Hearing about how fucked up my ex's life has become

[nation]

Brings me no happiness or satisfaction at all. The fact that I'm so down about it makes me realize I still love her. Gotta love repressed emotions.

[calatron]

Dude, I know what you mean. My ex finished her course work last spring, a year ahead of schedule. She only needs 6 months of work in industry to gradutate. Work she'll get paid handsomely for. She's sat on her ass since she got back from Japan(study abroad) in July. Hasn't submitted a single resume. Just throwing all her education away. Not cool. Hearing about her not succeeding does not make me feel good.

You will always care. That won't go away. She was very important to you at one point and she will remain a deciding factor in the person you've turned out to be. There will always be those little things that remind you of her.

Even though my ex cheated on me and verbally abused me I still love her. Not like I used to but she still has a place in my heart. It frustrates me sometimes. This is one year later.

[nation]

Originally Posted by calatron

You will always care. That won't go away. She was very important to you at one point and she will remain a deciding factor in the person you've turned out to be.

Yeah I've definitely realized that. Even though at the end of our relationship I hated the bitch for making me so miserable I still feel a strange emptiness. I'm not like a lost little boy or anything, but damn...it's hard to deal with. Makes me wanna just pack up all my shit and live a life of transience so I don't ever have to connect with or care about someone like that again.

Deactivating little bitch mode, I'm gonna get high with some friends and forget about all this shit.

[underOATH]

Originally Posted by nation

Brings me no happiness or satisfaction at all.

That's weird, it totally makes me smile.

[nuclearrabbit]

Originally Posted by PieGirl

Today I went on my ex's facebook, out of curiosity to see if he uses the same password as he used to use for everything

That's creepy shit.

[L33tz]

Ever tried smoking this thing called marijuana

[calatron]

Originally Posted by L33tz

Ever tried smoking this thing called marijuana

Yeah, altering your state of mind is a great way to deal with one's problems.

To each his own though.

Why don't you try alcoholism while you're at it?

[L33tz]

Originally Posted by calatron

Yeah, altering your state of mind is a great way to deal with one's problems.

To each his own though.

it helps u get out of that ditch your in. misery and depression are hard to get rid of

[Unholy Batman]

i killed my relationship depression with ketamine and ether in like 10 minutes and its been dead ever since

[nation]

Yep, waitin' on some shrooms

[Unholy Batman]

its amazing how powerful certain drugs can be.

[Rizzo in a box]

Originally Posted by Chainhit

i killed my relationship depression with ketamine and ether in like 10 minutes and its been dead ever since

potassium!!!111

just eat lots of bananas. it could work!

[Winter]

I think its hilarious my ex girlfriend got knocked up and her life is now ruined. Bitch deserved it.

[FrY]

Sounds like hearing about her life is fucking you up.

[Rock_is_dead]

Originally Posted by PieGirl

Today I went on my ex's facebook, out of curiosity to see if he uses the same password as he used to use for everything

then I read all his inbox messages.
They were all from his girlfriend he had after me who he's just split up with

I didn't really feel anything, she had the same views as me. Saying he needed to get a job and sort his life out cos he's just a big fat scrounger who was holding her back

but she said it in a much nicer way than that. Haha.

Then I put stupid things on his status

I don't respect it; you're a crazy bitch.

[Silverfuck]

PieGirl is lulz, you guys are just insecure.

[Lman1578]

Originally Posted by Silverfuck

PieGirl is lulz, you guys are just insecure.

that shit aint cool. But somehow i still have to give her props.

Well now.. my ex's fuck i have a wide spectrum, a couple of them have had their lives just do an entire 180 and now they're absolute trailer trash. Others and one in particular comes to mind who is now travelling the world with her new bf. Were close friends and i have no feelings for her, however when ever we talk she always talks about wanting me back.

Dont worry man, sometimes it just takes a little time, out of curiousity how long have you been split up? You have to get a new flame in your life, get excited about someone else. Ya feel me man?

[nation]

Originally Posted by Chunkanese

that shit aint cool. But somehow i still have to give her props.

Well now.. my ex's fuck i have a wide spectrum, a couple of them have had their lives just do an entire 180 and now they're absolute trailer trash. Others and one in particular comes to mind who is now travelling the world with her new bf. Were close friends and i have no feelings for her, however when ever we talk she always talks about wanting me back.

Dont worry man, sometimes it just takes a little time, out of curiousity how long have you been split up? You have to get a new flame in your life, get excited about someone else. Ya feel me man?

Oh, it's been a while. I've been in one other relationship since, the girl practically worshiped me, but for some reason I didn't like her at all.

No, I'm over it. Just a moment of weakness.

[Nero]

Originally Posted by calatron

Why don't you try alcoholism while you're at it?

Yeah. Weed, alcohol. It's the same.

[Lman1578]

Originally Posted by nation

Oh, it's been a while. I've been in one other relationship since, the girl practically worshiped me, but for some reason I didn't like her at all.

No, I'm over it. Just a moment of weakness.

I find the ones that i dont need to work for i have little interest in. Which is funny because i resent the fact that guys always have to work for the girls. So i can relate. But no worries man we all have those moments. Even over girls whom i have come to resent.

[birdy]

the love of my life (or so I thought then) had all of these amazing dreams, to go to med shcool, be amazing basically. I always admired his intelligence, even when he used it against me. Now I hear he dropped out of college after one year of study, as been working full time at woolworths (just a grocery store for those who don't know), and has applied to be a coal train driver, just like his dad. He's throwing away his intelligence... and to be honest I couldn't be happier.

