the kind of people I want in my life.

You dont need a nice car,or to be all swol to make friends.

Personality and confidence will get you laid or make friends.or both.lol whatever.

...Being just plain old good looking doesnt hurt either.

I agree with this guy. Fuck the flashy cars, uncomfortable clothes and wasting money that you could otherwise spend more sensibly.

It's about personality, I suppose I'm not targeting fake bitches and asshole friends that associate with you for the image.