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10 Steps to Achievement of Excellence by Clark Staten
 During each of our lives, we set within ourselves, patterns that help to determine the success or failure of our efforts. Psychologists tell us that we either consciously or subconsciously write "scripts" for our minds to follow. The content of these "thought processes" is believed to be self- determined and controllable.
21 Steps In Overcoming Masturbation by Mark E. Petersen
 Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been,both male and female, and you can be also if you determine that it must be so.
50 Things To Do When Extremely Bored by Trace
 A list of things to do when you're very bored and have absolutely nothing else to do. Requires some spending money, an open mind, and way too much free time.
A Better Way to Live - 17 Rules to Live By by Og Mandino
 Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward toward the life that God intended for you . . . with grace, strength courage and confidence.
A Field Guide to Critical Thinking by James Lett
 James Lett, a professor of Antropology, teaches a course on skeptism, or more correctly teaches students how to draw reasonable conclusions from the given information, and what is valid information to draw claims from. This could be seen as a skeptic's bible.
A Talk on Prosperity by JaniceJ
 Goals and how to attain them
A True American's Guide to Success in Lower Ed.
AIDS and Safe Sex by Pat Morgan
 When a person is diagnosed as having AIDS, they are actually in the final stages of an infection by a virus which has resulted in the destruction or near destruction of the body's immune system.
Be A Rebel by Punkerslut
 An inspirational piece directed towards those still confined to the cruelty of compulsary schooling.
Be Whoever You Need to Be by Lokil
 Getting people to like you.
Being like Water: A Very Effective Technique by z.neocide
 A good fighter is like water, while a bad fighter is like a rock, but being like water can mean many different things while fighting. Understand all three and you will be a better fighter.
Can Narcissism be Cured? by Sam Vaknin
 Is the Narcissistic Personality Disorder more amenable to Cognitive-Behavioural therapies or to Psychodynamic/Psychoanalytic ones?
China International Organ Transplant Center by citc
 Organ transplant section was founded by the number one hospital of China medical university since 1992,and now have succeeded in doing kidney transplant, liver transplant, heart transplant, lung transplant and other organs transplant operations, now we are the only organization in China who can provide kidney transplant, liver transplant, pancreas transplant, heart transplant, lung transplant.
Cursing in Bisayan Dialect by [chance]
 Cursing in the Bisayan Dialect
Divorce Your Ego by AngryFemme
 4-book synopsis along with unsolicited suggestions on how to "Get Over It", once and for all. Squelches, to an extent, the basic human desire to find a purpose in surviving this chaotic, random happenstance of life.
Eating Disorders and the Narcissist by Sam Vaknin
 Do narcissists also suffer from eating disorders such as bulimia nervosa or anorexia nervosa?
Enjoy Life by Mike C. Seibert
 The things we use to appreciate are the things we take for granted. The glass of happiness and satisfaction gets bigger and more difficult to fill up.
Flesh of the Pig by Bob Greenberg
 I love ribs more than any other food, and I will foolishly risk my digestive system on any recipe or restaurant at least once.
Free Flow Thoughts by DavidSS
 There is no real structure to this article, its simply a free flow of my thoughts based on my experiences of recent days, hopefully it will inspire some debate
Gender and the Narcissist by Sam Vaknin
 Are female narcissists any different? You seem to talk only about male narcissists!?
Household Hints by Chuck Paluhniuk
 How to get bloodstains out a fur coat: Cornmeal and brushing the fur the wrong way. The tricky part is keeping your mouth shut.
How I Shaved My Cunt by Tiki
 A step-by-step guide for women who are considering shaving.
How Non-Diagnostic Listening Led to "Recovery" from Paranoid Schizophrenia by Al Siebert, Ph.D.
 This account raises important questions about the powerful influence of the interviewer's mind set and way of relating to patients perceived as "schizophrenic," aspects of psychiatric training and practices that have never been researched, why psychiatrists misrepresent what is scientifically known about "schizophrenia," and why the psychiatric literature is silent about the personality characteristics of people who fully recover from their so-called "schizophrenia" and the processes by which they recover.
How To Play Killer Guitar by RecDude
 This article is an introduction into guitar playing. It will be followed by different stages of the art of guitar playing as they are written. This is my personal experiences and knowledge learned in over 26 years of guitar playing at various levels.
How to Apply to MENSA
 Mensa: Questions and Answers about the Organization.
How to Choose Your Friends by Yaha
 The mental state you gotta have when you're choosing your friends.
How to Develop Multiple Personalities by Mental Ego
 Some things require you to be elusive not only by camouflage or special hiding techniques, but by altering your personality. Learn to make your new self(selves) into failsafe alter egos.
How to Give Head by Mojo
 A step by step description on how to perform oral sex on a male. A lot of beginners don't know where to start, this how to explains the motions involved to make a guy cum in 3 minutes.