[Lman1578]

Originally Posted by Birdy

the love of my life (or so I thought then) had all of these amazing dreams, to go to med shcool, be amazing basically. I always admired his intelligence, even when he used it against me. Now I hear he dropped out of college after one year of study, as been working full time at woolworths (just a grocery store for those who don't know), and has applied to be a coal train driver, just like his dad. He's throwing away his intelligence... and to be honest I couldn't be happier.

Maybe hes not throwing it all away. Sometimes people realize what makes them happy and sometimes those are the simpler things. To each their own right? Maybe he wants to spend time with his dad. Being a train conductor is pretty badass i must say. In anycase i always hope the best for my ex's and usually i feel pretty bad when i see them totally fucking up their lives. For example one ex who used to model while we dated, now put on like 60 lbs, dropped out of highschool, and just smokes weed and lives in some dirty ass house. Sad. I dont feel any guilt or anything, just pity as i once cared for them in some kind of way.

[rabbitweed]

Originally Posted by calatron

You will always care. That won't go away.

Only if you're a fucking loser.

I've been madly in love twice and I don't give two shits about either of them.

You move on.

[calatron]

Originally Posted by Chi

Yeah. Weed, alcohol. It's the same.

You think I was implying that they are the same substance? I think it's more likely I was saying that bother are potentially destructive habits that arne't going to actually help witht he grieving process.

Originally Posted by rabbitweed

Only if you're a fucking loser.

I've been madly in love twice and I don't give two shits about either of them.

You move on.

Good for you. Meanwhile on planet Earth people that have strong impacts on one's are not so easily forgotten.

[BITCH TITZ]

i'd feel good if i heard my ex died in a car crash

[VVeathers]

Originally Posted by Winter

I think its hilarious my ex girlfriend got knocked up and her life is now ruined. Bitch deserved it.

I think we'd get on well. We could sit and play cards in a bitter and twisted den.

[rabbitweed]

Originally Posted by calatron

Good for you. Meanwhile on planet Earth people that have strong impacts on one's are not so easily forgotten.

How old are you and how long has it been?

I haven't forgotten anything, it just doesn't effect me anymore. sure it's shaped me blah blah but you know, their comes a time, and it could take years where you get over it, and you don't think about it all the time.

[calatron]

Originally Posted by rabbitweed

How old are you and how long has it been?

I haven't forgotten anything, it just doesn't effect me anymore. sure it's shaped me blah blah but you know, their comes a time, and it could take years where you get over it, and you don't think about it all the time.

I'm 23 and she left me just over a year ago. She's the only girl I can say I've actually loved. We were together for 2.5 years.

[Cammie]

So, a girl breaks your heart.
You live a good life, but her life turns to shit.

Why do you feel about that?
She was selfish enough to think you weren't worthy of any further companionship.

[whocares123]

Originally Posted by calatron

I'm 23 and she left me just over a year ago. She's the only girl I can say I've actually loved. We were together for 2.5 years.

ah we're like the same. but yeah like rabbitweed said, i don't give a shit about her. i don't ask people about her. if she comes up i don't say anything beyond basic responses. if i found out she was pregnant or dead or had dropped out, i wouldn't feel any sadness because my capacity to feel empathy toward her has long since been exhausted. no i would not go to the funeral and i would tell her to stay the fuck away from mine as well. it doesn't feel nice, but it's principle.

yeah i still think about her but only in the past tense. like "yeah that was a good time" or "god damn that pissed me off i fucking can't stand her."

[Silverfuck]

I just realized, my only real ex-boyfriend has become a total...well, degenerate, I suppose.

He lives with his friend and his friend's dad. Him and his friend are the biggest drug dealers in our small town. They're the only people who move pounds of weed, oxy and other assorted pharms, and most importantly, they're big-time supplier of coke. They sit around in their living room selling drugs all day, and every surface is covered in shake and coke residue, and there are duct-taped sawed-offs under the couch cushions. His friend's dad is addicted to coke, so they have to keep him supplied and taken care of; it's pretty pathetic, but he is the one coming and asking his nineteen year old son and his friend for money.

He got really good looking, gets girls like mad, and has a shitload of cash, though. So I don't know what to think.

[Vizier]

I heard she was "in love" (fucking) some older dude whose married and has two kids.

She thinks the dude wants a true relationship and all that jazz.

I lol'd at the dumb bitch.

[birdy]

Originally Posted by Chunkanese

Maybe hes not throwing it all away. Sometimes people realize what makes them happy and sometimes those are the simpler things. To each their own right? Maybe he wants to spend time with his dad. Being a train conductor is pretty badass i must say. In anycase i always hope the best for my ex's and usually i feel pretty bad when i see them totally fucking up their lives. For example one ex who used to model while we dated, now put on like 60 lbs, dropped out of highschool, and just smokes weed and lives in some dirty ass house. Sad. I dont feel any guilt or anything, just pity as i once cared for them in some kind of way.

From what i remember his relationship with his dad was terrible at best, though I'm not counting out that this might have changed, but i highly doubt it. I alwyas just thought he would amount to more, especially the way he spoke.. not to mention the way his girlfriend speaks about him, but eh, to each his own.

[calatron]

Originally Posted by Vizier

I heard she was "in love" (fucking) some older dude whose married and has two kids.

She thinks the dude wants a true relationship and all that jazz.

I lol'd at the dumb bitch.

There's a topic for a thread.

I too know girls that pull that shit. It makes not fucking sense at all.

Girls that spend years saying that he loves her and is going to leave his wife.

I hate people.

[Cammie]

Originally Posted by calatron

There's a topic for a thread.

I too know girls that pull that shit. It makes not fucking sense at all.

Girls that spend years saying that he loves her and is going to leave his wife.

I hate people.

Girls like that are all alike.

She's trying to convince herself and the world that its something she wants.
Something she's mature enough to handle.

She probably isn't.