How to Make Pasta by graphia
 How about something constructive for a change? This is an easy & cheap way to make a food staple.
How to Make a Cheap Living Area Suitable to Your Own Needs by SephirothAngelus
 A description/how to of a solution to those who cannot afford a 100,000 dollar home yet need shelter.
How to Play Fisties by darrel the retarded negro
 Most fights that happen in real life are probably not what you'd expect - the fighters, and definitely male ones, stiffen up, go bright red, clench their teeth, their eyes bulge and tear, virtually everything they do is rigid and spontaneous, they are often very close together with no room for proper punches, their arms flail, they don't have any guard and they only move spontaneously, when they get pushed (and the other one follows), or when they push, just stuff like that. They have no real stance, either. They will choke, pull ties, claw, and show raw emotion, most of the time just scared, embarrassed, and pissed off.
How to Visit Your Loved One?s Who Are Dying in the Hospital by Trainjustleft
 I’m a critical care nurse. I have not “seen it all” as an ambulance driver or a Gulf War medic has seen it. Those people deserve tremendous respect for what they have done and what they have seen.But so do I, and others like me, and we are not getting any respect. There is a huge shortage of nurses who are willing to put up with our present working conditions and you visitors are making it all worse.
Intellectual Laziness of Atheists by William Jeffreys
 Arugument that Atheists are intellectually lazy.
Interview With A Shinobi by The Seeker
 An interesting outlook on life from the strangest of places... A Ninjutsu master.
Introduction to Philosophy
 PHILOSOPHY is a study that seeks to understand the mysteries of existence and reality. It tries to discover the nature of truth and knowledge and to find what is of basic value and importance in life. It also examines the relationships between humanity and nature and between the individual and society. Philosophy arises out of wonder, curiosity, and the desire to know and understand. Philosophy is thus a form of inquiry--a process of analysis, criticism, interpretation, and speculation.
Learning Faster Through Time Distortion
 The many different ways in which you can develop a photographic memory
Legitimacy of S.A.T. and A.C.T. Scores by LethalStorm
 Many things in life are unfair. Some of these things are insignificant, while others may alter lives forever. These life-altering events can be anything, from breaking a leg to losing a family member. However, most people seldom think of standardized tests as unjust, life-altering events and experiences.
Men: Art of Body Shaving by Syntex
 Everyone likes to shave their legs and everything else. Hair is not a pretty sight unless it's on our head, and sometimes not even your face..
More About How to Survive a Hurricane by fritz
 Infinityshock wrote a guide to surviving the hurricanes we have here in Florida, but having lived through them also, right where they hit the coast, I felt like I needed to write a follow-up with a few more ideas and facts that he failed to mention.If you haven't read Infinityshock's post, [Care and Feeding of a Category Five Hurricane], go do so now, and keep in mind everything he said.
My Genital Piercing by Bryiane
 The basics of why I got my hood pierced, the healing, and how I like it now.
Narcissism, Substance Abuse, and Reckless Behaviours by Sam Vaknin
 Pathological narcissism is an addiction to Narcissistic Supply, the narcissist's drug of choice. It is, therefore, not surprising that other addictive and reckless behaviours – workaholism, alcoholism, drug abuse, pathological gambling, compulsory shopping, or reckless driving – piggyback on this primary dependence.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) by Sam Vaknin
 Narcissism is a pattern of traits and behaviours which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.
New Years Resolution by Priscilla Eldridge
 I will not be controlled...
On Empathy by Sam Vaknin
 Empathy is more important socially than it is psychologically. The absence of empathy - for instance in the Narcissistic and Antisocial personality disorders - predisposes people to exploit and abuse others.
Personal Note 2 by telu mehtar
 The road is lined with windings; the mad complexity of the trees passing by is changing my feelings… The pattern of the grass is hard to discover. The fields are like wild horses running towards me… they are drowned in all hues of the green. And what about the trees? Here and there scattered like lonely warriors, they’re like a herd raging bulls. Bushy and straight, naked or clothed in green armour…
Piercing FAQ
 This is not only a LARGE FAQ file on Everything You Wanted To Know About Piercing But Were Too Chicken To Ask, but it also includes several testimonials from piercees, info on where to get stuff, addresses, etc. Good shit, for those who're into it.
Piercing and Body Art by RipSlider
 My first piercing was a rather extreme choice. I went directly for a Prince Albert. Before this, I'd never been pierced, but I liked the idea of it. When I got a summer job in a large insurance office for the summer, I found that there were a number of people, including my boss, Mandy, who had a lot. Mandy, when i joined, had 21, but they were discreet, mostly ear work, a labret, and the rest she wore under clothes.
Piercing and Other Body Art by Anne Greenblatt
 Please remember that body piercing is an inexact science - the information contained in the FAQ is culled from group knowledge and experience. Thus, opinions on almost all aspects may vary or conflict. Remember that each person's experience is different . One aspect of piercing that everyone agrees on - keep it safe and keep it clean!
Reply To "Teen Issues" by Elizabetta
 It’s politically incorrect to remark about anyone for their skin color, sexual preference, gender, or religious choice. So why the hell is it still politically correct to view teenagers as some sub-species of human?
Reply to From the Bottom, Looking Up by DTA
 The nicest people normally are those who have gone through hell and back because they are more apt to understanding other people's problems and also have had enough extreme experience to not care about the small things so much.
Reply to Intellectual Laziness of Atheists
 The intellectual laziness of writing about what you don't know.
Self-Actualization by CRaZyAmishMaN
 How self-actualization applies to modern religion and the basic polytheistic society in "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe.
Serial Killers by Sam Vaknin
 Countess Erszebet Bathory was a breathtakingly beautiful, unusually well-educated woman, married to a descendant of Vlad Dracula of Bram Stoker fame. In 1611, she was tried - though, being a noblewoman, not convicted - in Hungary for slaughtering 612 young girls.
Startup Kit for New Activist Organizations by Sol Lightman
 Steps to starting a group.
Teen Problems by XiPPiLLi
 What is everyones problem?! Everywhere you look, you see things about teens and their damn problems, and them having problems coping with their problems which never gets anywhere! Whether it be relationships, money, parents, you name it. All teens have a freakin’ problem.
The 12 Steps to recovering from an addiction by PK
The Cyber Narcissist by Sam Vaknin
 To the narcissist, the Internet is an alluring and irresistible combination of playground and hunting grounds, the gathering place of numerous potential Sources of Narcissistic Supply, a world where false identities are the norm and mind games the bon ton.
The Facts of Reality by d4v3
 There is a universe in which we all reside, but where we live is our own heads.
The Jedi Way
 This Collection is intended to be used by the Jedi candidate in conjunction with his training in the ways of "The Force".
The Myth of Mental Illness by Sam Vaknin
 Descriptive criteria aside, what is the essence of mental disorders? Are they merely physiological disorders of the brain, or, more precisely of its chemistry?
The Narcissist in the Workplace by Sam Vaknin
 The narcissist turns the workplace into a duplicitous hell. What to do?
The Penis FAQ by Suziegirl
 Answers to those questions almost every guy constantly asks.
The Perfect Lingam Massage by Jeffery
 The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam (pronounced LING-AHM, [LING rhymes with sing]) and is loosely translated as "Wand of Light." It's meaning is different in intention from the typical Western view of the penis (i.e., Cock, Prick, Dong, Dick, etc., words that may come from a limited perspective, depending on the intent of their usage). In Tantra/Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, a "Wand of Light" that channels creative energy and pleasure.
The Perfect Yoni Massage by Jeffery
 Yoni (pronounced YO-NEE) is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple." It's meaning and use is an alternate perspective from the Western view of the female genitals (i.e., Pussy, Cunt, Twat, etc., words which may or may not be complimentary depending on the intent of their usage). In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is especially helpful for men to learn.
The Power of Imagination by Adam W. Hansen
 A story of sleep deprivation, mental troubles, depression, and psychotic delusions and thier affect on a seventeen year old male in his senior year of high school.
The Slackers Manifesto by TheSellOut
 This is a declaration of "Us". Us being me and my different sides, or if paranoia allows - the personality of other people like me.
The Spirit Of Science by Tom Anderson
 How to grasp the true essence of science, in order to succeed beyond compare in almost any business and personal matters.
Thinking in a Completely Different Way by Joey
 I write this as an attempt to change the thinking methods of the general public, in order to benefit the present and future well-being of all mankind. This is the truth, and hopefully the strong will have enough sense to stop believing in the bullshit brain-washing their minds.
What is Abuse? by Sam Vaknin
 To expect too much, to denigrate, to ignore - are all modes of abuse. There is physical abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, sexual abuse. The list is long. Most abusers abuse surreptitiously. They are "stealth abusers". You have to actually live with one in order to witness the abuse.
What the f*** did you say? by Bigfoot
 My short account on hearing loss.
Who Am I? by Fuck
 Do you ever question who you are? What your purpose in life is? How you're supposed to effect this world? I do, and not knowing the answer keeps me stuck in the same state of mind.
Who Are You? by Sparrowhawk
 Take a step outside of your daily routine and gaze upon what you are really going through. Go ahead, it won't hurt. We promise.
Why? by Michael Mitteer
 "Why?" A simple question, eh? Then why, could someone tell me, is it so hard for us to say? Why can't we bring ourselves to question accepted values, or accepted beliefs?
Yay for Labrets! by Juniper
 The gripping stoy of my newest bodily addition!
 
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